I had a friend. she was a lover with this married man for about 2 yrs. right now, this man found other girl to having affair, so he left her. My friend, she's very upset and want to get revenge of him. The only thing she had , were few packs of condoms that he left in her house.. I told her to send back or mail to his house and let his wife found out his hubby is a cheater... Do u think she should do it???? what can she do to get her revenge??? Thanks for your time...
2007-07-19 01:02:26 · 22 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
revenge gets ugly... leave well enough alone and move on...
2007-07-19 01:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cheater is a cheater. If she informs his wife, she is going to hurt her. The wife is the victim, she has not done anything. Your friend is wrong to have had an affair with a married man in the first place. Of course he is going to cheat on her. What kind of a person knowingly has an affair with a married man. Your "friend" needs to grow up.
I suggest you really take a good look at the friends you have.
2007-07-19 08:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tadpoler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did this man's wife do to your friend? Why should she pay for her husband's stupidity? I think she should know about her husbands affairs but she shouldn't be the target of your friends anger. She's done nothing wrong! What your friend should do is let the newest victim of this man know what's really going on, in a concerned manner, not the raging, jilted ex lover. Let her know that your friend was in her shoes not long ago, and she want to give her a warning on what is going to happen to her. Do it in a public place. Making him look like the prick he is in public, will burst his inflated ego!! Don't make the wife the target of your friends anger. Cause a scene, with his newest girl toy, and hopefully the wife will get word and lose this prick!!! Then your friend will get her revenge!!
2007-07-19 08:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by Needtoknow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she want to hurt the man's wife???? She didn't do anything to her. I am sure that this poor woman has an idea of what kind of a husband she has. Your friend should not have been fooling around with a married man - she knew he was married and a cheater - so now she got cheated on.
2007-07-19 10:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Babycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge is like a double edged sword that may hurt you in the process of hurting someone.In the first place your friend knew that the guy was married before she lay with him, if he could cheat on his wife what makes your friend think that he can not cheat on her, she made a mistake in the first place, she should admit it, let him go and find her own man, she of all people has no right to get upset because she enabled this man by allowing him to take advantage of her , leave the other woman alone, if you want someone to hurt , hurt the man ,maybe send the pics to his job not his house
wake up , find your own man, move own and good luck
2007-07-19 08:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a damn thing... she should be glad she is the mistress and not the wife, that is not going to fix anything.. he is a dog and he will get what he deserve, but yeah if revenge is the goal here she should call his wife and tell her, which i don't think is going to hurt him one bit.. maybe his wife would get a divorce and then he will be free to do what he wants, condoms are not proof of cheating she has to come foward with details and things like that.. information about her husband that she know only a woman who's sleeping with her husband would know.. but i tell you maybe that wife knows all about it and don't care and like to live her life as blind as a bat... your friend should leave this looser alone, she must be thankful he didn't leave his wife for her and then find him another woman...is a lesson learned here. she should never get what belongs to others is a no win situation.. good luck
2007-07-19 08:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your saying she is going to get revenge on him by hurting his wife. That is low. Your friend was nothing but a booty call a person he used and got tired and found someone else. What did she expect that he was going to marry her. She shouldn't have been messing with a married man to begin with. In my opinion she got what she deserved. Tell her next time mess with a single guy.
2007-07-19 08:08:31 · answer #7 · answered by MZ. Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is a very immature concept. Your friend CHOSE to have a relationship with a man that was not available. She needs to start making better choices but looking for revenge shows she's still incapable of doing that.
2007-07-19 08:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the best medicine.
It heals all the wounds.
Be decent enough and do not go for a revenge.
At the first shot, i'd question ur friend WHAT SHE HAD BEEN DOING ALL THESE YEARS WITH HIM?
Now that he had deserted her, he's a ***** and has to be taught a lesson ??? wat happened to her alll these days when she even went to bed with him?? Didn't she think of his wife then???
So, its better be decent.
Revenge never helps rather, it devastates a person . It literally makes him no less than an animal. So, live happily. Time heals all the wounds.
2007-07-19 08:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by Encyclopedia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge? sounds like she (you) is going to punish and hurt the one person in this whole affair who is innocent, the unsuspecting wife.
Revenge is never the good feeling end that people hope it will be. It probably will end up a whole lot uglier if she (you) goes though with this sordid plan. Your friend (you) should stick to single men.
2007-07-19 08:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by chinamigarden 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should forget it and move on. He was unfaithful to his wife, it was really naive to think he would be faithful to her. She got what she deserved if you ask me, so there's no reason for revenge. How do you think his wife would feel? Especially if they have children. She has done enough damage, she needs to just walk away. Now she should know better than to date a married man......
2007-07-19 08:25:48 · answer #11 · answered by ╚╔╩╦ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋