Marriage & Divorce - 1 June 2007

what's a gal to do when future husbands child goes into needy, meltdown mode 4 weeks before the wedding? I can see the manipulation but he cannot.

2007-06-01 03:28:08 · 18 answers · asked by J D 1

My girfriend, her female friend, and some guy decided to play strip poker last night and she lost. Long story short she ended up getting naked infront of some guy (big nono in my book). I had no idea that the game even took place untill she called me crying about how bad she feelt about it afterwards. Should I feel like my trust was betrayed? What should I do in a situation like this?

2007-06-01 03:24:59 · 54 answers · asked by joaquinkitfox 1

I have always worried about this.

2007-06-01 03:11:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

iwent to a site before it gave me acess to public records free of charge i cant find it now i was married in las vegas nev. i live in st. louis mo. now my husband has disaperred and i was looking to see if he has filled a divorce

2007-06-01 02:52:03 · 5 answers · asked by tcrrrk 1

Why does this happen? Why do guys only decide to start ringing you and taking an interest when you decided you will not be bothered any more after chasing them and showing them that you care and they dont bother then? But when you decide to move on with your life and not contact them they come back why??

2007-06-01 02:51:50 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

i popped round to see how the kids were doing and caught her totally naked with a naked black guy in my front room about to do you know what on my sofa i asked him to leave and demanded to know where the kids were (she'd left the front door unlocked) ....the experience was very distressing and still haunts me to this day i don't think i can get over this even though we are now back together after much calamity. How can i move on, i started going to the gym soon after this to vent my fury and anger and work it out of me in a positive way but its like i resent her every time it comes across
my mind and i do love her so much. i feel torn in two...help

2007-06-01 02:45:41 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have approached him and he says it didnt matter its all in the past i cant stand him anymore i need to get out to make matters worse we have a guest visiting us and i cant keep up with the act of looking like things are going on well she leaves in three weeks how can i cope for these three weeks help please i am so angry i have all this anger in me i feel like hurting this man i have been through so much **** i will leave but i need to let him know what he has done to me i feel so betrayed

2007-06-01 02:43:33 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-01 02:37:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked the same of the men so its going to be interesting to see how the two stack up.

2007-06-01 02:30:40 · 8 answers · asked by BigBadWolf 6

We've been marred for 20 years. In the beginning we had sex a lot. Kids came and I was tired when he wanted it. Now I want it often and barely get it 1x every month or so & it leaving me dissappointed. We married young & had no sexual experience.I used to think I was satisfied with it until recently. It felt good but I never had an orgasm. I started feeling like there was more to it. Sex for us is basically 5 minutes or less depending on when he climaxes. Then he is done regardless. (I think there's a prob & hes embarrassed. wont see dr) I am so let down now and want more. I tried to explain this to him I need more. foreplay/pleasuring me using hands/fingers/mouth. He tried different positions but he won't do the the extras. We've never done oral sex. We both used to think it was gross.Now I'm thinking of it as something new & exciting. I feel like I'm missing so much sexually since it's one sided. We have kids & no sitter so we can't go to a hotel. What can I do?

2007-06-01 02:25:34 · 18 answers · asked by NNAY 1

"i made a mistake, im sorry..i wasnt thinking when i did it..please forgive me, i love you..i cant live without you, i wont allow our marraige to end"

are those really valied reasons not to leave a cheating husband?

2007-06-01 02:24:11 · 45 answers · asked by saparapah 1

English actress Liz Hurley and her Indian husband, Arun Nayyar.

Look at the pic they seem OK
http://www.bollywood-hub.com/2007/03/liz-hurley-arun-nayyar-get-married-in.html

I'm not commenting on their personal stuff but something beats me as to Arun Nayyar's choice-

1. There is no financial motive here as both of them seem to be well-settled (she's an actress and he has his own IT company)

2. Though there's no age difference Liz already has one kid from an earlier marriage and is well past 40, so they may not have any more kids of their own - isn't that a bad deal for a "businessman" when he could have scored much younger women?

3. Liz Hurley had associations with numerous men and must have slept with so many - why her only child is illegitimate - in contrast he is relatively clean - why would a shy, sober person wind himself up with an old, pale banana grove.

Not being insulting but can Love be so BLIND?

2007-06-01 02:23:04 · 13 answers · asked by phoenix 3

thanks for your opinion!!!

2007-06-01 02:22:51 · 20 answers · asked by cintiapm 1

Surely when I was a teen I thought I'd be rich handsome and married to a supermodel...that didn't happen...Still through all the ups and downs...four great kids...loving wife...somewhat respected in my career field...Yeah I'm happy with who I am and my life...are you?

2007-06-01 02:20:53 · 17 answers · asked by BigBadWolf 6

2007-06-01 02:17:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

im with my partner and he said he never wants to get married, but he wants a child with me,i dont understand why he wont get married but wants a baby with me both are life long committments but he wants 1 and not the other. but i would like both. what should i do?

2007-06-01 02:17:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was snooping through my wife's PC and found some archives messages of her having sexual chats with a guy in another part of the country. The majority of these chats happened before we started dating, but I did find one that happened AFTER we started dating and AFTER she moved in with me -- about 4 months into our relationship. I'm extremely hurt by this, but is it relevant now? We've been together nearly two years and just got married three months ago. Is it even worth confronting her especially when I have no reason to believe these chats continue or that she has has ever been unfaithful to me? Furthermore, should I be worried about her fidelity? Should my trust in her be shaken as a result of what I discovered? Thanks for your time.

2007-06-01 02:13:50 · 15 answers · asked by dvox 1

Does anyone else think the TB Man situation sounds kind of fishy? Or should I say selfish. This guy should do time. His now father in law works at the TB section of the CDC, so he knows what kind of TB he has, then he treks all over Europe spreading the disease so he can fullfill his now wifes perfect honeymoon dream? Then it seems he tries to sneak back into the US through Canada - all the while possibly contaminating thousands on his journey. But then again did I hear the guy is a lawyer. Your thoughts?

2007-06-01 02:12:39 · 18 answers · asked by srmc_007 2

Here we go again.....?
My husband is an admitted compulsive liar and I have put up with it for 23 years. We finally went to counseling and after 5 visits he decided she had helped him and we no longer needed to go. Now I found out he lied again. Not to me but someone at his work. What would anyone else out there do? I am so tired of putting all my energy into whether or not he lies all the time and he knows I told him if he lied I would leave. But 23 years is a looong time.Would anyone leave??

2007-06-01 02:01:11 · 12 answers · asked by confused one 1

My husband seems to think that since I stay at home, my life is easy. And because of this he won't help me around the house. Including helping me with our 13 month old son. I'm the one who gets up with him at night, feeds him, baths him, plays with him, consoles him. I have tried talking to him about this and he thinks that I'm nagging.
I just want a little help. Like maybe getting up with our son Sunday morning and letting me sleep in. Am I wrong in this? Should I just drop the whole thing?

2007-06-01 01:54:41 · 23 answers · asked by gavinsmommy2306 2

Ive been with my fiance for about 2 1/2 years but sometimes ill dream about having sex with my ex's. I dont know why because most of them i hate or dispise one of them in particuarly. And one really really grosses me out but i still have dreams about him. is this wrong? Why does this happen?

2007-06-01 01:52:06 · 17 answers · asked by PookieAceves 2

Say i get married and KEEP my last name do i have to tell my job? or the accountant at the job....? i know i have to tell my accountant but do i have to tell my job?

2007-06-01 01:47:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cant seem to live with or without my boyfriend and feel I am just stringing him along because I cant make my mind up. I know this is wrong but he has done some pretty bad things in the relationship. My family have all said if we cut off contact with each other for 2 months it will become clearer to both of us whether we want to stay together. Is this true, or will I still be just as confused in 2 months?

2007-06-01 01:44:25 · 5 answers · asked by monkeynuts 5

Master or Sir? which sounds better?

2007-06-01 01:43:50 · 15 answers · asked by lisalove 1

I have found the most sweet and loveing man that will do anything for me and my children and we are getting married in less than a month. We agreed not to be intament or live together until we are married. My problem you ask is this how do I get over all my past hurt to allowe myself to enjoy this love and compasion from this wonderful man that is about to become my husband? I have been through alot of hurt from my past and I find myself always trying to sabatash what I have. I often feel numb and feeling like I do not deserve this and I will not open up to being happy. He is a great person and my children love him but please can someone with a heart and compasion help me here?

2007-06-01 01:39:37 · 8 answers · asked by me 2

My husband has a young lady on the job he works with. They call each other all the time and she calls all times of night. He never talks to here around me , He says they are just friends but everytime I ask him a question about her he gets irritated and act like I am bother him. I try to say that they are friends but his actions say different. She says they are friends as well but because I confronted her. What can I do to show him that I am not please with the relationship or should I say uncomfortable with it.

2007-06-01 01:33:05 · 24 answers · asked by confused wife 1

and she thinks you work as a night watchman. but you've been making about five hundred dollars a night and have been saving the money to buy her a new house.

2007-06-01 01:27:27 · 26 answers · asked by Gary M 5

I'd been with my boyfriend for 2 years but we had alot of problems - he was irresponsible with money and drank too much and we argued alot. I moved to my mum's and let him stay in my house until he found somewhere else to live. I know it was stupid but we carried on texting each other, I did really miss him but cant decide whether we should give it another go or not. I had to come back and stay at the house for a couple of nights to sort my stuff out (as my mum's is 250 miles away) and we both ended up crying and said we'd try again, now we've started rowing again. I feel like I cant live with him and I cant live without him

I've decided to go back to my mum's and not stay in touch for a couple of months then see how we both feel, but I know I will be desperate to ring or text him. Its so complicated and I'm devastated and so is he. Any advice would be much appreciated

2007-06-01 01:24:41 · 13 answers · asked by monkeynuts 5

We both want to leave our partners but are very concerned about how our children will react.

2007-06-01 01:11:57 · 24 answers · asked by In the same boat 1

My partner of 3 years who i am soon to marry drives me crazy at times. He cannot seem to communicate with me, he never remembers anything i have told him or shows an interest in my life.Example:i had made mistake at work was really worried about it couldnt sleep etc. next day get text from partner - hope you slept well (he knows i didnt!) and all jokes. no mention about my problem and if it had turned out ok. At times he seems superficial. have been referred to hospital - does he ever ask me about have i got appointment yet or how i am feeling - nope!. i could go on and on about it. I feel like all he wants is a house keeper, he does nothing in house, cant work washing machine and goes in a huff if i ask him to help!
I was depressed yesterday as it hit me that i will be spending my life with a man who takes no interest what so ever in my life or my problems.
Am i expecting too much from the opposite sex?
When i pointed out about the text all he could say was well i wont text you

2007-06-01 00:36:47 · 38 answers · asked by cottontail 5