Have you ever ended a relationship to be with someone else?

Question

But regretted it very much later on?? Do you wish you never let that other person go and that the grass wasn't greener?? What happened.

My boyfriend ended our relationship and I wonder if he regrets it now, a year later. He is no longer with the other girl he left me for. I just wonder.

Thanks.

Answer 1

I think almost every person on earth has tried gravitating towards the other side of the hill, only to find that it had more bugs, less green grass and proved to be the less desirable place to be.

Hindsight usually is...20/20

Answer 2

I personally don't think that it's ever a good idea to leave the relationship you have for someone else. You have to be in the relationship that you have, and focus on that relationship before you can even think about being with someone else. If things aren't working out in the relationship that you have, then you end that relationship and then take the time you need to get over that person and that relationship. Only after you have taken the time to resolve your feelings from your last relationship can you get into a new, healthy relationship.

I think when one person leaves a relationship for another person, most people will predict that the new relationship won't last. Whether or not he regrets it, I don't know. I guess it depends on whether or not he learned anything from his experience.

Answer 3

i have never been in that situation by my older brother has. he had been married for five years and one day met another women. they were at first friends (isn't that how it always starts), then things started to heat up. during all this my sister in law was pregnant with triplets. during the whole pregnancy my bro was with this other women. soon after that other women got pregnant. so my bro left his wife for her. he told his ex that life would be better if they split and he would be much happier with the other women. the split and now his ex is a wonderful mother of two boys and one girl is one year away from becoming a doctor and has married a marine like myself lol. and as for my bro he found out six months after his other child was born that is was in fact not is. and that relationship ended. he as many thought the grass was greener on the other side but soon found out it wasn't he regret every thing he did. he said its the one thing he can never forgive himself for

Answer 4

I did.. but can't say I am sorry I left the 1st guy.. cuz the 2ND guy gave me a son...

But I do wish I would of stayed with the 1st guy.. he was wonderfull .. but I have an attraction,,, not sure what? for the 2nd guy...

but in ur case..
he may or may not be sorry..
most men would never admit it... sounds like u still have a thing for him...

if he wants u back ,, make him bed.. and crawl after all he left u.. and be sure..

it was his mistake for leaving u.. and it will be ur mistake if u take him back and he does it all over again...

Answer 5

I have never left anyone so I can go on a relationship with another. I was always who was left behind for another. Happened to me numerous times.

The good thing is, I never really dwelled on the fact that they left me for someone else. I just moved on. It was hard and painful, mind you, but I survived.

The icing on the cake? They came running back to me, asking for forgiveness after a few weeks or so. I never took them back. I always told them, I won't look back once they leave me.

I never wonder if they are happy on the next relationship. It was just not as important as my own well-being.

Answer 6

Think of it this way:If they are leaving you..they are leaving you.The fact that it's for another person isn't what you should be paying attention to.You're not doing something right if the relationship is ending(regardless of why)..and because of this,they probably would've left eventually anyway.

Answer 7

Sometimes the grass is greener but not because the new one is better (they usually are not) but because you just needed to get out, period.

Answer 8

My boyfriend ended a relationship to be with me. He only regrets not leaving her sooner. Follow your heart. Do what makes you happy in the present... not what you think will make you happy in the future, because you never know.

Answer 9

Yes, I have, but I didn't regret it, it needed to be over, he was draining me, physically and emotionally, even though i loved him very much. Men on the other hand, they don't ever tell, but i think it hurts them just as much, but they are just better about starting over.

Answer 10

I have never left anyone to be with someone else. My ex gf left me to be with someone else but we are good friends now and recently she told me that she wished she never left me. I felt good that i am being wanted by someone and i feel bad that she is having a tough time in her marriage.