2 years ago my wife made me a promise she broke it she dont know that i know what she did it was nothing to hurt our marriage i love her and dont want to fight should i comfront her or just forget it it hurt my feelings alot
2007-08-24 04:27:17 · 22 answers · asked by hiroshima9350 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what was the promise
2007-08-24 04:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by ME 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well since we don't know what the promise was or what is was that hurt you we cannot really give you too much advice. I suggest you sit down with her and tell you how you feel, afterall a married couples needs to communicate, you two need to talk it out. Whatever is bothering you, you need to tell her do not just forget about it because it will remain in the back of your head and you will continue to be hurt about it.
Good luck!
2007-08-24 13:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the promise. From what you are saying though apparently it was nothing to amount to anything anyway, so why bother with it. People break promises all of the time. Even the ones we love the most. No one is perfect.
2007-08-24 11:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her and let her know how you feel about the promise she broke. Tell her that you know she broke the promise and support it with evidence and facts that you know she broke the promise. If she loves you truly then, she will admit to breaking the promise and apologize for breaking the promise.
2007-08-24 11:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by kingjames1906 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she is your wife you should be able to sit down and talk as man and wife and see maybe there is something that made her break that promise or a misunderstanding but open communication is alot better than waiting until the next fight and it come up out of the blue
2007-08-24 11:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by Frank L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope it wouldn't start a fight to tell her that she hurt you by breaking the promise. I'd bring it up now if you think there's a chance that it will continue to bother you cuz you don't wanna keep it in till you're steaming mad.
2007-08-24 11:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by Tasha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the promise, some promises should never be made in the first place, so honestly, it depends on what it is.
2007-08-24 11:34:16 · answer #7 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her. Tell her that you know about what she did, but you love and forgive her anyway.
Your marriage is a covenant between you and God that you will take care of your wife.
Jesus never walked away from anyone. Neither should you.
Forgiving someone is the closest thing to spiritual worship that one can do. You'll sleep easier and love her more when you do.
2007-08-24 11:49:52 · answer #8 · answered by samans442 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A broken promise in a marriage is a breach of trust and needs to be worked out. However, you are sounding a bit "guilty." Perhaps you were spying on her or something and are not wanting her to find out about it. That may also be a breach of trust that you have to work out.
2007-08-24 11:32:30 · answer #9 · answered by Brent 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
tell her about it...it shouldn't matter if its not going to affect your marriage.. a promise is still a promise
2007-08-24 11:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by Lee-Lee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends what the promise was.
2007-08-24 11:37:34 · answer #11 · answered by philosophy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋