we don't fight or argue much we hardly talk either, my spouse has no clue, I don't love them, they're so controlling and can be frightening at times, so can't express myself to them... I'm still in love with an ex love have been for many years, we really didn't have a closure, the ex has no idea I feel this way, the ex is not married, what am I to do?
2007-08-08 17:59:47 · 6 answers · asked by Greeneyes 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be careful now..........Sounds to me your getting an itch there. Or a little bored.........................
Are you looking for a fling and destroy your investment of 25 yrs? Not to mention your security.
The grass in not always greener on the other side.......
2007-08-08 18:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by GYPSY 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should some how try to find closure with your ex love, but If i was you try to work on your marriage first because if you end up going to find closure with your ex love it wil not be pretty. Because with what you are going thought right now just might start some thing and end up in flames with your marriage. So if you do want to save your marriage try to find a brigde to your spouse first (brigde I am talking about, say if your spouse likes golf try to talk to them about it and show interest in it go with them and have them help you with it be active with them it in) and after your marriage gets better then you might not have to find closure with your ex love after all. Good Luck in your marriage, I hope and pray for ya'll
2007-08-09 01:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by Lurch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are to call the best marriage counselor in your area and solve this problem. You should also let your husband in on your feelings. You would be amazed at how quickly you can fall in love with him again with just some effort. Are you willing to throw 25 years away?
2007-08-09 01:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run far away from the other man, lest you commit adultery. Love is a choice. Choose to love your husband again and honor your wedding vows, for better or worse, in sickness and in health for richer or poorer until DEATH do us part.
2007-08-09 01:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you...you have to care to fight...
25+ is a lot of years to invest...however, if you have invested unwisely it is better to cut your loses and try to find someone you do care for...life is short
As for the ex...go slow...you could get hurt very easily...cause the grass does look greener most of the time...
Go slow and get happy again
2007-08-09 01:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by missyj 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it sounds as if it would be best to get a devorce if you truely dont love your spouse anymore
2007-08-09 01:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋