2007-08-24 02:46:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should get a divorce, especially if he doesn't love you. Do you have any kids? If you have kids together I can see why it'll be hard, but if you don't you should get a divorce. You need to be happy not miserable. If you know this and he knows you know that he loves another women but you're not doing anything about it , then he's going to think it's okay. You folks really need to sit down and do some talking and figure things out on what you folks need to do or what needs to be done. Good Luck To You....
2007-08-24 02:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by shai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decide if you are willing to stay in a one-sided marriage. once that is decide, take the appropriate steps to either erase the other woman from your mind and accept the benefits of your marriage (stability, financial security, companionship, etc.) OR decided that you want out and get a lawyer. if you currently share bank accts open a separate one for yourself and gradually set aside a little money from every paycheck. also, if there is an affair, keep any concrete evidence which can be helpful in splitting assets in a divorce. evidence is hotel receipts, phone bills indicating frequency and length of phone calls to her number, cell phone bill as well. this will help you more than just going to divorce court with "i just know he was cheating." if the divorce is uncontested, if might still help as a bargaining chip to get you a better settlement.
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2007-08-24 09:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that and its indeed a troubled quesion and feeling.
there's no other way but to confront the matter straight on but gentle and calm so as to get a full advantage of the outcome.
talk to him and ask him to decide who he wants or if you're willing to share?
be calm and expect the worst and learnt to accept them. remember that when a heart has changed, it'll be forever and if he returns, it would never be fully. " history will repeat itself".
talk it out and we need a husbands body, heart and soul for a complete relationship.
good luck.
2007-08-24 20:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by coffee_tea_or 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa.
Nasty.
Why do you still want him?
Why not kick him? hard, to the curb so he cannot stand and sue him for emotional damage and take all his favorite things and burn them in a bon-fire on the front lawn while screaming curses upon his head? also throw in his car and do some voodoo too. I'm be poking some doll with pins and heck knives and hollering how he'd get eternal pian and suffering for making me mad.
2007-08-24 10:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by lithuim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say "he loves" then it seems serious however you should talk to him first and try to learn how serious he is. And never let him go before you have all your answers.
After you talk to him go somewhere try to take a vacation and try to concentrate on what you should do. Because no one can know what he will tell you about this issue.
Try to be calm and don't panic.
Good luck
2007-08-24 09:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by Ardelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love another man.
2007-08-24 09:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
OMG If you KNOW he loves another women then why stay??? I would talk to him and if he dont want to just love you then LEAVE! Its not worth it...
2007-08-24 09:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by Gemini 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do u need to keep someone whose heart is not w u.
2007-08-24 10:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack his bags. You do not need the hurt he is going to give you.
2007-08-24 09:51:31 · answer #9 · answered by Dan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get with me babys I'll love yea for ever
2007-08-24 09:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly RIch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋