my ex and i of 10 yrs still have great sex, she lives with her boyfriend and would take me back anyday but i refuse to after she left 4 yrs ago. i dont agree with cheating but is there exceptions with old relations that still have the heat.
2007-07-19 08:03:54 · 41 answers · asked by bachelorincc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cheating is cheating, isn't it? Seems to me you highly agree with it, otherwise you wouldn't be doing it.
2007-07-19 08:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by Shayna 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
So why are you playing this game? If you're not going to take the woman back, why make use of her? That makes you a bum--a bum who follows behind another man who is probably a decent guy. You, on the other hand, are a slithering snake who would rather lurk in the background, instead of finding a woman of your own and moving on. You don't care anything about this woman. You're just getting back at her for having the good sense to leave your sorry behind. The sad part is that she wants you back, even though you're not worth spitting on.
2007-07-19 08:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She keeps having sex and cheating because she has hopes that you will get back together. Not only are you letting her cheat but ur screwing with her mind. That's really quite horrible. I would stop having sex with her and find another woman to have sex with just so you dont hurt her anymore. Clearly you dont care about anything except the sex so leave her alone cuz she cares about you more than you care about her
2007-07-19 08:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say if there is still heat there win her back without the sex. I think is still a future all is fair in the name of love.
Now if its only a booty call well theres nothing wrong with that either keep rolling. u have the best set up there all the good none of the bad....
2007-07-19 08:25:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Bachelor in CC,
I do believe, Dear, that your time would be better spent in an English class. Learn correct syntax and grammar.
She is an ex. That means that the relationship should be terminated. You are both cheats. You think she's good enough for your sperm, but not your time. She thinks her boyfriend is good enough to help support her, but he doesn't deserve her to be faithful or committed. You deserve each other with this type of behavior.
2007-07-19 08:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no exception..obviously she isn't very smart....doing this behind her own boyfriends back doesn't really make her appealing to you...or to any guy who goes along with that..
Ex's are Ex's for a reason regardless...of "heat"
Maybe she will finally get caught and learn her lesson.
2007-07-19 08:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta love how we can rationalize bad behavior..........
How would you feel if your girlfriend had "heat" with her ex? You are totally breaking the guy code by playing with her like this. If you really had heat, you'd get back together. Right now you are just getting over on some other fool. That's bad karma.
2007-07-19 08:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by Aron1968_30 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating IS cheating
You're just looking for excuses to do the wrong thing-
feel bad for her boyfriend but hope he finds out so that he can leave and find someone who will treat him with respect!!
2007-07-19 08:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you define integrity? It's doing the right thing even if nobody would ever know. Another way to put it is doing the right thing just because. You may be getting away with this and her boyfriend may never know but can you honestly say that it's the right thing?
2007-07-19 08:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by BeatTheGib 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious that you still have feelings for her. And yes, it is wrong for what you are doing. It wouldn't be if she didn't have a boyfriend, but come on! You are facilitating her cheating and deception for your own pleasure. How would you feel if the tables were turned.
2007-07-19 08:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you are one of those people I label stupid, why? Because you have feelings for this girl, she meets your sexual needs and you're willing to justify sleeping with her even though she has a boyfriend......so why not just get back with her? Pride? Ego? I don't understand people who think like this. Either you want her or you don't, if you don't leave her alone, why would you want to share her p*ssy with another guy?? EEWWW
2007-07-19 08:10:40 · answer #11 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋