Marriage & Divorce - 19 July 2007

I've always wanted to go to these asian spas one to find out what the fuss was about.

Would anyone consider my going to one of these parlors as cheating on my wife? I don't plan on getting anything more than a rub/tug, and I don't really feel like that's crossing the line.

I've worked hard this week and just feel like I deserve it.

2007-07-19 16:22:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-19 16:22:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-19 16:17:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whats up with husbands/wives coming on here asking how to spice up their sex life..A spouse should know better then some stranger what turns their husband/wife on and if they dont then thats pretty sad.

2007-07-19 16:16:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

You have a friend and he is going to apply for his divorce and explaining the reasons for his divorce application. What is the basic reason will you accept for his divorce and allow him to apply for the divorce.

2007-07-19 16:05:25 · 9 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5

Have you or would you tell your spouse you cheated? Better yet, do you think you could keep it a secret from everyone with the excepton of your mistress?

2007-07-19 16:04:23 · 12 answers · asked by kas228 2

What can I do to knock my husband off his feet (sexually) when he walks in the door tonight after work? What turns you on (men) or what do you do to drive your man crazy (women). Just looking for some new ideas that I haven't tried already.

2007-07-19 16:02:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you hate it or doesnt it bother you when other men call you baby,sweetie,honey,babe,etc..I hate when other men call me those names..The only man i like calling me those names is my husband.

2007-07-19 16:02:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ""wife"" of 4 years and I have been having some problems that weve been tyring to work out. It started out @ her jobs christmass party she went with some females co-workers to this so called christmass party.which I had no problem with I actually thought it was a good Idea till she came home @ 3am with some man who dropped her off. I didnot react that night for common sence reasons"anger" spoke to her the next day
she swares she did nothing wrong he just gave her a ride home a couple of weeks later she get diamond earing from him and throws it in my face I felt i shouldnt have had to ask her to return them thas just a matter of respect anyway I found out later she was having lunch with this dude finally I left she calles me @ my job to tell me that she is 6wks pregnant by this dude who is married w/6kids oviously im getting a divorce "adultry" she has not told him yet. her family told me that things like this happen get over it they think that Im vendictive "I am when provoked""

2007-07-19 16:02:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife tells me that I get PMSy when we have not had sex for over a week. Does anyone else get that way?? She thinks I am nuts.

2007-07-19 15:50:18 · 26 answers · asked by s f 2

would you like to marry someone who has a standard or someone who just do "whatever" he/she desire?

when you put your money on a bank, which bank you think will protect you (money) the most, the one with strong ethics and standard and fear the state Law? or the one that just go with what they desire it's right regardless what the state law says?

2007-07-19 15:46:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend hangs out with his friend who is a girl way too much. He sees her more than he sees me. He says that there is nothing going on, but I feel that he has feelings for her. I feel as if he cares more for her than he does for me. Am I overreacting? Am I wrong to ask him to end the friendship?

2007-07-19 15:42:52 · 21 answers · asked by Christine S 2

can you please help me ?
My mom and dad have been together for fourteen years and now my dad told my mom (shes not working but she has to watch me) that his money is not hers and as soon as Jonathan (me) goes to college you will get a job and i want to be nice to danny and kelly (his children from a previous relationship) and everytime you get in the way (mom)

Now i really dont know what to do my mom wanted to leave yesterday but she had no where to go to so she came back (it was early morning so we hadnt noticed

my mom just might leave at any moment now and i dont know what to do and i dont think a normal teenager should go through this much pressure and im not sure i can do anything and im crying right now and if she does leave i dont know if i should go with my mom or dad because my dads not all that great and my mom really cares about me but my dad has pretty much everything i know

2007-07-19 15:37:00 · 10 answers · asked by rasengan609 2

I like porn, I like nude photos. I don't care for strip bars. I look at women and think, "Oh my God I'd like to....." When it comes down to my wife of thirteen years, I could care less. Am I wierd? Is there something wrong with me? I know it's all in my head. When I have sex, I like it, but I just don't want to get into it. Once I am into it, I am into it. Any suggestions?

2007-07-19 15:35:58 · 24 answers · asked by richard r 2

His wife wants to move to another state& take his kids ages 13&15.He is the only provider for the family& she has major health issues.He has a very good job& can't be transferred.Is there any legal resource to stop her from taking the kids until either separation papers or divorce is filed?Is there something like a temporary order to prevent her from taking them until it goes before a judge?He does not have very much time to find out what he can do.Is there a legal society to seek advice? If any of you have any knowledge of the law(State of TX.)for this situation?If so we apreciate your help.He has nowhere to turn for answers. THX so much for any info!

2007-07-19 15:05:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is jealous of my son and says he don't know why I ever called him. I called him first. I told him my son and I were fine before him and he takes it that way. Am I stupid or am I married to a idiot? He hates my son and makes life miserable for him when possible. Tell me...do I give up this marriage #3 or keep working on it till my son leaves in a few years?

2007-07-19 14:47:56 · 17 answers · asked by lynn d 1

Since I married my husband 5 yrs ago my sis-in-law hated me for no reason. My mother-in-law said it was jealousy and she would get over it. Well, she never even looked at me not to mention didn't even talk to me. We then found out she was preggo by another man (left her 1st hubby) and then she started talking to me (little girl is now 2). Now I'm the one that can't even stand her, I mean I never have hated someone so much. Now my mother-in-law tells me that it bothers her that we don't get along. I told her she has treated me so bad for about 3 years and I can't just become buddy buddy with her from one day to the next. I told her I was hurt. I don't feel bad about my feelings towards her, cause I never did anything do her but marry her brother. And then I started to think, How come it never bothered her when it was her daughter that gave me the silent treatment.

2007-07-19 14:41:19 · 13 answers · asked by fairy_tinkerbelle_01 2

My parent's have been divorced for over ten years now and my mom has been getting child support money from him for a while...

Untill recently, my father hasn't been paying and we're all annoyed and angry with it cuz he gambles, drinks, and he gets new cars...but he hasn't paid child support money and we're struggling!!

My mom just told me that she wants to get my father's girlfriends address to mail them child support letters, ect. But she wants ME to do it...
I understand why cuz my father isn't the best to talk to (He's so, SO difficult!!) and they always start fighting when they're talking...

So, yet again I'm in the middle...but I feel uncomfortable to ask his gf for her address and for her to be hastled with these letters...my father ignores them and tells me that he's trying, but it's hard to believe with him and his new car, clothes, booze, and gambling money...

What should I do?!

<3 La Reina

2007-07-19 14:37:36 · 17 answers · asked by La Reina 3

2007-07-19 14:35:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband thinks that i do not know how to handle my finances. he's unemployed and i take care of all the bills and expenses. he expects me to save some money. but i am having a hard time because i think we are spending so much on eating out, which he likes and we spend a lot during those times. he argues that it should not be the reason because we don;t do it everyday. but frequency is not the point, it's the amoutn we spend on that one time.he can't get that. now he wants to get all my salary on payday and he'llbe the one to manage it to show me that he can do it. should i? i have given him money in the past, which he just spent carelessly. but i am also thinking that we might do it better that way because he would have to prove that he can handle the money better than i do.

last night, i opened the topic again. i showed him the complete ilst of all the expenses to prove that i am not spending more than i should except for the times that we ate out.

any ideas out there?

2007-07-19 14:12:09 · 46 answers · asked by travlin soul 2

2007-07-19 14:10:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am separated from my husband of 6 years. We were married for 5 years before we separated, so we have been separated for 1 year. I started dating a guy about 6 months ago, that I really care so much about, and I let him know at the time that I was going through a divorce, and he was okay with that as long as everything was completely over between myself and my husband. Now 8 months later, I am in love with this man, and he with me. We are really happy together. However, my husband now wants a second chance, I was the one that initiated the separation due to my unhappiness in the relationship, and he says he has changed and wants a second chance. I know that he has changed many of the things that I am unhappy with so now I am torn. I am from a very religious family that does not believe in divorce, and they are now pressuring me to give him a second chance. On one hand I feel a sense of obligation to him, after all it is "until death do you part", but on the other hand I simply cannot bear to tell this other guy, that I cannot see him anymore. The very thought of it makes my heart break. I know my husband had told people close to me that I was the best thing that ever happened to him, and he knows how royally he screwed up with me. But he has also told them that he isn't going to give me much more time to change my mind about the divorce, and I honestly don't know how I feel about it. I have run through the scenario in my mind, of breaking up with my BF and going to counseling with my husband, and the thought brings me to tears. At the same time, there is that little nagging thought in the back of my head, that my husband will always be there, he is just a loyal kind of guy. But what if my BF eventually breaks my heart, then I will be left alone, and maybe wishing I had worked things out with my husband, and no chance to do so at that point. So to sum it all up, I guess my question is " Do I give my husband a second chance just because he is my husband, and give up the man I am in love with? All this in hopes of falling in love with my husband again?"

2007-07-19 13:53:40 · 8 answers · asked by atablackbelt 3

Before she was my wife, she was my girlfriend (obviously), and we had sex 5 or 6 times a week for the first year. As we dated, year after year for 4 years, that slowed down to once a week. I figured that was normal (even though I wished it was more), but now that we've been married 2.5 years, it went to once every two weeks, to once a month, to now it's July and we've had sex twice in 7 months! She still seems loving and caring, and nothing else seems to be wrong except she just never wants to sleep with me at all anymore. She says it's normal but I think it's really really not. We're both in our early 30's and I am seriously worried about our future. I love her like crazy but I don't know if I can continue... without. We have no children yet and I don't even want any with someone I am so nervous about a furture with. I feel so shallow because otherwise she is everything I could ever want. We had such a great sex life before marriage and now we have literally none. Any ideas?

2007-07-19 13:37:43 · 23 answers · asked by Simian 2

2007-07-19 13:31:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

And can stay together?

2007-07-19 13:30:39 · 23 answers · asked by Marge 5

Been 2gether a little over 2 years, and i honestly thought we were to the point where it would be a great idea for us to get an apt. He said he wants to but "he needs his own space". I CAN respect that but i can't help that my feelings are deeply hurt by his decision. Basically what he is telling me is he's not as committed as he SAYS he is. I respect his decision a 100% but this is really frustrating to me because i thought we were better than that and at a point in our relationship where we could make this happen. Guess not. Am i wrong for feeling hurt by his decision? Rude answers i will report because this is serious to me and i honestly am hurt by this. Thanks in advance

2007-07-19 13:18:31 · 9 answers · asked by janetgoins19 1

and when it's good it's just all good. I seem to be getting yelled at by my husband alot this week. And nothing last week. :(:(:(:(:(:(

2007-07-19 13:14:37 · 12 answers · asked by Marge 5

My husband and I separated in '98, -then eventually divorced.
I never shed a tear, it had been 7 years of hell, -I was all too happy to see him go. Over the years, I came to some realizations, and events played through my mind, I pretty much KNEW that he never loved me, never wanted to marry, only did it to make himself look good-and got me pregnant to keep himself out of jail/prison. He was never there for me, it was never a WE situation, it was all about him, him, him, I just knew deep down, and it never bothered me-other than feeling like an idiot for wasting my life with someone like that-
my problem is, he finally-(in a heated argeument the other evening)-confessed all of the above---now, that I've heard him say all of those things, I am so hurt and messed up inside. I think about it and I just want to cry, --why? why now? I don't understand,,,,how do I deal with this, I am not sure I want to-just why now does it bother me, when it hasn't all of these years? Why now?

2007-07-19 13:10:05 · 6 answers · asked by trinity3x3 3

I really love her, don't know what to do, help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-19 13:02:21 · 11 answers · asked by pas 3

Hi i have been marry for 3 yrs now but i never loved my wife, i marry her because i wanted to come to the state, well everything went well now i have been in the state for 3yrs now, i n her friend had a crush on each other, my wife wanted to link her to my bestfriend so i decided to play a little trick on her which i told my wife to see if she is good though i loved her my trick work and she told my wife i said i think i liked her but later she came on to asking me if i were serious that i love her and i ask her if she were serious that she love, she said yes, i told her i would think about it.She told me she like me and my friend but it is me that she know better than and she really liked me. I don't know what to do, she said if i liked she is willing to have a life with me. Does she also trying to play a trick on her cuss since the last time she told my wife we have had alot of conversation and she has not mention any word to my wife infact she told me she was crazy about me.

2007-07-19 13:00:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous