2007-06-12 05:00:15 · 27 answers · asked by cindy v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go tell your husband. He'll know just what to do to make you direct your attention back at him ;). Well if he's the understanding type and not the violent possessive type, that is.
2007-06-12 05:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by rawr8512 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have "fallen in love" again because that relationship was not closed or finished for some reason. Regardless, you have moved on, and you may regret it if you do not finish the relationship you are in, or if you let an old boyfriend get in the way of you having a fulfilling relationship right now with your husband. The best way to get him out of your mind: either close off the relationship so there's no temptation by telling him you have moved on and you do not want to see him anymore because you are happy with your husband. Or, keep yourself busy and forget about it.
2007-06-12 12:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by Brianna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are already married and in a relationship, so it's best of you try not to stay in contact with your old boyfriend. Even though you still think about him, over time he will slowly fade away from your thoughts. Unless the man you are with now you do not truely love, all I can say is follow your heart...
*~Stay Strong, Don't Cheat~*
2007-06-12 12:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think It is hard to get over those 1st loves and You need to stay as far away as possible. It will all work out. You are just thinking of old times and sometimes that is hard when you are in a rut in your marriage. Maybe do something to spice up your marriage and I think you will find that that is all it is is memories. Good Luck.
2007-06-12 12:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by Nece 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Review the following:
Why didn't it work out in the first place?
What are his most annoying flaws/
Why did you pick your husband over him?
What are the things you love about your husband?
If you and your hubby are going through a rough patch, go to marriage counseling. Don't ruin a marriage over an old flame.
2007-06-12 12:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by lauren d 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you love your husband more then your old bf they stay married, but if things are not working out in your marriage and you went through all the possiblities to try and resolve you and your husbands issues and you think you'll have a better life with your old bf then get a divorce....good luck at your decision.
2007-06-12 12:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by legacy1nonly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in love its hard i was in the same situation not to long ago i sat down and wrote down all the reasons i got married to this man and then made a list of all the good things in our relationship. hope for you there's more pros then cons but if not you need to sit back and decide what you want more.
2007-06-12 13:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by Darlene B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love your husband, then make every effort to spend more quality time with him.
Don't forget that there is a reason why you broke up with your ex-boyfriend. Don't let your old ex be the reason you find yourself with a new ex.
2007-06-12 12:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get counseling, marriage and spirtitual. Do you love your husband? Is the marriage worth wrecking over what might be just a temporary fantasy fling??
2007-06-12 12:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by CAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What tha... you're married and you still feel this way about an old boyfriend. Well then... yall need to talk, because your feelings should've left if you're married to the right guy? :)
2007-06-12 12:03:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋