Hi i have been marry for 3 yrs now but i never loved my wife, i marry her because i wanted to come to the state, well everything went well now i have been in the state for 3yrs now, i n her friend had a crush on each other, my wife wanted to link her to my bestfriend so i decided to play a little trick on her which i told my wife to see if she is good though i loved her my trick work and she told my wife i said i think i liked her but later she came on to asking me if i were serious that i love her and i ask her if she were serious that she love, she said yes, i told her i would think about it.She told me she like me and my friend but it is me that she know better than and she really liked me. I don't know what to do, she said if i liked she is willing to have a life with me. Does she also trying to play a trick on her cuss since the last time she told my wife we have had alot of conversation and she has not mention any word to my wife infact she told me she was crazy about me.
2007-07-19 13:00:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OH MY GODS!!! In that whole rant I only counted 3 periods and 2 commas!!! How did you ever pass English class!!! Are you kidding me?????::laughing::
2007-07-19 14:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by zechriel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i think u both deserve each other, because neither of u have any respect for yourselves or marriage.. so what will happen is you will fall for her, she'll get bored with u eventually and dump u like a hot potato because well she will realize your not as great as u think u are, meanwhile ur wife will not only get hurt by u, but by her best friend as well.. and she will be devestated.. but who cares right, u used her for what u wanted.. right?
YOUR A PATHETIC EXCUSE FOR A MAN AND HER BEST FRIEND IS A PATHETIC EXCUSE FOR A WOMAN , so u deserve each other and all the hurt u both will cause each other down the road..
2007-07-19 20:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
shame on u for what u are doing, hope u get sent back to wherever, maybe u should have told your wife u never loved her before using her to get here, would have been the honorable thing to do if a person was Honorable that is.
2007-07-19 22:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i had to do was read the 1st 3-4 lines and i already see that you are irresponsible of your own actions! what in the hell kinda game are ya'll playing and how old are ya'll?could you be anymore serious?but hey if thats what makes you happy .....im happy for you.IF thats what brightens your rainbow!! why dont you just divorce your "silly" wife and get married to the other dumb dido.that way you get what you want ...be in love and be in the state!i understand ,your just a freeloader doing your job and i have to give you your props your doing it well.
live LAUGH and learn. :)
2007-07-19 20:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by Tabitha M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should be sent back to wherever it is you came from. People that use the sanctity of marriage to come to the US don't deserve to set a foot on our land!
2007-07-19 20:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me introduce to you a saying we have, "When you play with fire, expect to get burnt." I hope you get exactly what you deserve. P.S. She probably didn't say she was crazy about you, she probably told her friend she was crazy for marrying you.
2007-07-19 20:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by foodieNY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are new in this country. They are playing with you. If you leave your wife, could you be sent back? If you want to take this chance, you should include someone from your country of origin, to assess this and counsel you.
2007-07-19 20:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by Marissa Di 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Frankly this is all VERY confusing so I'm not sure I understand it all.....however I will say that
YOU ARE PATHETIC for using her, and I hope she cleans you out in divorce court and then sends you packing to the INS.....
2007-07-19 20:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your terrible! i cant believe you!!! go back to where you came from. the ONLY reason to marry is love. its cruel and sick to do it for anything else!
2007-07-19 20:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by princessfionafantasy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why did you get married?????????? You are a real jerk!!!! GO HOME, AND THAT'S NOT HERE IN THE GOOD USA!!!!!
2007-07-19 20:09:42 · answer #10 · answered by kim t 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋