Marriage & Divorce - 8 August 2007

DH hid info he was the father of another child. He found out last July. He got served with papers to his old address and a default order entered 3,000 miles away from us for child support. Apparently they took part of his income tax return. All communication has been sent to his Mother's address and he is IGNORING it. He is just going to let them continue to take his tax returns every year for the next 10 years because the child is already 7-8 years old.

He turned in one paper stating he didn't make what they presumed he made so I guess they are going to modify the order to god knows what. I am afraid about the arrears, don't they arrest you if you don't pay on time every month or is there some lead way with times. He just believes it's best for them to take his tax return yearly. Well how does this affect me when we file jointly? Am I liable for any of this at all?
I am in disbelief, and I am afraid for our family. We can't afford $300 a month out of pocket we're on WIC and welfare!

2007-08-08 02:08:02 · 11 answers · asked by VanillaRoses7 1

I am so sick of this woman. She cheated on him twice for long periods of time while they were married. They had been seperated for three years when I met him. However, we have been together for quite a while now and she is still calling him and trying to get him to leave me, telling him that he can have the couch in her house. The only problem in our marriage is this woman. I know he dosn't encourage this behavior, however what can I do to get her to stop it. They have children together so contact is important as is a non combative environment with their parents. I am really feeling ticked today.

2007-08-08 02:04:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guy's i need help PLEASE!

2007-08-08 02:03:29 · 20 answers · asked by ~*Redbutterfly*~ 1

I have done everything I could to try to get child support from my ex husband, now he is getting a felony. I sent his mom and his best friend a letter with my phone number on it to call me before he ends up getting arrested. Do I just sit and wait to see what happens? He lives in a different state and I know how difficult it is going to be to catch him. He keeps running and I don't know what to do.

2007-08-08 01:48:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been divorced of 11 yrs i get my daughter every other weekend and holidays, every year we go back to court because of lies the 13 yr will say about me and my new family.she has stole from me, lies to me, we go to family counsling (court appointed) and i am always made out to be the wrong one.. anymore when she comes over we cant wait untill its time for her to go home. she has to younger sisters that now wonder why she has to come over, when all she does is complan that shes there. i wonder if its time for me to just give up?

2007-08-08 01:44:27 · 16 answers · asked by mrs_jp2000 1

I love my husband very much.But i'm not happy with him.He never consider my request seriously.I love to kiss him but he never kiss me.We discussed about it many times but he always sys that he will and he never do it.for me without Kiss,sex is boring.Why he never understand my feelings.we have good sex but i want nice kiss.Even if i try to kiss him he push me away.This irritates me.Because of this issue i can not divorce him.This is not right.Can anyone help me to make him understand my feelings.serious answers only please.

2007-08-08 01:43:05 · 9 answers · asked by Urvi 1

My husband and me just got married last mnth but he spending our money and I not sure where it is going because there is nothing to show for it But the huge problem is that our rent is late because he did this last week to and the week before and we had 250 set aside and today I found out that all he has left is a 100.00. He says he spending it on things we need if that is the case why did I have to pull money out of the christmas funds for diapers and milk. What is going on. HELP ME!!! He won't hand his checks over so I can manage the money we have 2 kids and we can not be on the street because of this.

2007-08-08 01:40:01 · 12 answers · asked by Krista S 2

Happy or Not?

me, married and for the most paty happy....

2007-08-08 01:30:53 · 17 answers · asked by Angelbaby7 6

my bf and i got in a huge argument the other night about how we are so tired of fighting each other over the same thing, my feelings, bc i drill it to him how i want him to get it, when i tell him ym feelings are hurt he says sorry, it doesnt sound sincere so i nag him about it til i honestly believe it.anyway, we got into it and i was crying and telling him how much i love him and dont want him out of my life and he said he was leaving and needed time to think, he didnt storm out, he made sure i was ok b4 he left, i was crying so bad and he wouldnt just walk out. i thought it was over then, he said we could talk later he just needed time to think. he didnt come get all his stuff out of my house when i was at work yesterday. is that a good sign? this happened monday, i wanna talk to him but dont wanna bother him,should i call him tonight just to see how he is doing? i would love just to talk to him. how would i bring up us getting together to talk? when will i know he is ready?

2007-08-08 01:26:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

We did no cheat on each other and basically we are both decent people. All my friends tell me I am making a huge mistake providing he for perpetual alimony. Is my decision based on stress and feel of gilt?. Or am I right to help her.
She is a teacher in Florida (they don't pay much here).

2007-08-08 01:24:13 · 17 answers · asked by Jaime L 2

why do her parents hate me so much

2007-08-08 01:22:45 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-08 01:19:35 · 5 answers · asked by jess050801 2

My Husbands brother and his wife leave their 2 girls (6 & * years old) with my mother in law at our house, they've been with us all day (picked up at night) since a week before their holidays began, and still keep coming. It'd be different if their mum atleast mentioned to me shes dropping them off. But its making me resent her, makes me get irritatted by the kids, and also creating alot of arguement between hubby and i. after 8 years of long distance relationship, my dad finaly agreed me to marry this man, and after 6 motnhs of marriage, this problem of the girls coming over 24/7 is really putting weight on our marriage. Weight i dont think i can carry.
Am i being petty?

2007-08-08 01:14:55 · 13 answers · asked by Elaina 2

2007-08-08 01:14:16 · 14 answers · asked by jess050801 2

My hub & I separated after an assault-related charge. After a long-drawn court case, can things still be mended?

2007-08-08 00:59:30 · 10 answers · asked by Sarah 2

2007-08-08 00:40:40 · 12 answers · asked by candie 4

Note, he's the father of my two children and has a serious child support issue involving garnishing from a previous relationship yet he refuses to get a 2nd job despite our constant struggling. I've been too light on him but I want to live as stress-free as possible but this isn't helping at all and it bums me out sometimes that I'm the one that is providing more than my fair-share. It's just monotonous and I'm venting but would like to hear from others. Thanks...

2007-08-08 00:25:08 · 14 answers · asked by 65sweety 2

I miss have interaction with people since I had to retire. Was a sales rep, so was talking to people all day, now I just talk to my cats and dog, and my husband, when he gets his nose out of a book

2007-08-08 00:17:58 · 10 answers · asked by pavlovla 1

2007-08-08 00:13:21 · 40 answers · asked by Caroline 1