Marriage & Divorce - 8 August 2007

We have been together for 10 years now and I feel like for some reason or another we feel like our intimated moments are getting less attention and I need to fix that. I have ideas in mind but I just want to see what other people have to say about it. I would like the input from everybody but mostly women please. I am talking about from forplay to what positions they like best etc. thank you.

2007-08-08 08:53:06 · 24 answers · asked by Willie D 1

When your a married couple, but then want a divorce i always thought that you split the money, bills, etc half-and-half. But a girlfriend of mine is trying to divorce and they have kids, but the kids will be staying mostly with her husband, so does that rule still apply?

2007-08-08 08:51:30 · 6 answers · asked by FUSE 2

2007-08-08 08:51:18 · 15 answers · asked by sakpase13 1

I have been at my job for more than 2 years, & I work with only one other lady & our boss. She has been here for much longer & has been having an affair with our boss for the entire time she has been employed. The boss is not married, but SHE is! I'm also friends with her husband & often get put in the position to lie about her whereabouts to him. Lately, she has been trying to act like she is my boss & tells me what to do ALL the time! She goes absolutely nuts when our boss hands me a project without consulting her opinion first, often times leaving the office crying like a pathetic little kid! I've really had about all I can take of her antics! What's worse is that I date our bosses son, so she gets super jealous if we all go out to eat or something without telling her every detail! I love my job and really enjoy what I do, that is why I don't want to find another job. I've thought about secretly informing her hubby but don't want to get in the middle of it all! What would you do?

2007-08-08 08:49:48 · 25 answers · asked by thursday84 2

2007-08-08 08:43:52 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

In order for counseling to be effective, BOTH parties have to go and have to WANT to change. Just like alcoholism. In 99 percent of the cases you give "counseling" as an answer, it will be wasted money. Sorry, that is just the way it works. However, if you can get him(or her) to agree to really try and change then by all means go to counseling. But in cases of abuse it will not work. Your best bet is to clean out the bank account and GET AWAY FAST!! Good Luck!

2007-08-08 08:42:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

After separating? Or even after the divorce? When did you really start to feel comfortable with the prospect of entering the "dating game" again? Was it "someone" that made you feel that way, or was it that you had finally realized the "time" was right? I'd appreciate any & all serious answers (really, I would because that's what I'm going through now) -- I'd also appreciate some funny answers, so if you haven't experienced this "sensation," go ahead and give me your two cents, maybe I can get at least a good laugh or two out of your response! Thanks!!!

2007-08-08 08:41:10 · 20 answers · asked by Andy K 6

come on, admit it, most of us know when we are being lied to, what does your partner do that makes you think "you're lying!!!"

2007-08-08 08:37:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

the person who was telling you?

2007-08-08 08:34:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has been calling me names ALOT lately and just really treating me like crap and i want to leave and go out on my own but....I still love him I just dont fee IN LOVE with him. we have not been married that long but right after we got married everything started to change....he called me a fat as$ yesterday and got mad and said "suck my D#$% B#$%ch" and I got SOOO mad I told him to pack his stuff and go but he didnt and he slept on the couch....he called this morning apologizing and I was like "yeah ok" and he was saying he loved me and all but he ahs to apologize so much it feels like he doesnt mean it. But when I think about me leaving or him for that matter I feel sick to my stomach....and I feel a lump in my throat and feel like crying.....why? He makes me so mad and I want to go out on my own.....please help me.....give me some kind of advice....please....I am at a loss for words.....what do I do?!

2007-08-08 08:29:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

in other words, what is going through his mind when he tells the mistress that he's going back to his wife? what makes him want to go back to the wife? why do they have the fling in the first place if they aren't even going to leave their wives?

2007-08-08 08:28:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

He told me he wanted to separate and then the next day called me and asked me if I wanted to see a movie with him. ???

One day he will call and tell me he can't stand me and the next it's "I just wanted to call and see how you're doing".

Any ideas?

2007-08-08 08:23:50 · 18 answers · asked by Leaving on a jetplane 3

2007-08-08 08:22:59 · 80 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents don't get along and I don't remember the last time they did.
They're always fighting and I'm always stuck in the middle.
They somehow back stab each other using me (eg: dad asks me to book him a flight somewhere, mom has the credit card and won't give it up but tells me to tell dad that there is no money...etc..many examples from both sides).
I'm sick of it but can't really confront them. I want them to divorce but they have been living like this for over 10 years.
I'm trying to move out.

2007-08-08 08:20:36 · 11 answers · asked by Jmyooooh 4

How do you get over someone that liked you and you liked, but now you are married and have a baby.......
The guy is a little famous in my community.....a singer......so How do get over him?

2007-08-08 08:16:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dads girlfriend is so mean to me and my friends and my moms boyfriend hits me and threatens to kill and abuse me. What Should I Do Please Help Me Before It Is Too Late!!!

2007-08-08 08:15:54 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Question for the wives.

On a scale of 1-5 (one being the worst, five being the best) how would you currently rate your sex life??

I've been married for six years, and I'm in my mid-thirties. In the beginning, I would have given my sex life a "4" (it was very good, but not great - honestly, i've only had sex with 1 guy in my life where the sex was truly GREAT!!,but still, my husband was very good). But now, it's probably dropped down to a "3", and sometimes a "2".

Anyway, how would you rate your sex life with your husband(1-5)??
If it isn't a "5" what could he do to make it better?? Best answer goes to the one who shares the most info about why they chose the number they did.

2007-08-08 07:58:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

don't get me wrong, this is not my opinion. I was talking with this just married couple about a married guy that made an offer to me (while his wife just had their 1st baby, no less). and then the husband of my friend said to me 'oh, if he made it clear, it's just sex, he's honest, and it's ok'. Huh?
It's 'ok'? So, i suppose if it was the other way around, and his wife was 'casually' having sex that's 'ok' because she's 'honest' that 'it's just sex'. Are we talking double standards here? Or am I too uptight?
Honest to me is 'I just married you, I want you for my sex partner' or 'I married you but the thing is dead and I want casual sex to keep me going, so to be honest , let's split, because it's not working'. what do you say?

2007-08-08 07:53:30 · 20 answers · asked by sarah kay 5

My wife and I are currently looking to get divorced. We are civil, but not really speaking.

We have agreed to get a mediator to divide assets rather than have attorneys involved on both sides.

Does it really matter who serves who with the divorce papers? Will it impact anything if I wait to be served, or should I proactive in serving her?

2007-08-08 07:47:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i used to work with her. a couple times a week she comes to my apartment early before work and we have crazy sex. no one knows about this. if you met her, you would never guess she does this. she says she is happily married and her family seems like the perfect family. she says she just needs more.
my question is, how common are women like this that maintain a perfect outside persona to the world and have this other side where they spend a few mornings a week b a n g i n g the living you know what out of a guy 10 years younger than her that no one knows about?
how common is this?

2007-08-08 07:43:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sounds strange but I think my brother is happy about having a healthy baby but I feel his girlfriend trapped him. He is a little down..seems sad...kinda stopped talking to the ex-wife because of this and feeling it was the rt thing to do. Although he was married before , didn't have kids, but remained civil friends with the ex wife. His girlfriend was a bit jealous naturally then all of a sudden she is pregnant.

2007-08-08 07:32:36 · 11 answers · asked by Tropical 1

Mix messages from my ex-gf. What should I do???
We broke up 6 weeks ago. We still talk and see each other and I still think she has feelings for me. She doesn't want me to move back in cause she's not sure of things though. After 6 weeks we got tired and she told me it was best for us to break-up for good because it was not leading for her to want me back. All of the sudden after two days she start texting me 2-3 times a day and calls me "Hun" and "XOXO" on the texts. But, also she wrote me in myspace that I'm a great guy and that we have fun together and that we should still be friends. She also still after 6 weeks have in her myspace "In a relationship".

I don't get this lady. What does she want?? Why all these mix messages?? I do know that when a girl wants out, she won't even give a guy anytime of the day so PLEASE HELP!!!!!

Should I call her right now and ask straight forward what she wants or should I leave it like that and see what comes out of this?????? I still love her and like to get back with her

2007-08-08 07:21:36 · 15 answers · asked by Con4Life 3

Men: Have you ever cheated or wanted to cheat on ur wife or gf? If so, what were the reasons? Was it because of sexual boredom or was it because of other reasons? Just curious....

2007-08-08 06:57:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just know she'll find a good man to love her and take care of her. It will allow her to find her identity in his success.

Honestly, she is smarter than most of you.

Since she is 8 now, I probably only have 8-10 years to get ready. Should I be getting the dresses, renting the hotel for the reception, etc?

2007-08-08 06:52:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have seen families in trailors with like 12 children all from different unfit young mothers who do drugs and drain society's resources.

I am from a "red state" and this problem is more prevalent in the south.

It is very common for a 25 year old, unwed mother, having 4 kids, all living with their grandmother, who also takes care of more kids who aren't her own.

Has anyone else seen this? I am in juvenile rehabilition, and I see a lot of this in my outpatient counseling. Do these horrible breeding centers disgust anyone else?

DOES ANYONE EVEN KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT--HAVE YOU EVER SEEN ONE OF THESE FAMILIES I SPOKE OF, AND ARE YOU FAMALIAR WITH THE PROBLEMS THEY PRODUCE?

2007-08-08 06:43:43 · 10 answers · asked by Voltaire's book Candide 3

My husband & I have been together for 14 yrs. Sure, the last 5 years has been tough. Two kids, sports, school, both of us working & worst of all not communicating. I think we both forgot to be a couple. I even told him a few times that I felt like we were roomates.He said he didn't know what i was talking about, everything was fine.So there i was not happy then I got a transfer to another province (which he wanted by the way) and then 2 weeks later he told me he accepted a job where we were so he was not going.Then b/c we dont communicate, he thought I wanted to still go and I thought he wanted me to go so the emotional seperation & fighting started.I then went to him about a month later & said I changed my mind & didnt want to go but he said go anyways. Then I was told my co was moving here!I was so excited but he said he still wanted me out & he was confused & needed space. So I left. This is killing me.we still talk but i want him back so bad. What do I do?

2007-08-08 06:42:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I own a business a customer, came like does most days . He was telling my how great I was etc. My husband said "Do you want take up payments on her?"

2007-08-08 06:32:24 · 15 answers · asked by just wondering 1

You know . . . the game where the first person was given a card with a saying on it, and that person whispered in the ear of the person next to them, and so on and so on. And by the end of the circle, the last person told everyone what was whispered to them, and it wasn't even close to the original saying on the card?

If the Bible is the word of God, and several different men transcribed the word of God, and the message passed through different means before it was even transcribed, isn't it possible that the composers of the Bible got some of God's word wrong?

Note: I'm not saying the Bible is "wrong." I'm asking is it possible that the Bible lacks accuracy?

2007-08-08 06:25:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has cheated on me in the past and I suspect he is up to it again. He leaves the house about 9:30 every night and doesn't come back until 3 or 4 in the morning. He keeps coming up with excuses as to where he has been, but I don't believe him. I want to be able to follow him and know exactly where he is really going and what he is really doing, but I don't want him to catch me. Any ideas how to pull this off??

2007-08-08 06:23:12 · 12 answers · asked by two_minute_girl 2

2007-08-08 06:19:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous