I have this huge date tomorrow... basically I met a girl through college a while back. We spoke briefly and just got back in touch. We have been talking on the phone and instant messenger a lot.. and we finally set a date up. However, we are always complementing each other, and talking how we hope it works out, and all there is left is physical attraction. It's like we constantly tell each other how we hope it works out and if it becomes serious... it's got a lot of hype.
Anyway my date is on Friday night... and I am nervous. I've been on many dates before but this one is getting me anxious.. I am 21, and deep down want things to work out with this girl.. but what if it doesn't? How do I calm down? It's like I am having thoughts of it not working out, awkward silence, and stuff
2007-08-08 16:24:55 · 9 answers · asked by aa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No worries, she obviously likes you if you both have been communicating for awhile so odds are it will turn out great! ...she's probably nervous too. good luck have fun!!!
2007-08-08 16:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by I♥CHANEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is too much pressure here for u..
. tell her it will be a short date... like a short drive or a cup of coffee at Starbucks or something..
say u have to be home by 9pm to get up early the next morn..
see how the date goes and if good invite her out again...
I know u want this to work out.. but u could screw it up with too much pressure on u..
think it over..
2007-08-08 23:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down and remember that she is the same girl you have been talking to over the phone and instant messaging. She is probably a little nervous too. She likes you so you have nothing to worry about. She hopes it works too.
2007-08-08 23:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Early in the date (not the first thing) tell her that you are feeling real nervous.. tell her that some of the conversations caused you to feel pressure. That always works for me. Once I let it out... say it to the other person.... laugh at myself or they say "me too" things mellow out.
Have Fun!
2007-08-08 23:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by Bentley 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the negative feelings.. Deal with them later. For now.. Be prepared for the best. Think positive.
2007-08-08 23:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think about messing up because the more you think about it, the more likely it will happen...lighten up...don't think too much ahead...you are already worrying about things that are yet to happen...take things one at a time...just enjoy your time with this girl...be yourself...talk about things you both like..if you think that your relationship is gonna fail when you havent even dated...chances are its already been doomed...think positively and be confident that things work out...bad vibes bring bad things...good vibes bring good things...
2007-08-08 23:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by geisha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relaxed your self as what you said you are talking on the phone maybe she likes you but she didn't said because she was shy
2007-08-09 01:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your first date should give your first impression.
2007-08-08 23:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by Adawg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a beer dude.
2007-08-08 23:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋