2007-08-08 14:16:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Has this happened to anyone else? Or am I just fooling myself?
2007-08-08 14:17:01 · update #1
First you see a picture of each other, then you start sending letters to each other. The rest is history. Yes, you can and do, people are doing it all the time. That is what the dating sites are getting paid to do for people. Of course they will charge an arm and a leg to answer some stuid questions about yourself, which is how they get their money, plus they are the middle man, You can and, looks like you have already done that. I think it would be more fun if you do it yourself, anyway.
So let's recap this:
1.) You sent him a picture of yourself
2.) He sent you a picture of himself
3.) You are in the process of talking to him with e-mail...ect.
4.) Personal information about each other been exchanged
5.) Both hearts beating as one
6.) Both know that meeting each other in person is a MUST
Sounds like you both got it going on ! ! !
Just don't agree to meet him alone or, in a place where there is little or no other people around. It is safer in a public place, like the park or some place out in the open and NEVER after dark.
Stay safe, is the key here.
God Bless the Both of You.
2007-08-08 14:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens to everyone..I have experienced it personally...a guy started talking to me on AIM and we started talking a lot and texting and talking on the phone every night and I really started to fall for him...I felt like I could tell him anything and he soon became one of my best friends...the only thing is...he was a friend of an old friend of mine...that is the only reason I continued to talk to him...you have to be careful with people you don't know personally b/c they could be a sexual predator...In my case..after a year we met and we are crazy about each other..I have met a few of his friends and gotten to know one of his cousins very well..and even though we still live 3 hours apart I believe that we will be together one day...so I would say just be careful...and no i don't think its weird...i think it was the greatest thing that ever happened to me....be smart and be safe and i hope for the best...but never agree to meet someone you met over the Internet alone...i took a friend with me and i felt safe...
2007-08-08 14:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by I LOVE HIM<3 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband online. He lived in New York and me here in Idaho. Didn't meet in person until a year and a half after we met. He moved out here not long after. So far we've known each other for 6 years, married for 2 of those with a little 3 month old girl :)
It can happen.
Edit: To those who say it's not love, I'll haveto disagree because I love my husband and he loves me. We're happily married. You just need to open your mind to it.
2007-08-08 14:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People meet in the darndest of places these days honey. Although it's not typical, it's also not unheard of. Just be careful. What you are envisioning, may be a far cry from reality. And if you are going to meet, I cannot stress "PUBLIC PLACE" enough. It's always better to be safe than sorry.
Wish ya luck!
2007-08-08 14:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is natural to have feelings for a person you've come to know in that way. Just be careful, though, because not everyone presents their true self in cyberspace. You can't truly love the person until you physically spend time with them and see if they really are what you have come to believe they are. Meet them... good luck.
2007-08-08 14:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by wondering 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On the internet you can be whoever you want.. I fell in love with a guy I met first but while we were really talking we only i.m.ed texted and phoned.. Everytime he wanted to hang out he always wanted to be alone and my mom didnt go for it.. anyways we got into a fiht because of my stupid ex-bff and we dont talk anymore.. my point is becareful and yes it is wierd
2007-08-08 14:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lily 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, GET A LIFE !!!!! You have no idea what love is if you have not even met this person. I'm sorry to seem rude but seriously, turn off the computer and go outside. There's a whole world out there.
2007-08-08 14:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by robbie798 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sally I have been cybering and mailing and chatting since 1996 and let me tell you, it isn't love Babes. It is a lust a fantasy and an attraction for something you know is out of reach!!! You have to actually meet in person before you can call it love. good luck!!
2007-08-08 14:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you can be attracted to the person you are talking to. be careful about thinking you are in love. You need to spend time with someone and really get to know them and their personality before you will know for sure if you are in love. Give yourself time.
2007-08-08 14:27:01 · answer #9 · answered by green_clovers66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're in love? Maybe you feel strongly about them, that's understandable. But, spending time with a person is different from talking to them about certain things.
2007-08-08 14:20:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋