Marriage & Divorce - 12 June 2007

shes controlling jealous & posessive but they have a house and kid togheter, so she has that going for her. im the one he liesk more im nicer and better in bed. what can i do to get him to dump her for me/

2007-06-12 17:22:14 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay,..me and my boyfriend are planning on getting married. Once im done with school im getting a job and going to beauty school,..im worried cuase il probley be working on weekends and beauty school is mon.-fri. i only really get to see my boyfriend on saterdays cuase he lives far off..and im worried that with the busy days i wont have any time to see him and im scared of our relationship drifting away with the lack of communication. If we get married we'll be able to see eachother every day though....but im not sure..so when should we get married?

2007-06-12 17:13:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

In a nice way, without her getting angry. . . .

2007-06-12 17:08:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I don't like my job. I really don't like it. I hate it, actually. I want to quit and take a job making $5 less per hour until I can find a job I like. I am married. My husband and I are agressively paying off our house. If I take the less paying job-remember, this is only until I find something else or my business takes off-we can still pay all of our bills, but we will have to stop agressively paying off our house. The job I am at currently is stressing me out a lot and I really don't like it at all. I have been there 3 years. Am I selfish to quit?

2007-06-12 17:00:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've seen the HBO series, "Big Love", Mormons have been doing this since the 1800's, and some middle eastern cultures have been practicing polygamy since the beginning of time? Gay marriage has been coming up as a question lately. I think that a man will be able to legally and openly live with three wives real soon.

All we need to do is teach the ignorant! :) Peace my brothers :)

2007-06-12 16:46:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't feel any need to destroy baptismal records but what is angering me more and more is saying prayers and not being answered. My wife divorced me and I feel Christianity is a fat waste because it has no teeth when it comes to reconciling a couple in disagreement. I looked at the Muslims and I think the Christians need to model after them: I do not feel any judge or magistrate should have the right to break what was sanctified. I feel that the only way a wife can get a divorce is by permission of her husband. Otherwise if the two of them have a disagreement it is OK to be separated until they can come together again in peace. But divorce should be completely removed from the power of any government entity. No you can't force anyone to love you but no one forced them to take those vows. So those vows need to be just as binding as the military inductance ceremony.

2007-06-12 16:28:43 · 12 answers · asked by sharonmm2007 2

my friend is curently in love with her boyfriend, but she pretty knows that this man cant marry her bcoz of their culture differences, if he marries her, his brothers and family will suffer since inter racial marriage is not yet open to them, marrying her would lead to repudiation of marriage proposal to his brothers and down to his generations,but the guy loves her so much, however this girl's ex bf is still contacting her and sending sms, her ex is a very close friend of her. Now the guy is telling her that he still loves her so much and that he is willing to marry her.
I know that this guy truly loves her. I asks her who she really loves, and she answered that she loves her bf.
If you were in her case, who would you choose? Would she wait until her current bf can stand for her or would she choose her ex who is ready to marry her and willing to move heaven and earth for her.

2007-06-12 16:23:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says he dont mind doing them at all yet only does them once a month or when I am very sick.
I tell him I dont like to cook all day eat and the have to do the dishes too.Yet he still dont do them.My friend gave me a brand new dishwasher He threw a fit (cause I am the dish washer)So I had to tell her to give it to someone else ):
His beloved mom that he wants me to be like even has a dish washer,

If to him doing the dishes is so fun why wont he ever do them?

2007-06-12 16:18:23 · 10 answers · asked by Lilly K 4

and we were informed she is screwing around with a co-worker. Her father and I feel that we need to confront her in front of the other guy, to find out if it is a rumor or the actual truth. If it is, we feel she is not ready for marriage and it would be pointless to continue with the ceremony. We have invested a lot of money with this. So, because I value a lot of opinons from some of you. What would you do. Finacially back out. Or because most of it is paid let her marry inspite of our feelings of disgust. We love her intended like a son. And feel he should be clued in tomarrow. And the wedding called off. So, let's hear it. What do you recommend?

2007-06-12 16:15:40 · 12 answers · asked by treasuredwife69 5

Despite his complete disregard for my daughter's future, he does seem to be genuinely interested in his 1month old baby girl. I am finding it hard to remain cordial with him when he comes over to my house( my daughter and her baby have moved in with my wife and I for now) to visit his daughter. He has offered to "give" my daughter $XX.XX a month for child support. My wife and I feel this amount is woefully unrealistic. For the sake of our grand-daughter's future well being we have decided to hire legal council. We feel that by putting the custody, paternity and child-support in legal order now, all 3 of them(my daughter, my grand daughter and the father) will be better served in the long run. I doubt that he will look at it that way however. I fear that as soon as he gets served with our lawyers demands, him and his parents will counter our demands with ridiculous demands of their own for the purpose of hoping that we exhaust our funds. Being in the military he gets free legal support

2007-06-12 16:14:05 · 14 answers · asked by gotmini02 1

I have been married for 2 yrs now, when my husband and I were dating he was very passionate but as soon as we got married it stopped! he is 24 and I am 22 I dont think its normal for us to be so distant, sometimes I've even thought about cheating.... but I cant do that because I love him. He never gives me an answer.. he gets mad or just says he is tired.... I cant stand being rejected anymore! What could be wrong!

2007-06-12 16:10:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

He doesn't want a relationship and I do but we hang out sometimes. Does it mean he's keeping his distance so I don't get attached or is he being a jerk?

2007-06-12 15:59:05 · 26 answers · asked by sweettir 2

I dont know what to do, I think im paranoid but i start to think that im not really paranoid and that its just real. I keep thinking that my wife is making me not want to be with her becouse she wants to leave me but is scared. i dont know why maby she thinks i would persu her..does that make sence?

2007-06-12 15:52:19 · 6 answers · asked by bungalo 1

to get over it. I feel if we could talk about it I would get over it, but he wont. I need advice. should i get over it or try to talk with someone about it.

2007-06-12 15:43:41 · 27 answers · asked by sunshinegirl 1

Marrying someone u dont like seemed like a gamble to me. so I assume, one will not marry someone unless he/she is his/her soulmate.

so read my question....what's the answer for that? isnt that sad? is everyone guaranteed to be able to find one's soulmate??

2007-06-12 15:08:55 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been separated for sometime now. without children. i have been wanting to have a child for a long time. then this guy comes along, willing to give me one without the promise of marriage. do you think it is okay to agree to this?

2007-06-12 15:06:41 · 8 answers · asked by macruzphil 1

I am 25 & I have a co-worker is 43 that I have been friends with for 3 years. He went through a really tough divorce about 10 years ago, and ever since then he stopped trusting women. After they got married, he put her through nursing school and then cheated on him and sent the kids to him. Anyways he has seen numerous psychologists but he says they dont help. Soon after we became friends, he devloped a little crush. I have told him numerous times that I dont feel the same way. He drinks to help with his pain and then he calls me up and tells me how great I am and how madly in love he is with me. (He was in the Air Force for 6+ years and he started drinking a lot at a young age) Anyways, I have begged him to get help and he wont. I have told him that if he makes me uncomfortable I wont talk to him, but this crap has been going on for 2 years!! He has a 22 yr old son and I have even told him I had a crush on his son so he would stop!! I really want to be friends but how can I?

2007-06-12 15:00:52 · 9 answers · asked by Miss C 2

I live in Houston and need an antorney to fight with my wife. I have low income. Please help me to find a good lawyer.

2007-06-12 14:45:36 · 5 answers · asked by peteseng 1

We were having a really big fright and this morning my husband slap me across the face and this is not the first time. Im at work and he has not call me at all today and i cant stop thinking about him. What is wrong with me?

2007-06-12 14:20:07 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do u know if my husband is have online affairs with woman on the internet , he has already received emails in his yahoo from a dating service wanbting him to find the right person for him .

2007-06-12 14:06:26 · 21 answers · asked by spolochick 1

TO BREAK UP WITH YOU. And he said in your face "THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES, BUT IT IS TIME FOR ME TO MAKE BETTER MEMORIES WITHOUT YOU IN MY LIFE, BYE" would you start crying in front of him and be PISSED OFF.

2007-06-12 13:49:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married over 25 years. I was always barefoot and pregnant. We had 6 kids. I lost myself even before I was married. I always felt that if I pleased him I was loved and happy. Well I really never could please him, my children could not please him. He was controlling and always putting me and the children down. At times he could be nice and loveable and we did have some good times but I was always alone because he never really wanted to be with me unless we were in bed and I was pleasing him. He cheeted on me, I tried to devorce him but the children were small and I had a new baby and his family ganged up with him and threatned to take my children and prove me an unfit mother. Even though sounded impossible as he was the abuser if there was one. I got scared. We have made it through graduations and I only have one at home age 12 left. We only see each other once or twice per month as he drives truck now.

2007-06-12 13:46:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

People who belong to singles and dating are asking questions here. It's Ok for mature adults that are single and dating to ask questions here but there alot of kids here...

And the people here keep answering them which is encouring them to continuing asking teen questions.

2007-06-12 13:45:34 · 20 answers · asked by Life is FUn 3

My friend who is over sixty has been divorced for five years,she still shares family home with ex .They have seprt facilities and areas.She now has a very caring man wont wants her to be with him. but she cannot move on because she has pity for the old man,who is now in his late 70s and will be on his own if she leaves .She wants our help but we're out of ideas .Help!!!!!!!!!!

2007-06-12 13:45:17 · 5 answers · asked by carolhubac 2

2007-06-12 13:39:39 · 17 answers · asked by Natalie 3

2007-06-12 13:37:50 · 10 answers · asked by Nargus 1

If a guy has been divorced before, women do you see it as a bad thing. Will you hold against him and not give him the time of day or does it not matter at all and you are willing to give a guy a chance no matter what his past is.

2007-06-12 13:30:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

im serious........what do u think......im a guy scared of rejection too. should i try to move to a poorer country.....no females like me.....

2007-06-12 13:30:08 · 75 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have a debit card (my husband can buy any thing he likes with it), and I spend hours making nice things for my his lunch, but he still insists on having cash in his pocket and gets very nasty when he doesn't. He has even went so far as to ask his employer to pay for some of his work in cash, even though he knows it will hurt us in the winter when he is layed off (he is a truck driver). Is this normal?

2007-06-12 13:20:10 · 27 answers · asked by happyclown 1

or drop out of the picture. After 30 years it is hard to know if it is better for everyone to lose contact in order to remove awkwardness about conflicted loyalties, reminders of the divorce, allow the divorced spouse the refuge of no past baggage within the familly, or to continue to reach out to people who have been close for so long, when perhaps it is better not to. What do others think?

2007-06-12 13:14:24 · 16 answers · asked by pete the pirate 5