2007-08-24 08:35:46 · 15 answers · asked by somesome 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dunno. Go as him.
2007-08-24 08:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your husband so how the hell would I know if he is really happy in your personal relationship. He is YOUR husband don't you TALK to him?
2007-08-24 19:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually don't recommend books because I hate it when people recommend them to me, but I honestly wish I could buy "Love & Respect" for every married (and engaged) person I know. So try and hear me out...
It states that a woman's driving need is to feel loved and when she feels loved she feels happy. A man's driving need is to feel respect and when he feels respected he is happy. When a woman feels unloved she acts out disrespectfully to her husband, and when a man feels disrespected he acts out unloving towards his wife and the crazy cycle begins.
If this is setting off any light bulbs for you read on...
"I wrote this book out of desperation that was turned into inspiration. As a pastor, I counseled married couples and could not solve their problems. The major problem I heard from wives was, "He doesn't love me." Wives are made to love, want to love, and expect love. Many husbands fail to deliver. But as I kept studying Scripture and counseling couples, I finally saw the other half of the equation. Husbands weren't saying it much, but they were thinking, "She doesn't respect me." Husbands are made to be respected, want respect, and expect respect. Many wives fail to deliver. The result is that five out of ten marriages land in divorce court (and that includes evangelical Christians).
As I wrestled with the problem, I finally saw a connection: without love from him, she reacts without respect; without respect from her, he reacts without love. Around and around it goes. I call it the Crazy Cycle - marital craziness that has thousands of couples in its grip."
I am not even half-ways through the book and workbook, and while my husband is not studying the material with me it has already worked miracles in my no-longer-failing marriage.
If you do believe in God I highly recommend this biblically based book. It's not a "religious freak" book or anything but it's nice to know that it is based on things in the bible and not just some theory or pop psychology book, and it's been a #1 seller for over 2 years now... it's working for thousands of couples!
2007-08-27 09:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by THATgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something that you need to ask your husband!
2007-08-24 16:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happiness is a choice, not a gift from others.
You can ask him how he feels, he is the only one who knows.
2007-08-24 15:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Magic 8 ball says "Ask again later'
2007-08-24 15:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by Brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee - ask the man!
2007-08-24 16:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably as happy with you as you are with him...if you work on being happy-er, chances are, he will too.
2007-08-24 15:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not quite. You're not giving him enough.
2007-08-24 15:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by hot_filipina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to give us more details if you want an honest answer....
2007-08-24 16:39:01 · answer #10 · answered by partygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry would need more details if I was to answer this one.....
2007-08-24 15:40:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋