And he goes back to his wife who he said he has been seperated from !!!! What the heck in the world........said I am like a drug to him............that he loves having sex with me.......... Someone needs to tell his wife!!!!
2007-08-08 15:34:07 · 11 answers · asked by fweezti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Um, the wife is not the issue here. You are. You have to have had some inkling that he was still with her. Yet you stayed with him. It is obvious that he is using you as many married men do. Get out of the situation. Stay away from him and his wife. He will get what is coming to him, but your sweetest revenge will be dropping him.
2007-08-08 15:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer. After 5 1/2 yrs he should have made a major decision about his marriage + chose between his marriage + you. I think you are on a rollercoaster ride + as long as you are there for him, he will take you + still go back to his wife. You can't help but feel sorry for her. Sex with you is so good, yet not good enough to leave his wife for you. Maybe he's staying because of kids, or guilt, she has the money (rich) or maybe he really does love her but he also LOVEs to fool around on her. These guys very seldom change. One of his parents probably cheated too. And how do you know you and his wife are the only 2 women in his life. Atleast you know about her, but does she know about you ? She no doubt suspects. Lose him. You deserve better, someone who will give up almost anything for you. : )
2007-08-08 15:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by toobingaddict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been seeing a man who's been seperated for 5 years? Could he not come up with enough money in 5 years to pay for a divorce? Sounds like he's been married the whole time and you just got taken for a ride.
2007-08-08 15:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You knew there was a chance he'd go back to his wife being he wasn't divorced. You were his free prostitute. Now you know why I preach so hard against having sex with people you aren't married to. Time for you to turn over a new leaf. No more sex until you are married. Good luck.
2007-08-08 15:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off contact with him immediately! You're way better than that!
What if you were his wife? How would you feel if you're husband was doing that to you?
If he paid for the vacation, then just tell him to find someone else and ditch him!
2007-08-08 15:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Kellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you know telling his wife won't bring him back to you. If anything, he'll resent you. And next time, don't date someone who isn't divorced yet, because in the end, his history is longer with his wife, and they ALWAYS go back to the wife.
2007-08-08 15:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got ............. Sure he loves having sex with you their is no attachments to you. Get away fast Run Run Run
Oh and your Name????
Does that have anything to do with the problem?
2007-08-08 15:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop seeing him. that is what is wrong this world that people cheat. Date your own man and leave her man alone. he will never leave her and if by chance he does leave her for you. "how he came to you is how he will leave you"
2007-08-08 15:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by shelly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find it really annoying when women date married men and then whine about it... You want to screw up your life... go ahead, but don't whine about it when it blows up.
2007-08-08 16:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by Bentley 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u need to stay where u are away from him...Move on and forget him...
2007-08-08 15:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by a g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋