Marriage & Divorce - 19 July 2007

If you were him what would your impression be and how would you react? Lately I just do not feel loved by him at all and even though I have mentioned it to him nothing is seeming to change.

2007-07-19 02:46:50 · 16 answers · asked by mom2abigsis 2

2007-07-19 02:37:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-19 02:35:36 · 28 answers · asked by That Guy Drew 6

let me explain the whole situation :

a guy comes to this country and then found a girl , they both liked each other and then decided to marry in two weeks . they got married but girl never treat that guy like a husband and even after marriage she want to go alone everywhere and she don't want him to stop her from anything.
Finally that guy thought that he won't stop her from anything but she has something else on her mind.
They never spent one day as husband and wife .
If she was not ready to married, why she marry that guy . Now she is saying that she did married only because of her father.
Now what is the fault of that guy ?????
and also

Please don't make marriage a joke -my thinking.
Any good advice will be appereciated in this case.

2007-07-19 02:28:00 · 8 answers · asked by raj_sharmausa@yahoo.com 3

I have been divorced for a year and a half now and my ex and I have a six year old daughter together. Since the divorce, my ex has seriously turned to drugs and is living off of whomever he can. He received a large cash settlement recently and has continuously promised to our little girl that when he got his money that he would do special things with her and take her anywhere she wanted. I do not let her go with him because of his status and was content with him visiting her at my home. Since receiving his money, which has been about a month ago, he has not called or attempted to see her and she has been very upset lately. She loves her father dearly and in her eyes, can do no wrong. I constantly tell her that her dad loves her no matter what. I don't know what else to do. This man is obviously spending his time partying with the money he has received. What else can I do and say to comfort her? I'm tired of him hurting her. If she only knew she was better off without him.

2007-07-19 02:23:36 · 22 answers · asked by Nunya 4

My soon to be ex is being very ugly and isn't getting a job while the divorce is going on so he doesn't have to pay child support. If he doesn't have a job doesn't he still have to pay me something?

2007-07-19 02:19:04 · 23 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1

Ok my last ex is constatly on my mind and I dont know why....we broke up over 5 years ago and I am now married and have a daughter....but I just cant seem to move on...he treated me like a piece of crap when we were dating and spread rumors about me when we broke up.....he was such a dog....maybe i'm holding on because he was my first love....and dont get me wrong I love my husband...but it's just like my ex has part of my heart and I cant get it back.....what should I do??? Please help....

2007-07-19 01:49:40 · 13 answers · asked by It's a Girl!!! 5

2007-07-19 01:41:55 · 15 answers · asked by kellie w 1

My wife is falling in love me me, but I just aren't ready for that kind of commitment yet!

I think its because I was giving her more 'lee'way and letting her out of her cage to play in the garden.....what should I do, shall I confine her back to her cage 24/7 or just tell her straight up and get it over with.

2007-07-19 01:41:02 · 23 answers · asked by bosswell2 1

I've been married for 27yrs, have 3 kids..my spouse is into drugs to the point where he's been unemployed for 4 years. I'm too sick to work and waiting on soc.sec. we had to sell our home to survive. he started selling drugs when I found out I told him that he either stopped doing and selling drugs or he was out of the house. He refused to do both, stated he doesn't have money to move anywhere..his friends have offered to take him in. He's out all hours of the night..I also found female names in his cell he told me that he sells to them..I don't believe him. I've left a couple of times over the past few years hoping he will wise up and stop using. My kids have taken my side and don't really talk to him. He stays in the cellar getting high all day and night. He refuses therapy..I would rather that he straighten his act up and get back to a normal family life. We had a huge fight today I don't want to throw 27 yrs of marriage down the drain but what other options do I have?

2007-07-19 01:40:21 · 26 answers · asked by grammy ss 2

if you consider yourself a christian, get married at 28, then abandone your husband after about 8 months because he cannot give you one date a week, how do you go to church every sunday and through the rest of your life like nothing is wrong? does that mean you just made a mistake and got married, realized that people have other priorities too like work, kids and ect. and just can not put 100% attention to you at all times?....so you say, well im out of this marriage i dont care? i never neglected my wife, i put her with all my other responsibilities and stayed home all the time while she was gone everyday...

2007-07-19 01:38:47 · 22 answers · asked by amayseng 3

me and gf broken up about few months now since that time she called me most of time and called her less because i gues trying to forget her and we had bad/ good 2years. Anyway couple weeks ago she dad came from china and she invited for dinner couple times and go trip with them but i made some execuses not to go because i might feel sad again if i saw her guess wanted keep distance. Sometimes when i sit alone in my room or go some places i just remeber me and her spend time there oh god feels so pain and i dont listen love since she broken with me. what i can do, go to her or should find right girl whose right for me?

Please i need good advice feel so stress and sad.

2007-07-19 01:34:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-19 01:33:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-19 01:29:16 · 25 answers · asked by rain_tanishq 1

When I suggested to my wife that we could afford a nice dinner if she'd not leave the lights on so often, she "embellished" my statement something like: you said, "You're a small stupid ignorant child and you need me to tell you how to live." I said, "You're embellishing. That's not what I said or how I meant it." She took great offense at me saying she was "embellishing", claiming that I was dismissing her feelings. I'll acknowledge her feelings, but I won't say that I meant something that I didn't mean. Heck, I could say, "It looks like rain." and she might feel I was telling her she was too stupid to know that she should get an umbrella to go outside. Just because she feels a certain way doesn't mean she can hold me responsible for her feelings, right?

2007-07-19 01:14:53 · 18 answers · asked by Bill X 2

I had a friend. she was a lover with this married man for about 2 yrs. right now, this man found other girl to having affair, so he left her. My friend, she's very upset and want to get revenge of him. The only thing she had , were few packs of condoms that he left in her house.. I told her to send back or mail to his house and let his wife found out his hubby is a cheater... Do u think she should do it???? what can she do to get her revenge??? Thanks for your time...

2007-07-19 01:02:26 · 22 answers · asked by back2future 5

I am still very interested, but also frustrated. I am told by other women I am good looking. What should I do? She is not interested in sex after her change of life.

2007-07-19 00:34:48 · 29 answers · asked by Charles S 2

does the skin color of girl matter?
what thing exits males in girls?
does yhe male female do daily sex after marrige?

2007-07-19 00:21:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm sorry, but I don't think that a family has any say in whom their daughter (or in rare times son) marries. I think it is wrong that parents are still making their children marry who they think they should marry--instead of letting their children find their own love and make their own decisions.

I would far rather pick my own husband, someone that I loved, instead of marrying someone my parents picked for money or a status symbol.

What about you guys?

2007-07-19 00:17:35 · 7 answers · asked by mathaowny 6