I told my wife that I had cheated on her and that my girlfriend is pregnant. My wife was mad and hurt when I told her. My girlfriend wants me to leave my wife and be with her. I love both women and I will definitely be there for both of my children. I want to be there for both women. You have no idea how much I love them.
2007-08-24 07:54:10 · 31 answers · asked by Handsome Stranger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The problem is they probably do not want to share you with each other. You will most likely have to choose just one, or maybe end up with neither.
2007-08-24 08:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm if u dont want to go on Jerry Springer then lets see........U first need to fix things with your wife. She may never recover from this and dont b surprised if she leaves you high and dry- I would. U betrayed her trust- loyalty and love all in one shot. You hurt her like noone else ever could my friend. You need to search your heart and soul and decide which one of them you could not live without. Imagin: which one could you NOT stand to see each and everyday? That is your answer! You can always be there for the child- visitation as well as child support. Search your heart deeply because keeping them both on the line WILL NOT WORK for very long at all I promise you!
2007-08-24 08:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
♥ First off... you need to keep your "member" in your pants... I never understood how someone can cheat & swear they are in love or love both women [[or men]]. I hope you got a good enough job to support both woman while they are pregnant & to support your children after they are born... honestly I hope your wife divorces you and your gf leaves you [[because we all know that the married man never leaves his wife for the gf]].
2007-08-24 08:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by NCIS ♥ Addict 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, certainly I have no idea about "how much" you "love" your wife and your girlfriend, but I have idea about how irresponsible, selfish you are. If you are some billionaire sheik in the Mid East, is Ok to have two wives or more, but if you're in USA, it is not. I don't think that your wife will love the idea of sharing you with another woman. Your lack of morals is amazing, mister, you cannot love anybody: you only live to satisfy your big ego, and your lust. I pity the woman who married you.
2007-08-24 08:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by Idon'tlivehere 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you love them you will leave both of them alone. They can do much better than you and I say that because now that everything is out in the open you're only going to be running back and forth. Don't do that to them because you're only going to hurt them.
Also, eventually you're going to leave them and do the same thing to some unexpecting woman and be in the same boat yet a third and fourth time.
SO PLEASE DO THEM THE FAVOUR BY LEAVING AND LETTING THEM GET BACK ON TRACK WITH THEIR LIVES... WITHOUT A LYING, NO GOOD, S.O.B.
2007-08-24 08:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tosha P 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, this is hilarious. ideal stuff. each and each time i think like complaining approximately my better half, i will think of of you and be attentive to that i'm a fortunate fortunate woman. techniques you, it is not all your fault, because of the fact your lady pal ought to have wide-unfold you have been married and she or he have been given pregnant besides, so she will't be that bright. it is one element to date a married guy, yet yet another one completely to get knocked up by using one. She could have by no ability gotten in touch with you and actual taken steps to guard herself from an undesirable being pregnant, till she became hoping to seize you so which you may go away the spouse. sounds like it backfired. you need to make a determination, with which woman will you reside as an entire time better half. till you're a practising polygamist in Utah, you won't be in a position to marry the two females and carry the youngsters in a mutual family individuals, (yet that does artwork for some human beings, and you're in worry any way, why do no longer you communicate with the spouse & lady pal and advise plural marriage???) after all, you will in all possibility and up helping the two young infants financially. So determine you're looking after your well-being. sturdy success you hell raiser. guy. How do you get your self in such worry?
2016-12-16 04:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by galle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for your wife; a bit sorry for your girlfriend, very sorry for your kids--- and definitively NOT sorry for you !!!
You must be a very selfish and immature man....You should know by now that NOTHING is free in life,and that every decision we make will not only affect us- it will also affect others.
You need to re-evaluate your life and learn the true meaning of the words "love", "commitment" and "reponsability".
Men like you give decent men a bad reputation!
2007-08-24 10:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be time to go have a vasectomy before anyone else becomes pregnant by you. I hope you have lots of money. Time to pay the piper! If I were your wife I would leave and take everything!
2007-08-24 08:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by TABBY 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
WOW!!
My sister had a baby by a guy this month, who only a week before had another baby with another girl. I think she is stupid for letting him hang around, he cheated on her. Whats your wife going to do now? Will she leave you?
2007-08-24 08:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all-
galactically stupid
playa rules
# 1-don't get involved with anyone that you are not prepared to leave in 5 seconds if you feel the heat coming around the corner.
# 2-don't leave any trace of yourself behind that can be used against you in a court of law
# 3-if you ain't in it to win it, then get the hell out!!
On behalf of Hizonna Snoop D-O-double G-Y, I hereby revoke your playa privileges.
you are dismissed you silly rabbit
be a father,not just a sperm donor. try to at least get that right.
2007-08-24 08:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by CGAA72 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋