2007-07-19 08:03:46 · 41 answers · asked by Natasha M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go for it! It's an excellent way to reach sIut status if that's what you're aiming for.
2007-07-19 08:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
In many relationships, sex was the only good thing left at the end. The reason you and your ex probably divorced for other reasons then the sex. He wants it all--his new wife, you, maybe other women. It's up to you whether you submit to being part of his harem, his herd. However, if you do, you are allowing him to continue to use you for his own gratification because he no longer has any responsibility to you. If you too feel you are getting well serviced, then it would be fine (by you, not by his new wife) to have a sexual thing with him as long as you know it doesn't mean he's coming back into your family. And be aware that if his wife finds out, there could be a lot of trouble. And it isn't fair to his new wife to encourage him. But it is up to you.
2007-07-19 08:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by Inundated in SF 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm I guess think of how you would feel if you were still married and he was doing that to you. If he has a new wife then I would consider it off limits. Respect yourself, his new wife and your future relationship with the father of your children. Having sex with him while he is married will only cause drama and stress and in turn not be good for your 3 children that are already in an unfortunate situation of being from a broken family.
2007-07-19 08:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. So what is your question?
If you have any brains, you'll stay away from the guy. He's your ex for a reason. Bear what you have to for visitation purposes and anything regarding the children, but other than that, don't talk to the guy, and don't sleep with him under any circumstances! That would be the most foolish thing you ever did.
2007-07-19 08:07:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be stern....It's best just to leave it alone! That's just unnecessary drama! Being sexually involved with your ex can spark up feelings and emotions beyond control. Not only that he is REMARRIED which means that if he is not happy with who he's with he need to end the relationship instead of cheating. Don't get sucked into his games. Sex with a ex is fun but can be very dangerous so be careful if you choose to go through with it. There's no telling who he may be sleeping with if he's so readily to get back with you.
2007-07-19 08:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at answers given to "Bachelor in CC." You qualify right up there with him. Your ex is committed to another woman. He feels as though he still has "rights" in your bed. IF you allow this, you are as guilty as he of adultery and fornication. This it totally unacceptable behavior. What an example you both will be for your children. Expect problems with them down the road if you allow this to happen. If he needs a sperm toilet, let him use the one in his bathroom, not you.
2007-07-19 08:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, you haven't moved on in 10 years...and you are JUST NOW asking what to do???? You know the answer. You might need some counseling to get yourself moving though.
Side note: Must be nice for him to have 2 cakes and eat them too (no pun intended)
2007-07-19 08:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by weatheredmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So?? Just because he wants you sexually means that he can get it? He's remarried now. If he wants some nookie tell him to get it from your wife. Don't reduce yourself to the ex-wife that he just screws when its convenient and in his self interest but after wards go home to his wife. Once you get sex involved again its going to open a whole can of worms. Are you mentally and emotionally prepared to do that again?? Sex does complicate things.
2007-07-19 08:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So don't give in to him. Have some pride. 10 years of marriage... three kids... and all you are to him is "the other woman"? Where's your pride? Would you want your daughter to go on like that?
Here's a quick rule of thumb: If you can't justify your actions to yourself.... if you were to have a conversation with your adult daughter and explain to her that you let your ex do what he wanted with you while cheating on his current wife... what would you want her to say?
2007-07-19 08:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by Aron1968_30 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and make sure you have the story straight. Then you guys can talk about what is best fo YOU. I know everyone is always focusing on the children, but sometimes, you need to think about what's best for you. If you have no desire to get back together with him, but you think it would make the kids happy, dno't do it just for the kids.
2007-07-19 08:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say use him and dont let him use u. If u are horny and want to stick to the old go for it. Dont let him make the calls he gave that up. Find a newer model.
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2007-07-19 08:22:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋