I don't even just like more than one guy at a time, If I like someone I like them for a long time. If I go out with someone, I don't even look at other guys. But my friends are into dating multiple people you know? I can't do that period.
2007-08-24 08:28:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dating is one thing. Sometimes it's ok to date a few people casually when you have no commitment. When you truly love someone however, you don't want to spend time with someone else. You want to be with the person you love. They become you best friend, your partner. There's an old fable that says that people once had 4 arms and 4 legs, 2 heads and 1 heart. The gods threw down thunderbolts and split them apart, So that people had 2 legs and 2 arms and 1 head. But since we had only half a heart we would spend our lives looking for our other half. The other half of our heart. When you find the other half of your heart you want to become a whole heart. You want to share your life with the one you love. Your bad times and good times, everything. To truly love someone is to consider them before yourself--that is love; the greatest gift that God gave us. It is the essence of himself--God is love!!!!
2007-08-24 09:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by Deslok of Gammalon 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Asianbarbie. Everybody is different! Some people can handle many and some can only handle just one. Some people get bored, with the same person all the time. They want someone fresh, good, new, exciting and different! If I was a lucky guy getting and attracting many women, I would remain single and have multiple dating. But unfortunately, I am not a lucky guy, so I pretty much stay married with just one love. Extremely pretty people can date many multiples. While us, not so pretty people, are pretty much stuck with only one person. I do feel extremely happy deep inside myself, when more than one woman, truely loves me for who I am. [[Feels very good inside, when more than one woman, loves and cares for you to death.]] :o)
2007-08-24 18:16:17 · answer #2 · answered by pain_of_unhappiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if its not for you, then it's not for you. I think your question largely depends on personality type. Some people become emotionally attached very quickly to their boyfriend/girlfriend and could never date multiple people at once, and at the other end of the spectrum you have individuals who simply wont allow themselves to become attached therefore don't have much of a problem dating multiple people ( I try not to date these ones).
I agree with you though, I couldn't do that.
2007-08-24 15:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by crysent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
asain barbie, Good for you sweety on dating ! My thoughts on your question would be no, definetly not ! My x wife did so we divorced. I am a bible believer so for me it is fall truly in love with one and you are comitted for eternity !
2007-08-24 15:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you answered your own question.
Some people can do this. Others can't/won't.
2007-08-24 15:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by Hekler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some can, others can't
2007-08-24 15:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by Backhoe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible but that is not being faithful.
2007-08-24 16:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by sport freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you allow it.
2007-08-24 15:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's definitely possible.....
2007-08-24 16:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by partygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋