Marriage & Divorce - 5 June 2007

Why or why not?

2007-06-05 03:36:59 · 24 answers · asked by Proud mother! 6

Do girls prefer to stay naked at home all the time when they are alone or during their presence with their spouses?

2007-06-05 03:31:10 · 14 answers · asked by Mr. Bean 2

Recently I have grown very close to my sister-in-law. I have known my wife for 7+ years and my sister-in-law for the same amount of time by association. Over the past few years I have felt drawn to my Sister-in-Law. At first I thought this was just a crush, but it is more powerful than that. When I am with her I don't feel aroused or turned on like I might do when I see a particularly good looking woman. What I feel is an intense sense of longing. My heart breaks a little everytime we meet.
I have never been unfaihtful to my wife nor have I been tempted to. In fact I love my wife and worship her...but I think I love her sister as well. This sucks and I am beginning to get really depressed. I have a tiny suspicion that my sister-in-law might harbour feelings for me as well. She is married with kids and I am married and talking about having kids. Some days I feel like leaving the country to get away from this mess. Other mornings I want to sweep my Sis-in-law off her feet. Advice?

2007-06-05 03:28:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today is our 8th wedding anniversary. Last week we signed the settlement papers for a divorce. I am so sad about all of this - wish it was different. Counseling etc didn't help. We are in contact - emails, instant msgng, etc. Should I acknowledge that today is our anniversary? If yes, any ideas on how?

2007-06-05 03:23:52 · 17 answers · asked by echolaine 3

My mother left very spacific instructions that the money was to be put into a spend thrift trust for me in case I needed it.She did not trust my husband when it came to money for fear he would waste it.
Right now we are in a big financial disaster due to a foot injury my husband has.My question is,is there any thing we can do to get this money or a portion of it?I`ve tried talking to my sister and she refuses to let me have a penny.Can I contact a lawyer?Do I have a case.I don`t want to do this,I feel like I`m disgracing my mothers memory and disgracing my family.At the same time,I have 3 kids and we just baught a house.I`m really being put in a very bad position here,but I feel like I`m being backed into a corner and being forced to take drastic meaures.Any advise would be helpful.Legal advice?Is this morally the right thing to do?Also my husband needs surgery and in alot of pain.He has to work under these conditions,on his feet 10 hours.$$ is needed for surgery to be possible.

2007-06-05 03:23:19 · 7 answers · asked by mom2119114 3

Im a married woman. Not a very happily married woman right now, for various reasons. But im starting to fancy other men. I sometimes feel guilty, but at other times it help to drift off into my own little fantasy world when things are tough at home.

Is this wrong of me to get the hots for other guys? Is this cheating, even if its only in my head?

2007-06-05 03:09:55 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

i belive that there should be one that always has the final word on a subject and thats my husband i like to try and be a surrendered wife .If the man and woman are fighting for top spot you get lots of arguments whats your view

2007-06-05 03:09:18 · 27 answers · asked by noot 3

My friend is having an affair with our social studies teacher! He's 50 and MARRIED! I keep telling her that she should give him up, but she won't listen! Whats worse is I think he is cheating on her with our ex best friend alex! What should I do?

2007-06-05 02:59:44 · 22 answers · asked by FU! -.~ 3

I stalled, and stalled and my beautiful girlfriend of 4 years brokeup with me. I am suffering enough as it, I dont need anyone else to tell me that I blew it. She just got sick of waiting for me and she told me she couldnt wait more and for my false promises, brokeup with me in January ( i thought we were simply taking time to think well) and married some ex-boyfriend 4 months later. Since she has been married, she has told me via email, phone, or messenger, that she only wanted to "be a wife, and be married." She contacted me each time. Says her husband treats her nice, but that she is still in love with me, missed me, and should have waited to marry me. However, she tells me she cant consider divorce as she just got married, but is confused bcs. she loves me too much.

As she seems to have married out of desperation and only wanting to be married, will she make herself happy? Is there any hope she will ever change her mind and get divorced? What should I do? I am too devastated.

2007-06-05 02:57:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've had mixed reactions to this! Some men don't mind others think its disgusting!!

2007-06-05 02:44:57 · 25 answers · asked by chesty la rue 2

should we compromise and only get one boob done? that way we both get what we want....it has to be at least a c cup.

2007-06-05 02:43:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-05 02:40:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex boyfriend the 52 year old came round yesterday night at 1 am, our baby was awake so he attending to her, he did't even speak to me the Whole night, if I sat near him he moved, at night he slept on the sofa, I asked if he wanted a blanket etc.he said no, but I did come back and put one other him as he was asleep.

In the morning the same he didn't speak to me at all, when he left I unlocked the middle door for him and took the baby, said say bye bye to daddy and went into the living room, he then left in a huff, left the door next to the front door open and went. aarh

Yesterday morning when I phoned him if we could be friends for the babies sake, because the tension is hurting me as it seems that he HATES ME! but before he slaped the phone down he say the problem is that he loves me, he doesn't hate me?

I dont understand, I thought being in your 50s you were more grown up, 40s is the midlife crisis.

Can anybody tell me why hes acting like this?

2007-06-05 02:38:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-05 02:36:39 · 14 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

We are newly married. Sex life is great for the last 7 months.
Issues are that she complains me about looking at girls.
also, she thinks I lie about small things...

when I am angry when she accuses me of things..she says I
do not love her..she says if I loved her I would never be that angry and look like complete stranger.

I believe relationship patience. she is only 22 and I am 28.
may be she is grown up and I am focusing on small issues more. May Be i am expecting too much perfection from her..

what do you guys think..I believe relationship grows by focusing on positiveness and work on weakness..

please share your thoughts and let me know how much
you came from your experience when you were newly married and how you learnt to work on it and grew stronger

2007-06-05 02:35:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this women at my work, she is married, she is always changing her story, one minute its she only lives with her daughter, the next minute its, her husband is back in the house, then its he comes and goes but doesnt sleep there, then now she says she is trying to get him out of the house. she claims she is going through a divorce, one minute she wants the divorce, the next minute he wantsit, what the heck is wrong with this women?? we have gone out twice and every time i question her on things she looks defensive? any advice is welcome?

2007-06-05 02:29:13 · 12 answers · asked by louvandam 1

For RCs in India, what is/are the :
a) Rules to obtain divorce (with or without mutual consent )

b) weightage given to the decisions of the Church and the court, if different, i.e, one grants divorce and the other does not? Whose decision will be considered final and binding, and is it possible to re-appeal?

2007-06-05 02:18:00 · 5 answers · asked by Cathy 1

My husband and I have been married for 7.5 years and we have 5 little girls together. Over the course of our relationship he has kept me from working or going to school, or basically anything that would give me a leg up should I ever decided to leave. He has never once bought me a christmas present, or a birthday present. In fact he has forgotten my birthday completely 4 out of the 8 years we have been together. He has made me feel like nothing. Like a weak, dirty little animal with no purpose except to serve him. He does not treat our girls well either. He yells all the time, makes them go to bed at 7:00, and his tone is just- mean. There are so many things he has done in the past to hurt me badly that I just can't let go of, and he really hasn't changed much over the years. When he touches me, my skin crawls. I finally have the nerve to get up and leave when the school year ends. Am I doing the right thing?

2007-06-05 02:12:32 · 26 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-06-05 02:10:22 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a seemingly insignificant issue, but just wanted to see if anyone had any thoughts on it. My boyfriend and I are "taking a break." The problem is that our lives are very intertwined (we've been together 3 years and have 4 kids between us from previous marriages.) Tonight is posing an issue. We bowl on a league together. I'm debating not going tonight to keep from being around each other. Am I being childish by not going, or is that taking the high road and allowing him the space he's asked for?

2007-06-05 02:06:54 · 15 answers · asked by Mel 6

We've been separated over a year, but always "working on it" b/c we both still really love and care for each other. Tough b/c last 6 months in different cities b/c of work. There are lots of issues that I can still see solving if we both agree to really work at it.

But my main concern has always been that no matter how close our hearts are, our minds are far apart. Often, he can't understand what's interesting to me - books I read, films I watch, writing I do. He loves sports TV. I have part of a master's degree - he never finished college. I'm a grammar freak and he ... isn't. But we DO have fun at movies, restaurants, sports, and traveling.

Even now, we haven't gone to other people, but I always worried that if I met someone more compatible, I would be tempted.

Basically, this is something I don't see how he can fix, so if our marriage is to have a chance, I have to accept him "as is." Anyone have experience in how to do this? Married to someone with a different language even?

2007-06-05 02:01:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay. I've known my best friend for 15 years. we dated a little in highschool just never worked out. He was a player and played me. He has long since changed. We know each other inside and out. He finally realized in april when i had my official big wedding that we are ment for each other! I would never cheat on my husband so we are strictly friends. the problem is I am happiest when i'm with my best friend. All my husband and i do is fight. He is disabled and when we married it was agreed he would be mr. mom. Well that isn't happening. I go to work and he also expects me to take care of the house and cook dinner all the while he is home all day. I don't know what to do! please help!

2007-06-05 01:57:58 · 13 answers · asked by catdogpenny 3

They have a lot of stuff together, who leaves, who gets what?
They are in their 50s. They have to be apart that isn't an option, but how do they move on?

2007-06-05 01:54:08 · 5 answers · asked by minnieab 2

where was it? the sitting room,bedroom,kitchen or the dinning room?

2007-06-05 01:44:09 · 17 answers · asked by Omar 1

My ex-husband just left me a messager saying that our 15 year old daughter is in a lot of pain and not doing well in school. I gave him sole physical and legal custody during the divorce.

He moved due to job reasons and left her in his mother's care. He spent about 1 week with her after Memorial Day and said she is having a hard time in life. I live in another state.

He wants me to come with both of them and move to new state where he is living. He is stating that she needs both parents. He does not want to send her to me. I am open to that.

I am confused again and don't know what to do. I really feel for my child and want to help her. I can look into moving where he is, but living separately. He always convinces me to come back to him though when I have tried that in the past.

2007-06-05 01:33:42 · 20 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

was married for 20yrs with 2 sons thought it was a happy marriage until i found out he had been lying and cheating for the last 6 months with a slapper who had had god knows how many affairs with married men my ex was fully aware of her reputation but it never stopped him when i found out i put in for a divorce on the grounds of his adultry named her as well they bith signed the papers which made it go through a lot quicker he went to live with her it only lasted a few months he now has no home his kids wont have anything to do with him he is sleeping on his mothers settee and he is miserable me i am so pleased as it couldn't have happened to a better person now i'm divorced i am happy with my life and wished i had realised sooner what a no good for nothing he was i would like to meet someone to share my life with as now i feel is the right time to do it any advice please as to how i go about meeting a new man it has been such a long time since i did the dating thing

2007-06-05 01:23:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked my first question in thsi forum about whether the lady i like really LOVES me or is she after permanent residency. Now 8 months later and seeing each other everyday it is very strong between us...2 nervous, anxious creatures we are waiting. Waiting for what??......she wants to sign up lease with me, start a family on top of her 2 kids she has back in Nepal and be with me all her life. She texts me like 30 times a day on average and even though we cannot communicate the best because of language barriers we try. I travel to her like over an hour driving a night to be with her....she demands i come to see her or ELSE!!!!!.......i am getting counselling for depression and bipolar disorder but stilllllll working fulltime in IT and tryign to cope. The pressure is mounting...i am lost by myself.....she is their waiting for me...she has spent more then 30K dollars on immigrqation courts..cannot stay here i think.....mmmm.....i am not rich..i have bills to pay...i cannot go to nepal.

2007-06-05 01:02:07 · 12 answers · asked by michael j 2

Is marriage sure to succeed when at least one partner loves unconditionally, meaning they will never say/think things such as:

I love you if...
I love you when...
I love you except you do such and such...

Or do you think BOTH have to love unconditionally otherswise the marriage is destined to crumble?

Unconditional love is that love likened to a mother loving a child that only a mother could love, and I believe it is possible to love someone unconditionally provided you stop thinking about your selfish needs for the rest of your life and are able to forgive always and show mercy always no matter what wrong they cause you.

Never assuming and never speculating, always trusting, always believing.

So one or both?

2007-06-05 00:30:09 · 13 answers · asked by Sweet n Sour 4