Marriage & Divorce - 19 July 2007

If this is you, do you ever feel cheated that you didn't get to at least experience being with at least one other man, or are you completely content being with just your first love?

2007-07-19 09:55:56 · 11 answers · asked by TB28 2

South Carolina requires a one year seperation.
apparently that starts over if you spend the night there even if it is in a different room of the house and no sex took place.

they filed for divorce 2.5 years ago however they "1 year" was started over due to her trying to remain friends.

she wants it over... he doesnt
and he refuses to go to court and say it has been over a year as late last year she was forced to stay there (in a seperate bedroom, no sex) due to a very severe storm.

she needs to know what would be the risk involved in saying it has been the year under those circumstances.

she has him realizing it is over and therefore he has filed for the divorce. but he is worried that will come and bite him.
HOWEVER... sure certainly is not going to rat him out.
any experience or knowledge regarding this would be very appriciated by her.
thanks

2007-07-19 09:51:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-19 09:49:44 · 7 answers · asked by kittana! 2

So today, yesterday, last week and pretty much every day lately in the last month, my wife has been dropping hints that she wants out...there's nothing wrong with our relationship...really there's not...the problem is that she doesn't want to go with me to my next duty station...oh...btw...im in the navy...any way...she wants to stay here where her family is and where she has a job and our 2 girls have school...i don't understand what's wrong...she married me not her family...maybe I'm just not seeing the big flick here...i just figured that after 9 years of service she would understand that i would have to go back to sea some time...i dunno...she even told me today that we should be friends with benefits...that to me means divorce and that she knows of someone she wants to shack up with...is that true? I'm kinda lost here...i treat her like a queen, maybe that was the problem...i dunno...I'm just plain confused...HELP!

TYVM...

2007-07-19 09:49:21 · 26 answers · asked by **wj25** 2

Ladies answer only. Also, please add a dollar figure.

2007-07-19 09:44:53 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a Christian but my husband is not a Christian. Unfortunately, my husband has anger issues, and three months ago, because of the anger issues, I gave him an ultimatum to get counseling or move out until he could make better decisions for himself and for our family. He chose to move out, did not tell me where he lives, and two weeks later, removed me from his myspace page and changed his status on myspace to "single". Last month, he told me not to contact him anymore and said he doesn't even want to be friends. I feel that he has divorced me emotionally. Biblically speaking, I feel that I have been abandoned by an unbelieving spouse. In this case, I think I have grounds to divorce him. However, I know that God can change hearts. I would like forgive him (if he ever wanted forgiveness) and reconcile if it would be possible to save our marriage. How long should I wait before I file for divorce given the circumstance? Or do you think it's just a dream that he would reconcile later on?

2007-07-19 09:40:59 · 33 answers · asked by sgirl77 1

He lately doen't want to work very hard, he rather be lazy when it comes to his job. When he comes home he rather sit on the couch all night or hang out with his friends than spend time with his girls.

2007-07-19 09:40:00 · 16 answers · asked by Carol R 1

and the message that he added to the picture was what about that boy,he is so direspectful to me. He called me a ***** and I said if u would not say that to your mom then dont say it to me, he said that I was not his mother! what should I do

2007-07-19 09:36:10 · 29 answers · asked by mustluv50 1

my wife and i have been marrie dfor almost 2 years. while she was pregnant i began to be an *** and treat her bad.(nothing physical) and ways she says now that she has fallen in love with her friend and finds him both physically and sexually attractive. She told me that she doesn't find me attractive in any way at all. she says that she has been trying to get her attraction back 4 six months but nothing. she is not willing to give up the friendship because she says he was there for her when she needed him and she's not going to turn her back on him.she also says she isnt in love with me anymore.she also told me that she never wants to have sex with me anymore.should i leave or try to stick it out? she wont give up her friend. she also says that she is afraid to get close to me again because she thinks that i might hurt her again. i still love her and i have apologized 4 my stupid actions. any suggestions. should i leave, stay, cheat. any help would be nice

2007-07-19 09:33:55 · 23 answers · asked by vedwards04 1

My ouncle told me that the husband should be 8 years older than the wife because women get older faster than men. This way, the wife won't look older than her husband on the future. Also because women mature faster than men, this way, when they get marry they will be at the same level of maturity. What do you think should be the age different?

2007-07-19 09:29:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have some friends who are divorced moms. Man, they live it UP on the weekends when their kids are with the dads. They go sailing with boyfriends, or to the local club...man, it is like "Mom's Weekend Out" only without the babysitting fee. On top of it all they get lots of child support.

I am married and I NEVER get a weekend all alone EVER. Because of my husband's job, we live thousands of miles from any family. I am a little jealous of my divorced friends.

Divorce looks good just to have some time alone at this point. But, being the child of divorced parents, I know it was very hard for me to cope with their divorce, even though I pretended everything was fine.

Do divorced parents find more joy in life than their married counterparts?

2007-07-19 09:25:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My cousin has been married for going on three years. Her husband is always on the go. She complains that he goes out several times during the week, and thinks she shouldnt say anything about his behavior he is 38 not 18 years old.

2007-07-19 09:24:54 · 31 answers · asked by BrownSuga 1

.........if they have Yahoo Answers! ?????

2007-07-19 09:14:26 · 16 answers · asked by bellesnail 4

we have a family friend that is divorced, who found out that her ex husband new wife is a registered sex offender, the problem is the friend has 3 boys under age 10. and the new wife and husband want custody of the boys, my question is, will a judge order the ex wife to let the boys go with the husband and his new wife to a new state even tho she's on the list, even tho the new wife says she's stayed out of trouble is it still possible?

2007-07-19 09:06:20 · 9 answers · asked by Haylie06 2

There are children that are involved in this marriage and that is that tricky part of things. I have talked with her to discuss the issues that are there and she keeps saying that there are a lot of them but the only one that keeps coming up are the fianacial issues. I have gotten to the point that I stated that I would not contest a divorce at this time. I have even stated that I would take the kids to easy her stress that she feels at this point until she is settled. She continues to remain in the same house with me stating that the issues that are bothering her are her own issues. I know that I can not work out her issues but I want to be as supportive as possible for her. I have suggested counseling toher but she is not with that. I don't want to make it look like I am the only stating counseling. She brought it up to me a few months back and I said"NO". now we are at that breaking point. I want to stay but I can't deal withthe on and off of loving me.

2007-07-19 09:01:55 · 23 answers · asked by Ryan m 1

Or shall i marry someone near to my social, educational level so to understand each other and get a better life together?
Then love comes after??

The point is marry some one to be chosen by my heart or mind?

2007-07-19 09:00:55 · 40 answers · asked by The critic flower. 3

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my husband keeps saying if we dont do something our marraige is not going to last, when I ask him what he thinks is wrong with it he the only thing he brings up is how I get mad when he goes out. Everytime that is the same answer. I only get mad because he always comes back at like 3:30 in the morning and he only goes with his friends that are SINGLE! What should I do!!

2007-07-19 08:59:12 · 14 answers · asked by I love it here! 2

The reason I am asking is because my husband is always arguing with me saying he is tired of me "hardly ever putting out anymore". And the thing that blows my mind is that we have sex at least three or four times a week. He seems to think that everybody has more sex than him. Married people, please tell me how often you have sex.

2007-07-19 08:51:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do my husband drink and run me from home . Do he not want me there?

2007-07-19 08:41:26 · 15 answers · asked by sillydvs 2

my husband and i have been married only a little over a year. dated for olny 6 weeks before marriage. shortly after, he started verbaly abusing me then physically abusing me. to the point that i was scared for my life. i have left him several times, but i always let him back in my life.i still love him, think about him 24/7, even dream of him. we've only been split this time a month. my question is how can i love someone who is very mean and coldhearted. he is very good-looking by the way. and i'm not bad looking myself. he is 13 years older than me. how do i get over this and move on without hurting too much? those of you who might judge me or put me down, don't. you wouldn't understand so don't respond.

2007-07-19 08:39:34 · 33 answers · asked by smash 1

Why does it seems at times that a question or something said in general from a woman to a man or vise versa tends to lose translation and one gets mad at the other for something not even meant...Sometimes it seems like 2 totally different conversations completely..icomments?

2007-07-19 08:37:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just got engaged and my Fiance is talking about a prenup and having separate accounts after we marry. Neither of us have any money, but he's pretty adamant about getting one.

I don't want one at all. I feel like getting married is about planning to spend our lives together forever, not planning about an eventual divorce. I trust him completely, but I don't feel like he trusts me.

Should this be a deal breaker? Am I being unreasonable?

2007-07-19 08:33:25 · 15 answers · asked by Ryn Cat 2

i had a gastic bypass 4 years ago and is it true a lot of women leave there husbands because now they know they do not have to settle and they have confidence. i am just tired of hearing my husband say he wishes i did not have this surgery he would like the old person back. i like the new me i do not let him push me around like he use to and i stand up for my self (sometimes) i have thought about leaving him he is very verbally abusive somewhat physically abusive we have kids i just wanted to know if anyone else has delt with this

2007-07-19 08:28:06 · 11 answers · asked by jnc 1

Me and our two sons live @ home with my parents and he has his own apartment and there is a women that he known for a while and they just started talking and hanging out together alot latley and i know they have kissed and madeout but he says they have never had sex. but i dont really believe that. I get really upset when i see her car over @ his apartment or when there texting on the phone. he tells me i have nothing to worrie about and we have talked about getting a place together. But i don' t know what to think about the whole thing since we are " seperated"

2007-07-19 08:15:59 · 79 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex and i of 10 yrs still have great sex, she lives with her boyfriend and would take me back anyday but i refuse to after she left 4 yrs ago. i dont agree with cheating but is there exceptions with old relations that still have the heat.

2007-07-19 08:03:54 · 41 answers · asked by bachelorincc 1

2007-07-19 08:03:46 · 41 answers · asked by Natasha M 1

I love my husband and he makes me very happy (sometimes) and very mad (sometimes) But that's marriage for you! I also love the man I cheated on him with (before we were married) But he is also married now and has lost total interest in me. It makes me so sad because he used to be so hot for me and now I can't ever see or talk to him again!

Hey maybe I should e-mail him, what could it hurt right?

2007-07-19 07:56:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I am in bed with a girl or my gf I like to trap her head under the blanket when I pass wind....If she stays there and thinks its funny..I will put her down on a list of girls I like to marry...is this wrong?

2007-07-19 07:54:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has asked me for a divorce 3 weeks ago.

Part of the reason for the breakup of our marriage was that she had a crush on a co-worker and was considering a realtionship outside of our marriage.

A couple days ago she asked me to pick up our dog from daycare while she went out for drinks with a male co-worker who is a friend.

She does not udertsand why I am mad.

2007-07-19 07:52:01 · 22 answers · asked by ? 4

One of my best friends is getting married. Amongst other things, her controlling mother in law to be wants to perform a line dance at their wedding!Whats a good way to be nice and firm in putting her foot down?

2007-07-19 07:49:14 · 8 answers · asked by PrincessCandice 1