I have seen families in trailors with like 12 children all from different unfit young mothers who do drugs and drain society's resources.
I am from a "red state" and this problem is more prevalent in the south.
It is very common for a 25 year old, unwed mother, having 4 kids, all living with their grandmother, who also takes care of more kids who aren't her own.
Has anyone else seen this? I am in juvenile rehabilition, and I see a lot of this in my outpatient counseling. Do these horrible breeding centers disgust anyone else?
DOES ANYONE EVEN KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT--HAVE YOU EVER SEEN ONE OF THESE FAMILIES I SPOKE OF, AND ARE YOU FAMALIAR WITH THE PROBLEMS THEY PRODUCE?
2007-08-08 06:43:43 · 10 answers · asked by Voltaire's book Candide 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some of what you say is true. About women being younge and having children, but why do you have to classify them all as living in trailors and doing drugs, or who are unfit, or who drain society's resources?
You do not know each individuals circumstances at all so you have no right to classify all these younge, some unwed, others not, mothers.
I am 22 years old. I have two children, one who is seven and another who is three. I support both of my children by myself, I am a fit mother because my children eat,they have clean cloths new toys, discipline, daycare, school, but most importantly LOVE.
I dont do drugs and neither do alot of young mothers that I know. Sometimes people dont think before they act but alot of mothers out there that are young are not sitting there trying to live off the state, IM NOT and out of 5 young single moms I know only one lives with her mother and receives food stamps.
SO DO NOT THROW ALL YOUNG MOTHERS INTO ONE BOAT BECAUSE THERE ARE A FEW BAD ONES OUT THERE. Cuz u know what? Most the women you see that kill their children, such as drowning them and such are in their late twenties to early thirties. So just remember just because one young mother might not be the role model for mothers does not mean they are are all alike.
2007-08-08 06:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-01 21:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by geissel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely know what you are talking about. And I completely agree on you I too am pretty disgusted with the "leaches" on the tax dollars. The issue, I believe, stems from the fact that people are too lazy to buy a box of condoms so they have unprotected sex. THESE PEOPLE ARE IDIOTS. I cannot stress that enough.
My peronal feeling on wearing a condom... it costs what 7 bucks for a box of 12 at walmart? so for 7 dollars you can have a stronger chance of not having children. or the other option is not to buy a box of condoms, get a girl pregnant, and then either have to stay with this person even if it is not what you want or have to pay child support which is usually 30% of your income for 18 years and in some states it can be pushed to 21 years... you know how much money that works out to be? I mean think about it which is more important?
2007-08-08 06:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lorena 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I have seen this but we have decided to have a country where everyone is free to pursue their happiness. If this is their's what are you going to do about it. I have seen many other kinds of families and styles of parenting I don't agree with but my understanding is that as long as they are not breaking any laws I have to sit by and watch people destroy their kids.
Sean C---- LOL you and I can certainly relate about Wal-mart I'm right there with you.
2007-08-08 06:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I'm 29 and married and I simply do not want kids. I've never wanted them.
2007-08-08 06:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have seen it and I am disgusted. But what are you going to do? You can educate, but you can't change free will.
2007-08-08 06:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO it is NOT more prevalent in the south
and other than that no I have no clue what you are rambling on about
2007-08-08 06:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by Shadow Kat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes I know what you're talking about. I usually see this when I go into a Wal-Mart. which is why I try to avoid the Devil's department store at al costs.
Don't get me started about Wal-Mart....
2007-08-08 06:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by Sean C 5 · 3⤊ 4⤋
Why don't you choose to not have children?
2007-08-08 06:57:26 · answer #9 · answered by Wayne B 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What do you suggest doing?
2007-08-08 06:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by Marygoroun(d) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋