Marriage & Divorce - 8 August 2007

we don't fight or argue much we hardly talk either, my spouse has no clue, I don't love them, they're so controlling and can be frightening at times, so can't express myself to them... I'm still in love with an ex love have been for many years, we really didn't have a closure, the ex has no idea I feel this way, the ex is not married, what am I to do?

2007-08-08 17:59:47 · 6 answers · asked by Greeneyes 6

Know someone that is choosing a friend over their spouse. This friend could be temporary, the spouse is commited.

2007-08-08 17:55:01 · 18 answers · asked by denim_31356 1

2007-08-08 17:41:54 · 16 answers · asked by Enoch F 1

We've just been married for 3 years , we had a boy (18 months) . Lately I always feel that he doesn't love me anymore . When he came back from working , he always looking for my boy , not me . When he saw me , he hardly have something to say to me . We do not have any romantic life , even when we are having sex , at first we had a 3 times a week , but now hardly have once in a month . When I asked abt it , he said " oh pls , I'm so tired " . But he still have the energy to play badminton . What should I do now ? Should I have a divorce ?

2007-08-08 16:30:18 · 25 answers · asked by Wife 1

I have this huge date tomorrow... basically I met a girl through college a while back. We spoke briefly and just got back in touch. We have been talking on the phone and instant messenger a lot.. and we finally set a date up. However, we are always complementing each other, and talking how we hope it works out, and all there is left is physical attraction. It's like we constantly tell each other how we hope it works out and if it becomes serious... it's got a lot of hype.

Anyway my date is on Friday night... and I am nervous. I've been on many dates before but this one is getting me anxious.. I am 21, and deep down want things to work out with this girl.. but what if it doesn't? How do I calm down? It's like I am having thoughts of it not working out, awkward silence, and stuff

2007-08-08 16:24:55 · 9 answers · asked by aa 1

But regretted it very much later on?? Do you wish you never let that other person go and that the grass wasn't greener?? What happened.

My boyfriend ended our relationship and I wonder if he regrets it now, a year later. He is no longer with the other girl he left me for. I just wonder.

Thanks.

2007-08-08 16:13:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

iv been super sick today ever sense i woke up with my daughter who is one. my husband slept in and i felt like crap!!! i have these migranes that still hasnt gone away. they hurt so bad i have been crying. i have never felt like this before. i cant even stand up or i feel like throughing up or fainting. i did through up twice today also. anyways my husband was giving me crap and calling me lazy cause i wouldnt do certian things. he went to work at 2 and i called him and said i hurt sooo bad is there anyway you could come home , i cant even take care of our daughter. and i would have asked someone but were new here and dont know anyone at all. anyways he said sorry but i cant and im going over to a friends tonight and wont be back tell morning. he gets off at 11 pm. do you think he should have done something? im really emotional now and so sick!. we havent been getting along either. he treats me so bad. i found out today he was looking up porn and it hurt my feelings so bad. also.......

2007-08-08 15:50:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please help. My hormones from having my baby arent in order like they use to be. My daugter is 2 months old. Me and my husband havent' really been that intemant since she was born. I guess its because it hurts , i dont know why. . but also i am never in the mood, and when i try to be, its just too hard. I feel like we're going down hill, and i dont want to seperate.. We've been together 7 years. He says all he wants to do is make love.. but its soo hard. What can i do .. Please help!!

2007-08-08 15:43:38 · 16 answers · asked by lilmomma86 3

It is what it is and I don't know where to go from here. We have been married for 6 yrs - together for 8. He is very attractive, but I don't feel "that way" about him anymore. Can intimacy be revived? I don't place a lot of faith in counseling where sexual attraction is concerned. It is either there or it's not. Suggestions?

2007-08-08 15:41:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my ring and what it represents don't get me wrong...and I'm not trying to sound greedy just sometimes I day dream about having a huge rock on my finger. And I wanted to know if any other chicks felt the same. As I write this I can hear Marilyn Monroe in my head singing"Cause diamonds are a girls best friend" lol

2007-08-08 15:35:56 · 13 answers · asked by tookoolfool 4

And he goes back to his wife who he said he has been seperated from !!!! What the heck in the world........said I am like a drug to him............that he loves having sex with me.......... Someone needs to tell his wife!!!!

2007-08-08 15:34:07 · 11 answers · asked by fweezti 1

like my husband brings me coffee in bed in the morning, so sweet!

2007-08-08 15:16:44 · 16 answers · asked by James 4

Aside from physical attributes, what qualities do women look for in a potential mate?

Should he be ambitious, creative, good with children, financially stable? Which of these would matter most to you?

2007-08-08 15:15:01 · 17 answers · asked by posttk421 3

My husband's sister & her husband have been part of a domestic discipline relationship for a little over a year now. (For those of you who do not know, it is when a couple gives their consent for either the man or woman; usually the man; to lead the household. If he feels it is needed, he can punish the woman when she does something wrong - usually by spanking, writing lines, cornertime, etc.) It has worked tremendously for their relationship, especially since they were considering divorce earlier last year. My husband's sister's husband is constantly telling her that if she is going to behave like a child he will treat her like one. My husband wants to try it to see how it goes, but I'm still wondering if I should. My sister-in-law's husband uses paddles, belts & other implements for punishment, always on her bare bottom. My sister-in-law insists that it works but I just want a few extra opinions from SERIOUS people. Any experience with this?? Thank you! Only positive responses please

2007-08-08 14:56:34 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

are mariage is like were roomates not lovers or best friends anymore. Sex life is totaly dead

2007-08-08 14:36:19 · 16 answers · asked by thunderfoot1977 1

i think my hubby is cheating on me :( for the last 2 months my hubby has left a couple times a month to supposedly go see his sister because she was just diagnosed with cancer and they are really close. well he left yesterday to go see her or so i thought and i tried to call his cell phone a little while ago to ask him something and it was shut off which is weird because he never usually shuts his phone off but i didn't think it was a big deal or anything so i called his sisters house and when i talked to his sister she told me that he wasn't there and i asked if she knew where he went and she said no she hasn't even talked to my hubby for almost a week and she hasn't seen him since the last time i was with him which was over a month and a half ago. i never thought that he could or ever would do this to me. i trusted him. i am so confused and i really don't know what to do? any advice would be appreciated.

2007-08-08 14:21:24 · 25 answers · asked by me 5

Where did y'all meet?

2007-08-08 14:21:15 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wife was dating someone at office, now seperated, with anticipated divorce (however no legal action has been taken), is it OK for the guy to reach out to other potential mates?

2007-08-08 14:17:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-08 14:16:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it normal for a girl to doubt her man's love even when he means it daily and constantly. but she don't believe him, even if he truly is a nice guy who is doing what he knows how and doing his very best to make her happy, is it normal for a girl to think that he does not love her? i mean this guy is putting his heart and soul into this girl but she does not believe him. what else is he supposed to do? is it normal for a girl to treat him like dirt. this guy needs help badly......

2007-08-08 14:10:59 · 27 answers · asked by triplet 2

Or should I keep it to myself and try not to let it bother me. He thinks the world of her and I am sure he is going to get defensive about my comments, but should I say it anyway? It is frustrating the way he is getting used.

2007-08-08 14:09:06 · 8 answers · asked by Heather C 1

It's not like i'm gay I mean, whats the big idea I bet people won't be mean to someone if they said they want to be gay but if I want to be with my sister its a big deal I guess but I think people are hipocrits and not being fair, what do you guys think? I really love her maybe you guys dont understand! We dont want to have kids but maybe we can adopt.

2007-08-08 14:04:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Normaly I use tomato juice as recommended by the locals. But if just doesn't seem to be strong enough!

I figure if I can use rubbing alcohol...it should disenfect my cave like a nuke!

2007-08-08 14:01:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it so his wife won't become suspicous? Is he still emotionally attached to his wife? Or does he get added excitment thinking he can have more than one women at a time. Its confusing when you find out your spouse has a girlfriend on the side, yet everything at home seems "normal". What do guys out there have to say on this?

2007-08-08 13:52:52 · 45 answers · asked by REBECCA B 3

I do everyday. This here is my favoriate walmart outfit!

2007-08-08 13:50:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

LOL.. this was a question on TV a few minutes ago, and they stated 30% of men said they would give birth if they could... LOL.. so, many of you men were with your wives through pregnancy and the delivery.. would you do it if you could? LOL.. and never mind how it would come out. ;)

2007-08-08 13:44:00 · 6 answers · asked by Wildflower 6

I wonder sometimes when people put questions here whether somehow they word the question to get the answer they want. I really want and need objective perspectives and ideas about what is going on with me. Here goes...

I have been married for 13 years. Our marriage has been fairly typical I guess, ups and downs, problems and joys. My hubby is kind, helpful, good with the kids....but he has proven himself to be a liar, setting up secret bank accounts and email accounts and lying point blank o my face as though I was an idiot when I found him looking at various things on the internet. When we have sex, it gets results lets say, but I always have to instigate it and it isn't especially exciting and I feel like I have to tell him what to do EVERY time which after 13 years is starting to bug me. I'm at a point where I don't even care what he is looking at on the internet or who he is chatting with, but why lie to me about it like a little kid...I know he does it. For a long time o

2007-08-08 13:36:32 · 10 answers · asked by Nati 4

I was at a clubs in Brazil and one in Mexico. The people down their in my opinion were ready to engage at anytime. It certainly would be shut down here in the states! I saw things that made me very excited, but at the same time wonder where am I..... what do you think?

2007-08-08 13:14:14 · 4 answers · asked by Mr. Cadillac Jones 2

2007-08-08 12:22:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a man gives you an heirloom that has been passed down through generations of his family and you have no children to pass it on to. Would you give back a hunk of diamond like that so it stays in the family and goes on to a next generation or do you feel no obligation?

2007-08-08 12:13:00 · 37 answers · asked by bullheadbrawlers2004 2