Is it bad to like women, even though you are married?

Question

I am married and most times like the feeling of being with another woman, I dont want to break my marriage but is it bad to go after other women?

Answer 1

DEFIANTLY!!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

You have asked two questions here and the answers are - 1. how can it be "bad" to like women, who form at least half the human race? Does anyone go through life disliking all women? 2. If you are married, it is on the bad side of decent to "go after" other women, although you might by chance meet another woman whom you find attractive enough to leave your wife for. As you know, this happens a lot, and has come to be regarded as more or less "normal", but that doesn't excuse it.

Answer 4

It is alright to look but don't date and don't touch other women in front of or away from your wife. Every wife knows husbands look. They look too. You want to have your cake and eat it too. And your wife knows you are up to something if she is not keeping house as well and is depressed. What a jerk you are! If your wife left you would be to first to ask her to come home because you probably love her and you can't stand the thought of her being with another man. YOU are immature and and not committed and probably telling all kinds of lies to her to cover up things. If she did the same thing you would be devastated and would probably beat up on her. You are taking your wife for granted and we eventually realize it. Grow up and start treating your wife with respect and STOP LYING to her before it is too late. The computer tells all and she knows what you are doing she will stop loving and respecting you eventually. Marriage is not a prison unless you think of it that way. The problems you create are usually of your own making. Lies and covering things up and pretending it is no all right. Nothing gives you the right to continue just because you don't have sex with them. If you have been married a long time believe me she will not give up until she finds out for sure and then it will be too late for you to save your marriage. We wives know about call backs and telephony and faxes. meeting places, Windows Media with audio and messages that are transparent and you are a fool. We know about timers that bring things at a certain time and we know why you are always saying- Don't you need to go to the store for something so you can indulge in your secrets. She wo't take very much of you reading your messages across the room from her just because you are lying if that is what you are doing. Take care of your wife. Stop lying and she will take care of you the way you want. Don't compare her to other women every time you look her in the face. Why do you think you deserve better? Do you look like Brad Pitt? Are you some kind of genius that deserves better? What makes you think you deserve to lead a double life? It is wrong no matter what you tell yourself. Is that what you saw your father do when you were young? Grow up. Are you middle aged and think you are missing something. Believe me she knows she is missing something too and will eventually go after it. If you love her stop driving her away. The gap will grow wider every day you lie. If you are bored get a new hobby.

Answer 5

Yes it is wrong because how would you feel if she did this to you? You have to put your desires aside and instead really put your energy into loving your partner. I think that if you cheat it has a negative effect on your life, even if your partner doesn't find out because you have betrayed someone you made a commitment too so you are liar to your partner and yourself. Marriage isn't about convenience, it's about sharing your love, honesty, trust...your life together. If something is wrong in your relationship that makes you want to stray, then talk to your wife and fix the problem. You might find after awhile that your wife has a side to her that you didn't know and that she is the only woman you need. (o;

Answer 6

Yeah... it's called adultery/cheating/whathave you. You're a man, you can't help looking. BUT having said that .... You can always look at the menu after dinner, but it sure doesn't mean you have to eat again eh?
Then again, do you think it's wrong if your wife looks at all the hot men with six pack abs and the rest of the package?

I would ask yourself WHY are you looking so much? Has your partner's physical appearance changed? Are you bored with your sex life and having hot fantasies as you look? Figure that out, work with your partner, not against her, and you might end up looking at your wife a little more...

Answer 7

It is happen mostly during the middle age of a man? The best thing to do, talk to your wife and established the current feeling you both have. If you dont love her, you better divorce that to suffer for a life time,anyway you dont have children.Find another woman that you will honestly love her that to sin forever.

Answer 8

According to women, once you marry them they own you lock, stock and ****. If you have thoughts of other women you're cheating on them. That's why you shouldn't have gotten married. But, it's too late now. I see a big Divorce in your immediate future.

Do you "own" your spouse? Do they "own" you? It's like voluntary slavery. Marriage is a VERY BAD IDEA THAT NEVER WORKS!!!!

Answer 9

Which ever way you ask your question, the answer is still the same , if you are happily married and value your relationship then don't ever consider a fling.. You'll get hurt -your wife will get hurt and most likely the woman you fling with will get hurt.. is it worth it?
Stay home and work on things with your wife...

Answer 10

YES! You really need someone to answer this for you? If you don't to break up your marriage then STOP! Go talk to your wife and find out what you feel like you are missing and work it out with your WIFE!

Answer 11

The secret of a long and happy marriage is to have a little fantasy every now and then. you are quite normal. Just do not tell your wife and if it is only in your head and helps then there is no harm.