My husband wants me to pose for professional naked photos - should I do it?

Question

Wow thanks for the advice everyone! He doesn't want me to do it to earn money, in fact we'd have to pay the photographer. He wants the photos just for him.

You are all great and thanks for taking the trouble to reply.

Answer 1

Honey

If you got it, go for it.

Don't be shy.

It shows that he's proud of you.



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Answer 2

Your Husband!
That comes as a surprise to me, of all people your husband should be the one banning you from doing it.
Your body is like a holy temple. Dont let anyone not even your husband talk you into posing naked 4 photos why should the world see what you look like.

He may want to show you off as having a great body or he may just want to make money out of you.

Either its not worth it, all religions dont allow it.
Im not religious at all but i am God fearing and to me just the thought that if it were up to God to decide he would not allow it, thats eason enough for me not to do it......

Hope for the best for you....

Answer 3

The question is, do you want to pose. It does not matter if this is what your husband wants, after all it is your body you would be showing off. At the end of it the decision must be made by you. Not happy with doing this then you must stand your ground and say no.

If the shoe was on the other foot, would he be happy to pose nude in a local or national magazine, letting people who he knows oggle at him. He has no right to put you under pressure or even to expect you to do this, if he does he does not respect you, plain and simple.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

I think that's sweet. He could always go buy a playboy if he just wanted to look at any ol naked woman. He wants you. Good luck with the photo shoot.

Answer 6

Sounds delightful. If you have the personal confidence to pull it off, go for it.

If you are asking here, seems you might be reticent about it.

Why is he requesting this?

Security counts in these matters, is he discreet or will I see your lovely body at watchers web a week after?

Old Guy

Answer 7

My wife did 15 years ago.
I check them out occasionally and she still looks great.
Its a nice reminder that we were both young once.
Done professionally they will not be sleazy, unless you want them that way.
Actually a boudoir photographer will do the makeup and costume as well.
Quite Nice.

The question isn't that you take them its who sees them.

My wife did them for my birthday and it was the gift that lasts.

Answer 8

That will be up to you. Just think about it though. Once doing it, those pictures will FOREVER be available for anyone to see. This means that if and when you have kids, them and or their friends will be able to google you and find them. Just remember that everything in this day in age can be found online, so take into consideration that once you do it, there would be no going back. Just make sure you're doing it more for you rather then for him. It's your burdon to bear.

Answer 9

only if you feel secure to do so. but i believe that any naked photos taken between couples should only be done if both people are ok with it and the photos are kept in the house and dont leave the house- something u can laugh at later.

Answer 10

professionally, im a photographer.

its upto you. the guy behind the camera is a professional, and like doctors has seen it all before... i'd be asking why you husband wants you spreadeagled to the world and his mates... but the snapper will be entirely professional and he will have a female assistant... make an appointment and go to the guys studio... talk to him and discuss whats going to happen...

morally its not wrong, but beware... the road to pleasure is beset with disasters waiting to happen

Answer 11

Hi Caroline, it is not advisable for you to take such picture.In the first place,your body is your pride.If you can forgo you pride for professional photo,then you can do.Let your ego be higher than your Id, and run your own decision.It should be your will not your husband.