My dads girlfriend is so mean to me and my friends and my moms boyfriend hits me and threatens to kill and abuse me. What Should I Do Please Help Me Before It Is Too Late!!!
2007-08-08 08:15:54 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I've tried talking to my parents and my moms boyfriend keeps on hitting me and threatens to kill and abuse me and my dads girlfriend is mean to me and my friends wat should I do? I am really freaked out and scared. What should I do?
2007-08-08 08:44:09 · update #1
If you have been threatened or abused call the cops boo! NOW!
2007-08-13 05:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you have stated is: "you dont like your fathers girlfriend or you mothers boyfriend". This alone tells me that the problem may not entirely be them. I dont wish to make you feel as if there isnt a problem. Now, The same way you took the time to write on this site, to ask for help,the same way you can take your little fingers and dial 911 and ask for help. If the reason you are doing this is because you want your parents back together, think of the time they were together, did they fight, argue. If they were happy with eachother, they would still be together. This does not mean they do not love you. They love you more, because a hostile environment isn't healthy to bring a child up in. Specially the way you sound. If you are in danger, then seek for help at the nearest police station, or have a relative pick you up and take you to a safe heaven.
2007-08-16 14:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by Hermosa bori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents, if they don't understand and do something about the situation talk to a schooll counselor. Spend as little time at your house as possible. I know what you are going through, a little. I hated my Dad's gf and my mom is just plain crazy. So I had to live with my Dad when I was younger. The day I turned 18 I was packed up and moved out with my bf. I have only stayed there once since then, I am now 23. I don't ask anything from my parents...heck I barely talk to them and we only live 20 minutes apart. Hang in there, someday you will realize that friends are the only family that a person needs and chances are they are way more loyal to you than your own family, and that is sad to admit!
2007-08-08 15:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by Bird Questions 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I know everyone is going to say to tell your parents, but they are going to think you are just being a little jealous brat.. You need to call a helpline if it is that serious that you are getting physically and mentally abused. Let mom and dad deal with the legal issues of it.. You may have to go stay with a relative, but that would be better than what you are doing now.. Good-luck and do something soon..
2007-08-12 19:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to hear this kind of stuff happening. I think you should go to an aunt or uncle you trust, tell them whats going on and ask them to take you to the police. He deserves to be put in jail. I wish I could help you stand up and be brave enough to stop his abuse. Another thing you can do is look in the front of your phone book there should be organizations there that you can turn to if you don't have a close family member. Be strong!
2007-08-15 21:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by blackpearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call DHS/Social Services and report the abuse. Talk to a church pastor. Talk to a school teacher or counsellor. Call the police and file a report. Talk to anyone who will listen. If your parents aren't listening, and you are being abused and threatened in this manner, do whatever it takes to get yourself out of the situation.
Call and report it EVERY time it happens. If you have younger siblings you will be protecting them as well, because they won't be able to protect themselves.
Do not stop until someone listens to you and takes action.
2007-08-15 21:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by kyeri y 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you read between the lines all you want is for your mom and dad to give their relationship another try. Have you tried talking to your parents about how hurt of the fact that they are not together? Maybe you should... Adult most of the times hate admitting that they've made a mistake. Talk to both of your parents, you never know if you don't try. Good luck!
2007-08-16 03:18:22 · answer #7 · answered by Rafa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the authorities on the boyfriend that hits you, that's assault. Not much else you can do, if your parents don't stand up for you. When you are old enough move out. Start working part time and save up the money so you can move as soon as you are of age.
2007-08-08 15:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey jigsaw, part of me is really thinking you are exaggerating just because you don't want your parents seeing other people. Your mother wouldn't allow her boyfriend to hit you or threaten your life...if he truly is, then call the cops on him yourself the next swing he takes at you.
ask your parents to get you counseling to help you deal with their divorce and for everyone's sake - stop telling tall tales. That will only make things worse between you and your parents.
2007-08-08 15:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think you can go to either of your parents with it, do it but, if you feel like it won't do anything or make things worse... don't! Call your local child abuse hotline and explain to them what is going on. At this point if you have grandparents, aunts, uncles, or cousins you can live with arrange it just in case they try to place you into foster care temporarily, you don't want to be there if you can help it. Please get help... I'm a victim of abuse and I know how hard it is to ask for help.... it really isn't your fault, get help for yourself, you don't deserve to be mistreated!
2007-08-15 21:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by supermansgirl199 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ur mom and dad shud listen to u beacaus if ur child doesnt feel right about there relationship then most of the time itz not worth it. second of all ur dads girlfriend shud treat wit respect and ur moms boyfriend sounds like a Jackass if he leaves bruises on u show ur mom if dat dont call the police.
2007-08-16 14:16:24 · answer #11 · answered by laprincess1889 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋