how do u know if my husband is have online affairs with woman on the internet , he has already received emails in his yahoo from a dating service wanbting him to find the right person for him .
2007-06-12 14:06:26 · 21 answers · asked by spolochick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
most times those e-mail'a are spam. Others it could be real but check you debt or credit cards most times you cant join and talk too real people unless you pay a fee. You can join and look but you have to pay too play (exchange e-mails, voice mail ect.) If he is like me I go and look at the real nude pictures of local woman in my area..PS...My girlfriend knows and sometimes she sits beside me and goes through the pictures to see if we know anyone....Nothing like running into someone you just seen in the buff on the street
2007-06-12 14:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by thebaked 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone gets those emails.I get enhance your breast size emails so does that mean I'm on the net seeking a set of bigger t!ts? I don't think so.Look at his history and see.If you don't know how to then learn.It's not rocket science.Another user made this comment (below) and it bothers me.I can understand her checking up with him while she was with him but how does she know he is doing it to his current wife? Can't she let go of him and move on?
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The way to check to see if he's active on a yahoo dating service is put in the search for a man his age in your zip code. If his picture shows up, then he's advertising. I found out this way with my exfiance. He also posted the same advertisement while being married to his current wife. Not too slick.
2007-06-12 21:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Bling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he is not around, you need to check the computer's history. Check the sites that have been visited. Check the temp Internet files for pics, video's, etc....
In the end...just ask him. If you have a strong bond, you can tell if he is lying.
I caught my husband looking at online porn several years ago. I found out by checking the computer when he was gone...I found a tone of stuff. I confronted him and he has never done it since. He knows I check still to this day every so often.
Good luck!
2007-06-12 21:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lost for Some Time 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way to check to see if he's active on a yahoo dating service is put in the search for a man his age in your zip code. If his picture shows up, then he's advertising. I found out this way with my exfiance. He also posted the same advertisement while being married to his current wife. Not too slick.
2007-06-12 21:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get spam in my Yahoo account all the time from lots of seedy sites, and also a lot from accounts that look like women pretending to know me, or saying we'd chatted before when it isn't true. If the email directs you to a Web site or another email address, that's a dead giveaway that it's spam. Much more significant would be emails he had sent to other people, or email he receives from women who know enough personal details about his life that it's clear it's not spam. The bigger issue, though, is that it's clear you don't trust him, and that needs attention. Please find someone to talk with about that, someone you trust and can be open with, like a therapist or a clergyman, who will keep your confidence.
2007-06-12 21:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by Dan H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, sometimes we get those e-mails but if I were you I will check what he is doing in the Internet and where he goes specially if he is spending a lot of time on line.
There's many ways to check the history of someone.
2007-06-12 21:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by Belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes getting emails about a dating service, that means hes looked at the site! I think its time for a serious talk!
2007-06-12 21:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by jms62394 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be junk mail, but if you want to be sure you can buy programs that can be installed without being noticed in anyway to record IM's, websites visited, records keystrokes and even take snapshots of the computer screen. Good luck!
2007-06-13 00:16:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of those stupid dating services send stuff to everyone married or not. If you have EVER bought ANYTHING on the net, you'll get all kind of junk mail and unless he has an account with one of them its just spam. I even get letters from girls I have never met wanting to meet me and I dont belong to any dating clubs.
2007-06-12 21:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is usually spam I get those, but if you have doubts go to the websites open a free profile and search near ur zipcode
and you will know
2007-06-13 02:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by whitediamond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋