Marriage & Divorce - 5 June 2007

We had a very turbulent 10-year marriage. He threatened divorce several times. He moved out several times. When I finally agreed that we need a divorce, he refused to move out. Now that the divorce is moving forward, he is extremely angry. Why is he so angry? Why can't he move on with his life?

2007-06-05 16:28:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have talked about it, but he always change the subject and we havent been married for that long only a year.

2007-06-05 16:25:56 · 13 answers · asked by Jore 1

i used to play around when i was still single but when i met him, i have stopped and then we got married and now have a 1 year old daughter. now, i am the only one working and supporting our daughter becuaes he does not have a work. it has been like that for almost 2 years. i worked for a call center for a US account and thats why my shift is at night time. sometimes he text me and accuses me of not really working but instead is holed up in a motel with some guy. he does not hesitate throwing accusations at me and it hurts and i am getting tired of it. he says that he only acts that way because he loves me too much. how do earn his trust so we can have a peaceful and easier life?

2007-06-05 16:25:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want any of us to divorce because we all have kids. She actually doesn't know I am in love with her but I can sense she is trying to avoid me. Should I honestly tell her? I am in great pain.

2007-06-05 16:22:32 · 33 answers · asked by woaijy07 1

wife is not ugly.

2007-06-05 16:18:35 · 3 answers · asked by Lin c 2

I just married n discover that i'm 8 week pregnant today. Worst of all - I have lost my husband in a car accident 1 month ago. we both are orphans and only early twenties. Should I keep the baby or abort? Now I am all alone...

2007-06-05 16:18:00 · 29 answers · asked by TO 2

2007-06-05 16:15:18 · 21 answers · asked by james r 1

2007-06-05 16:04:47 · 10 answers · asked by pfilandro2002 1

I need to know how I can find out if my girlfriend/fiance is cheating on me. Its a very long story and I need help. Is there a way to find out her internet activity emails,myspace,phone calls etc. Im not some wackado Im just going nuts. If anyone has any good idea about software or somthing that has worked for them please let me know. If you have somthing that works I would be glad to explain whats going on so you feel more confident in sharing info with me or helping me. Thanks!

2007-06-05 16:04:14 · 13 answers · asked by William P 1

a divorce, a past relationship, a break up..what made you moved on? and how long did it take?

2007-06-05 16:00:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife recently left me for another man, who is a total loser. She was my first love and mother of our three kids. I hate life without her. I will do anything to have her in my life again. I have dated a lot since and no woman will ever measure up to her. I need her back and will do anything to have her back. What can I do?

2007-06-05 15:50:29 · 17 answers · asked by michael e 1

i tend to hold grudges even after i have resolved an issue...i dont wanna punish someone i love over and over again for something that im supposed to have forgiven them for and gotten over. what do u do when u feel the need to bring up a past hurt when a new problem comes along? is it wrong to mention it if the new problem inter-relates to the old one or should i just treat the situation like there were no previous incidents..u know, like having a clean slate...?? i dont want to push someone i love away by bringing up the past...but sometimes i just cant help but think its relavent. if i keep bringing it up, i dont think i have really gotten over it so if thats the case, what do i do to help myself get over it without dragging the other person into it (assuming that whatever mistakes were made were amended and the person is truly regrettful for their actions, i wouldnt want to "open the wound" again just because im having trouble resolving my issues with myself)? thoughts anyone?.....

2007-06-05 15:50:15 · 8 answers · asked by ilovemysoldier 3

in the American divorce system, including division of property, child custody, child support, visitation, etc. ?

2007-06-05 15:36:16 · 11 answers · asked by kenneth h 6

2007-06-05 15:34:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom and dad were married 25 years when he suddenly walked out on her for another woman. It is going on three years since their divorce and my dad is still with this other woman. My younger brother, who is 25 and married, is the only one of us kids to say in touch with our dad. Memorial Day weekend my brother, his wife, and daughter went to hang out with our dad and this other woman. My mom can not understand how he could feel comfortable enough to just go spend a long weekend with this woman who destroyed his father and mother's 25 year marriage. What kind of woman would date a married man then stay with him while he cheated on and eventually left his wife of 25 years? My mom is pretty upset with my brother. She doesn't mind that he has a relationship with his father but hates that he can just spend time with this woman like nothing happened. What do you think?

2007-06-05 15:24:37 · 15 answers · asked by hoowa 1

=-(

2007-06-05 15:22:17 · 31 answers · asked by ღ♫☺♥♫♪LORYღ♫☺♥♫♪ 2

I noticed that some women liked men they can boss around, treat like a chlild, women don't have any respect for them in public. I don't get it? do you know women like this or are you one of them?

2007-06-05 15:16:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been together for 6 years. When we first got together it was as if I had found a missing part of life...people said we were the "perfect couple". A year and a half ago I had some serious health issues and was placed on medication that helped to cause a " mental breakdown". My health has improved quite a bit but I am still not released to return to work. I am having real difficulty with my husband’s lack of compassion, controlling behaviors and always being at the bottom of the priorities. He does not hit me, curse at me or cheat on me. He just will not listen to me, makes me beg for any money and treats strangers with far more courtesy. I have never felt resentment like this before...it is almost solid. I DO love my husband but right now I do not like him at all and don't want to be near him. I would like opinions from anyone who has been there

2007-06-05 15:15:58 · 13 answers · asked by kjathena1 2

can they go to jail for threating you,or someone else???

2007-06-05 15:12:05 · 15 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2

2007-06-05 15:10:54 · 5 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2

The problem is I have been with another man for a year since the married one and I broke up. The second one and i have our problems and now that the first one is available and sitll wants me, I am confused as to what to do. During the affair over a year ago I loved him with all my heart. The man I am with now is tottaly devoted to me but there are some problems that we can't seem to work out.. Help, what do I do. How do I figure out which one would be best the best match for me?

2007-06-05 15:05:55 · 16 answers · asked by Carol W 1

So many people now are so quick to throw away there relationship/marriage away over minor things do people try to work it out anymore?

2007-06-05 15:01:48 · 14 answers · asked by hcj25 2

My husband and I have been married for a little over two months now. We've never had a place to ourselves, and now that we are married, we don't want to have the typical "roommate" arguments with our current roommates. They are a couple, and the guy takes care of his 12 year old sister, so she lives with us as well. They've been the best roommates we've had, but don't live as clean or organized as we do. We don't enjoy inviting over our other married friends in fear that the house will be a disaster . We're tired of cleaning up after them only to have them trash the common areas when we're not home. We know how we like to live, and are getting tired of having arguments with our roommates about what temperature to set the A/C on, or which one of them took the trash out last (as though they even took the trash out to begin with...they stack it next to the trash can!). Any suggestions?

2007-06-05 15:01:34 · 13 answers · asked by dane811 2

i did not want to get married at such a young age but i did it c/c thats what my mother wanted! he treats me so good and im so mean to him how can i be a better wife!

2007-06-05 14:57:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together for almost 5 years now, and always had problems, we recently got married, and now we are getting ready to have a baby. i dont love him. and i kinda new this before we got married but i wasnt sure, but now i am. so here i am about to buy this house with him and have OUR baby, and can barely stand the sight of him. I already love this baby so much and thats why im still with him. If we were to go our separate ways right now then i would have no way of making mine and my babies life better. i need him to help support us just long enough to get through school and get a real career, but i just dont know how i can handle that. as a soon to be mother,i feel that ive already failed my child for not being in love with her father. Please can someone give me some advice or at least tell me im not crazy, even if it is a lie.

2007-06-05 14:52:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

who is always yelling at his stepchildren, for everything they do??? And if your kids hate him in return? My husband is not the father of my kids... But he is always yelling at my kids for everything they do. It is beginning to make my life misreable. I've tried talking to him, but he won't listen. Instead he just tells me that they need to be punished. He just went off on my son and his friend because the dog jumped upon the trampoline.

2007-06-05 14:50:10 · 15 answers · asked by polonium-210 3

What is it that women find attractive to bad boys, women often say that nice guys don't finish last but most times bad boys get in you panties first!

2007-06-05 14:41:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years now. We broke up once because he cheated on me. When we got back together, I told him that he had to make a choice, to sacrifice, which was we BOTH got rid of people in our lives (ex, opposite-sex friends) that caused problems between us. He chose to make this sacrifice as I did.

Then just last week, I had found out he was talking to his ex (not the one he cheated on me with). She was the seriously relationship before me, but she had cheated on him when they were dating. Top it off he's using his younger brother to hide talking to her from me too. I confronted him about it and he denied it. But later that day he wanted to know how I found out.

To me, I consider an ex an ex for a reason. She's his past and they broke up for a reason, so why does he need to see and talk to her again, especially since she two-timed him. And if he made that promise to me when we got back together, then he should keep it.

WHAT DO I DO!?!??!

2007-06-05 14:38:40 · 14 answers · asked by mi_nina_bonita.8688 1

I moved here from out of state to be with him. He wanted me to be here instead of there. Once I got here I found out he is still married and has a child with her. He works all the time and so the house is practically hers, so she is not leaving. But how do I make her get rid of him. She has known about me for almost a year. She is still playing "Miss Betty Homemaker" while he and I are seeing each other every day and the kids are also aware of the situation, four kids, two his and two mine. How do I get her to make him move out?

2007-06-05 14:38:38 · 25 answers · asked by t m 1

I have an interstate child support case. The other parent is $10,000 behind and behaves as a true deadbeat (ie, switching jobs, not filing taxes, working cash jobs and moving frequently) I contact my case worker often for updates but she blows me off. Each state involved punts all the responsiblity to the other state and nothing is being done to enforce payment. I have yet to see a single payment in the few years this case has been open. Not filing taxes is illegal, but nothing has been done about any of this. I need help!

2007-06-05 14:32:21 · 22 answers · asked by libra x mom 3