I love my husband very much.But i'm not happy with him.He never consider my request seriously.I love to kiss him but he never kiss me.We discussed about it many times but he always sys that he will and he never do it.for me without Kiss,sex is boring.Why he never understand my feelings.we have good sex but i want nice kiss.Even if i try to kiss him he push me away.This irritates me.Because of this issue i can not divorce him.This is not right.Can anyone help me to make him understand my feelings.serious answers only please.
2007-08-08 01:43:05 · 9 answers · asked by Urvi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does he kiss you at all? Is there totally no kissing? My husband doesn't like to kiss either, but everytime one of us leaves he kisses me good bye, or before we get intimate, but thats it isn't long but he gives in a little, still wishes it was more, slowly but surely it will get better, or at least I hope so.
2007-08-08 02:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by shorte716 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he ever say your a good kisser, cuz there is nothing worse than kissing someone who can't do it that well. You probably do though cuz your so interested in it. I think a kiss is much more personal than anything else you could do with your partner. I love to kiss also. I wouldn't nag him I would just sit him down in a very loving way and tell him how important it is to you and then give him a very nice long kiss that will make him stir all over. It will be brought to his attention real quick.
2007-08-08 08:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by Maria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that......My ex-boyfriend used to do that and I told him about it that did no good. I told him, "You are going to keep on pushing me away until I no longer try". It did affect our relationship. I am now married to a wonderful lover, kisser and husband. If you are unhappy with this, it is only going to get worse. You need to let him read this answer and try to save your marriage if it is worth it to you. Good luck to you both.
2007-08-08 08:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by puanani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...to even think of divorce in this situation is absoluty insane. I know you said that its not right, but you should only think about divorce unless its something big. but anyways, maybe if you tell him no more fun time in bed untill he is more considerate of your feelings, i think that will get your point across that kissing is a big part of you and how you like things done...i hope this helps and good luck...:)
2007-08-08 08:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by White Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, sorry to here about that i would'nt take it personnal i now many of my mates that are the same but i can understand its fustrating you because it would fusrtrate me to try to talk to him and ask him why doesnt he kiss you and open up to him tell him your not happy and upset because he doesnt show any compassion then work it from there if he loves you he would make changes to make you more happy good luck :)
2007-08-08 08:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to have along think about why you are staying .. if this man isnt responding in this re;altionship.. you have to be strong counselling may be agood place to start if you arent going to leave him... commuunication is certainly lacking.. Good luck.. I wish you well
2007-08-08 08:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by phantom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to seek some help other than on the computer, you need the pros to help you with this. Oh,.. you can do anything you want to do if you set your mind to it.
2007-08-08 09:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should consider his feelings as well. Not everyone is comfortable showing emotions, so maybe you should talk to him about it, instead of trying to "make" him understand your feelings. Sounds a little selfish to me.
2007-08-08 08:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by zach 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him kiss like key. no key cant get in house. no kiss cant get in you.
2007-08-08 08:46:34 · answer #9 · answered by Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋