Marriage & Divorce - 12 June 2007

If your relationship didn't last, what do you wish you would have done to put the spark into it and be a couple ?

2007-06-12 05:50:57 · 5 answers · asked by Suzy-Q 3

when i go into public places by myself and think god em i gonna run into him or his family i avoid goen to certain places for this not to happen i go to work which is close to my house and to the store late at night even though im doen better then being with him whats wrong with me ty so much for your input jewels

2007-06-12 05:50:49 · 3 answers · asked by jewels 2

I am having an affair with a married man. We work for the same company although not in the same department. I don't know if I should end this relationship.

2007-06-12 05:46:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our marriage was over because of his addictions, and his final affair. Of the 20 years it lasted, 15 were so wonderful as to be off the scale ....., and the last three, in the depths of alcohol, depression and indifference... We divorced as friends...I left the state, And then he was killed. I remain angry that he destroyed our marriage (he admitted that), and still so torn with grief. Counseling hasn't helped, neither have anti-depressants... It has been two years... Does it ever end? Any suggestions?

2007-06-12 05:45:24 · 3 answers · asked by ladyren 7

2007-06-12 05:35:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-12 05:34:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

how many people is she married to?

2007-06-12 05:34:28 · 2 answers · asked by james l 1

Is that something I could get into the guiness book of world records for?

2007-06-12 05:33:32 · 32 answers · asked by james l 1

When I get older, I'm not sure if I want to work. I really want to raise a family. Its strange, but i WANT to have children, and cook and keep house. Is that so un-feminist?

2007-06-12 05:29:47 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-12 05:28:33 · 4 answers · asked by Oceanbreez 1

she keeps making that beef cataloni of hers, the paramedic said I would be better off with a heavy smoking habit!!!

2007-06-12 05:21:55 · 34 answers · asked by james l 1

My mom has done some crappy things over the last two years, pretty much since I got engaged to my wife. I moved out from NY to IL to be with my wife back in 2005, and it seems my mom took it personally. When I brought my wife(then fiancee) back to NY to meet my family, my mom invited an ex-gf over with her daughter to have a birthday party for the little girl. I told my mother not to have my ex there under no circumstances, but she laughed it off saying my ex wouldn't take no for an answer.

Last year, in September, my wife and I got married. My mom came out to IL for the bridal shower, but acted rude and childish in front of my in-laws. She was also two hrs late to the shower without calling me. (Hell for all I knew, she could've been in an accident) Then she didn't even make it out here for my wedding, saying she didn't have the money.

My wife, of course, doesn't want anything to do with my mom. Is there anyway to smooth things over, or is this a lost cause?

2007-06-12 05:18:59 · 14 answers · asked by mjciani916 2

I am married -and recently my first love contacted me out of the blue. Its been 6 years since we had contact. Now I find myself wanting to talk to him and see him again. We have alot in common and so much history and I see so much in him that want and I don't in my husband. I can't help but thinking if this all happened for a reason and he is the one, but at the same time, I'm not ready to end my marriage. How did this get so confusing for me if I really loved my husband ? Oh, and this guy is still in love with me and has been since we were teenagers. How do I push that away? I have a fear of hurting my family but am I sacrificing my happiness just to keep the peace? What do I do?

2007-06-12 05:06:55 · 8 answers · asked by JUSTME 1

I have been married to my wife for more than 3yrs. We met in church and were very good friends. I was a little attracted to her but loved her more for who she is. I have always heard that it's better to marry you best friend then just based on attraction. We have two kids now one is from a previous relationship that she was in (13yrs.) and one is ours (4 yrs). I love my kids allot, but I find that my feelings for my Wife is not a deep love, but a friendship. I am just not attracted to her physically and never really was. She is physically attracted to me and wants to be with me everyday...but I just don't feel the same towards her. I have to act like I do and sometimes I feel that she knows. I am not happy and keep telling myself that more time might change things. I want to love my wife 100% in every way, but just don't and feel that I shouldn't have to force this feeling in my heart. I don't want to end of married after 20yrs. and the kids are gone and then tell her. Any advise?

2007-06-12 05:06:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is a big kid but I need him to be a grown up and clean up after himself.We have 3 children I don't need a grown kid.Last night he vomited on the floor and told one of the kids to throw a towel over it.After yelling at him he went and cleaned it up then my son told him that he also threw up on the back of my kitchen chairs I got on to him again cause he knows Mondays I scrub my kitchenincluding my chairs I told him too.I thought he cleaned it up before he went back outside only for me to find it dried on there this morning.Been marrried 11 years so I got too much time invested in him to leave now.HeHe

2007-06-12 05:05:52 · 11 answers · asked by Linda101 3

2007-06-12 05:00:15 · 27 answers · asked by cindy v 1

so instead of getting a divorce and making the kids sad.....

I got my game on... I went out and hooked with a hot 24 year old....

My wife seen our sex tape that we made is freaking mad...

Now she wants a divorce....

All I did was get an eye for an eye....

Was I wrong?

And should my wife be mad?

she was the one that screwed around first.

2007-06-12 04:54:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should I remind them or just go on with my day?

2007-06-12 04:41:23 · 57 answers · asked by Hamish 7

hello, ok well i affecinitly named my b/f's family the Jerry Springer family (= we are getting married in a year and i'm worried...his mother is a drunk and has lost her mind literaly we went at it even though i tried to hold my tounge knowing i will marry into this family...well now things suck she has been trying to kick my b/f out for no reason since the day i met him we are trying to save for the wedding and i dont want to move in togther until then...but ithink i might have to change that she is getting worse and degrades my b/f all the time to top it off she got my b/f's brother to hate both of us...i didnt do anything seriously she is crazy...my question is can marrieges surivie crazy insane meen families? i love him and he loves me but somtimes i get so over welmed with their drama i dont think i can do it! so yea can it last...and tips on how to deal..i already decided i'm not talking to her anymore i tried to be civilized but that failed.
sorry for spelling, i typed fast.

2007-06-12 04:39:05 · 18 answers · asked by lovely 3

My heart went out to you when I read your question. You deleted it, so I couldn't answer you. My dad did the same thing with my mom. He manipulated my sisters & I into not wanting to see her, while he was sending her nastygrams. He would tell us that she wanted to seperate us, or to "steal" us away from everyone.
I resent & sometimes hate my dad for what he did. Eventually we saw her again when she came to visit us. My dad stopped being an *ss when he found someone else.
My advice to you is to continue trying to talk to your daughter. Try to go down to see her. Make the visits through your mom/bro, since you do not want to have contact with your ex.
Don't force her. If you do, you run the risk of pushing her away from you, as well as giving your ex the chance to say more horrible things about you.
KEEP THE VOICE MESSAGES & CONTACTS THAT HE'S SENT YOU! You may need it for a legal battle, as well as proof later for your daughter.
Don't give up. I believe that you can make it work.

2007-06-12 04:30:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing this guy for about three months but things have gotten kind of serious. I'm 29 he's 40. We have had lots of fun together and he has even met my daughter in which she likes him a lot. He had told me he was divorced and has two kids which I'm ok. Now the story has changed and he has been married twice and has a child by each woman. It took me a day but then I decided ok I wil deal with it. He travels a few days during the week having to go to both places that each ex wife lives one is re-married the other isn't. He has been acting weird lately and i had booked something that cost $200 for his b-day and we had an argument so he didn't go but paid me back the money. He was supposed to go on a trip with me and my daughter this weekend to the beach but now isn't going and we were goig to split the trip and I have charged the hotel on my card. I feel that something is not right with this guy and don't feel I should continue to date him. Any advice would be helpful.

2007-06-12 04:21:34 · 12 answers · asked by Venus 3

1. Being gay is not natural. Real Americans always reject unnatural things like eyeglasses, polyester, and air conditioning.

2. Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people will make you tall.

3. Legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior. People may even wish to marry their pets because a dog has legal standing and can sign a marriage contract.

4. Straight marriage has been around a long time and hasn't changed at all; women are still property, blacks still can't marry whites, and divorce is still illegal.

5. Straight marriage will be less meaningful if gay marriage were allowed; the sanctity of Britney Spears' 55-hour just-for-fun marriage would be destroyed.

2007-06-12 04:20:08 · 38 answers · asked by Armless Joe, Bipedal Foe 6

I have never been with another woman but my wife and I feel the urge to discover what its like with another woman, is it ok to try it once and satisfy my curiosity or just live in this depression that I will never know? can any lady out there help me?

2007-06-12 04:19:02 · 26 answers · asked by Cuz 1

My husband is purchasing a 2nd home and using our first home equity line to generate the fund for this 2nd home purchase. I've been having my own credit card debts (total close to 40k) that he does not know.

The loan agent said that may use my name for the loan cuz they think that my credit score will be better than my husband's. I'm so freaking out now cuz I know my credit score is not great at all and I'm so so so nervous that my husband will know my total credit card debts.

Should I call the loan agent not to disclose my debts to my husband or he will automatically know that its my own info and will now tell my husband know (the loan agent will run my credit check and will see all my debts).

This 2nd home I will not have my name on it but my husband thinks it does not matter and my credit should be used if it helps get a loan.

What should I do now? Should I CALL the loan agent and inform him this or I just keep praying that my husband will not know? Pls advise. Thanks

2007-06-12 04:15:55 · 21 answers · asked by xpi11 1

My g/f, "Patty" and her husband "Ron" have too many issues to deal with. He doesn't like spanish women, but yet married one? She is very lite complected so therefore looks (and acts) white. Her and I have been friends for almost 10 yrs.



Main problem is he can't stand me and I have never even met the man but once, when their son was in the hospital. I don't even know why? I have never done ANYHTING to make the man think I'm a horrible person or anything. The only thing he doesn't like that I can figure is, he doesn't believe that a woman can have several children ( I have 4) and be a stay at home mom (which I am). In his eyes that is not natural. It is degrading according to him. I love my friend and she loves me (not sexually at all for the pervs out there).

Anyways, "Patty" allows him to be VERY controlling of everything. She has 2 sons, one is autistic,(18) one is a spoiled brat (11). She allows "Ron" to basically treat her as if she is a child.

I have told

2007-06-12 04:07:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married and most times like the feeling of being with another woman, I dont want to break my marriage but is it bad to go after other women?

2007-06-12 04:03:36 · 29 answers · asked by Cuz 1

No horrible answers please if you can, its upsetting enough.
Scenario - boy and girl date for 5 years from age 19, girl finishes with boy on three occasions and sleeps with another man, cheated once by kissing other man. Girl had brief fling with man while couple were on a break, boy and girl get back together. - Boy and girl split up again, boy starts seeing other girl. Original girlfriend doesn't know this and wants boy back, boy sleeps with original girl then says he is seeing girl 2. Boy plays both girls off against each other, original girl falls pregnant, boy still sleeps with both girls, lying to one then the other in turn, 2 years this goes on for. Boy tells original girl that he can't take her back and be a family with their baby because she slept with other man when they were not together. This is not a question of who is more wrong, but please make your comments, this is about man thinking that he has done nothing wrong and it is just deserved,

2007-06-12 04:00:21 · 26 answers · asked by anon2008 1

2007-06-12 03:53:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, not literally, but I'm so f*cking pissed off right now I can't see straight! I want to divorce him!

Alright see I got in this argument with him...its was hypothetical it was stupid...and today he woke up and he deleted my book! I was writing a book and I had 57 pages finished and he deleted it off my computer out of spite!!!! he deleted it then emptied the recycle bin! I can't believe he'd do this to me!!! I'm so angry right now I don't even know what to do.

I'm taking my kids to a hotel. Maybe some of you don't look at this as a big deal, but my whole life I've wanted to be a writer and this was my first book and 57 pages is a lot ok and it was on my laptop I didn't print out a copy. He killed my dream. I'm taking my 2 kids to a hotel for the night. Like he'd care anyways. He's too busy sulking!!! He shouldn't be sulking I should!

Any additional advice? I'm going to lose my mind...

2007-06-12 03:47:45 · 75 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am recently single and have been at my job for about 4months. At my job, the women to men ratio is about 9-1, and out of the 10% of men that work there, probably half of them are gay. I am being heavily pursued by several women, and most of them seem to be married. I'm not really flattered by the situation, more like annoyed with it. I have never gotten myself involved in a relationship with a married woman, and I don't plan on it. I basically am looking for suggestions on how to get them to leave me alone while not looking like a complete jackass.

2007-06-12 03:45:41 · 21 answers · asked by Lyrikal 1