Men: Have you ever cheated or wanted to cheat on ur wife or gf? If so, what were the reasons? Was it because of sexual boredom or was it because of other reasons? Just curious....
2007-08-08 06:57:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I want to hear these answers
2007-08-08 07:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have cheated before on my girlfriend several years ago. Why I did it? Simple because the opportunity presented itself in front of me. The person was right, the setting was right and because there was no way in hell anyone would ever know about what I had done. Plus the girl I had cheated with was someone I had the hots for (as she did for me) long before I even got with girl. In the end it wasn't worth it, even though my girlfriend never found out it's like if she did because she eventually cheated on me times 3 several years down the road and I found out about it and damn did it ever hurt. Karma did indeed catch up with me.
2007-08-08 07:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by inboxj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I had THOUGHT about it... I've even had a few opportunities to... I chose not to because a "piece" isn't worth my homes, my cars, my money, my lifestyle...
If I had to say why I thought about it, it would be because it would be different. I won't even say it is boredom, but just different. There was also a feeling that my wife didn't care about me or my feelings and that maybe someone else would.
I'm just glad I didn't, I now have a beautiful baby girl and am happier than I have ever been in my life...
2007-08-08 07:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Robb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated but I have been tempted to do so. The last time was 3 yrs ago, I worked with a woman who was very appealing and we flirted quite often, one thing led to another and we were making plans to meet. Before it happened I remembered all I would lose if I went through with it and did not. Everything was great in my marriage I was happy content the sex was very good, I think it was just that forbidden idea, and the temptation of someone making you feel that good about yourself.
2007-08-08 07:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jason J 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well i have almost ....well honestly i did cheat on my gf...once....well i dont know maybe many time.....this is because i like to seduce girl....well i found this website around the time that i meet my gf...its called ....
speed seduction.. and then i got interested into what they were doing in that community..so i started using their techniques..and wow they work.....newayz other than that....my gf...on the scale 1-10... shes a 6/7.....and the girl that i meet with these techniques that use now are .....8/9/10.....but hey ....
only time will tell if im going to stay with her or not...
right now you peeps are probably thinking..."you bastar...how can you have the nerve to say that about your gf"...
but hey you asked for honesty......
this is what is going on....
2007-08-08 07:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by STYLES M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is much easier for me to name the occassion where I did not cheat on my wife. To cheat is to lie, betray, break trust and emotionally scar the other person. I know why we men have a tendancy to play around & I understand it. Just wouldn't do that to someone, that I loved & cared about.
2007-08-08 07:09:18 · answer #6 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I shouldn't be answering this because I'm a woman, but I think some of the answers you received are harsh. This is a great, legitimate, question. This is an anonymous forum so being 100% honest would be nice.
2007-08-08 07:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by katydid 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did it once. There was no problem at all in my marriage before that -- I was happily married. The reason had nothing to do with my marriage and everything to do with me. I was addicted to lust. A pretty woman at work with whom I'd been flirting for awhile came on to me. Extreme temptation coupled with poor self control met with opportunity, and that's all I have to say about that.
2007-08-08 07:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I have never cheated on your wife. Everyone is tempted in life, but I haven't given in nor will I because my wife's happiness is more important than mine.
2007-08-08 07:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by askjohn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have. i regret it but i have.
our sex life is less than i would like. i kept asking her to work on it, kept trying to get her to talk with me, and it finally got to where i gave up. i decided we were done. i chose the wrong woman and we just werent compatible. i ended up getting close with a lady on line, and we ended up having an affair.
in the end, faced with the prospects of losign what i had, i broke it off. my main motivation was frustration and a bad sex life. i could have dealt with anything if i felt like she was trying, but i just felt like i was running into a brick wall.
on the brite side, my affair got me apreciating what i had and i think it did the same for her. after three years, therapy and a whole lot of tears, i believe we will be together for a long time to come.
2007-08-08 07:04:13 · answer #10 · answered by ohiojeff 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I have. And honestly, it's always been because there isn't any sex in the relationship. If she didn't want to have sex, I found it elsewere. I did feel guilty every time, but for some reason I couldn't help myself.
2007-08-08 07:30:44 · answer #11 · answered by Junior 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋