okay,..me and my boyfriend are planning on getting married. Once im done with school im getting a job and going to beauty school,..im worried cuase il probley be working on weekends and beauty school is mon.-fri. i only really get to see my boyfriend on saterdays cuase he lives far off..and im worried that with the busy days i wont have any time to see him and im scared of our relationship drifting away with the lack of communication. If we get married we'll be able to see eachother every day though....but im not sure..so when should we get married?
2007-06-12 17:13:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Getting married for the soul purpose of saving a relationship from "drifting apart" is a lousy reason to get married. Go to school. Finish it up. Get a job. And then think about your future together. God willing, you will get to see him everyday for the rest of your life after that. And then you'll probably wonder why the heck you rushed into it to begin with.
2007-06-12 17:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay single as long as possible. Advice from a woman that has been around. Why? Because any man will respect you more if you go into a marriage independent, financially independent. He will definately realize you can handle things with or without his divine presence. Men are like dogs, you pick up after them, feed them, etc....you need more time to develop who you are without him. This is the time to do something for your self, marriage has a side that ties you down, it gets into turmoil the first years also.
2007-06-13 00:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After school. With all the stresses going on in your life, worrying about your husband living away from you, etc is hard enough. That way you could get a new job, or get promoted with your new degree and start your lives off together on a positive note, rather than one in struggle.
2007-06-13 00:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after beauty school. if you're meant to be together, you should take some time to get established in your career track. if you get married right now, you may not go through school as quickly as you should or do as well in school.
It will be worth the wait. Don't rush into marriage.
2007-06-13 00:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by Driver's_Seat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, best thing for you to do is finish school.
its ur life and u need to finish what u started... meaning beauty school, and then get married.
if he loves you he will wait.... or you can do it during but i would want to give my hubby my full attention especially in the beginning of the marriage instead of staying in school and coming home and being tired.
but its ur life do what u think will help u prosper.
2007-06-13 00:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by limebacardi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want a happy marriage? Be sure you are ready about finances to support kids. Be sure you can handle the all housekeeping jobs. And be sure you can handle sex too.
2007-06-13 00:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by Seph2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU LOVE EACH OTHER AND ARE SURE YOU WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIVES TOGETHER,WHAT DEFERENCE DOES IT MAKE WHEN YOU GET MARRIED FOLLOW YOUR HEART,BUT WHAT EVER YOU DO ONCE YOU GET MARRIED DON'T LET THE LOVE SPARK DIE PEOPLE SEEM TO STOP TRYING TO PLEASE EACH OTHER AFTER THEY SAY I DO,ALL THE EXCUSES START I WORK TO MUCH I'M TIRED OR WE GOT THE REST OF OUR LIFE WHY WORRY ABOUT KEEPING IT FRESH AND LOVING,THAT THE BEGINNING OF THE END,BE SURE YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED TO START WITH,THEN IT REALLY DON'T MATTER WHEN YOU SET THE DATE,GOOD LUCK HOPE YOU HAVE MANY YEARS OF LOVE AND HAPPINESS
2007-06-13 00:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by trouble13d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before would be just fine.
2007-06-13 00:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by Queenie knows it all. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋