Why does this happen? Why do guys only decide to start ringing you and taking an interest when you decided you will not be bothered any more after chasing them and showing them that you care and they dont bother then? But when you decide to move on with your life and not contact them they come back why??
2007-06-01 02:51:50 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They like to do the chasing, not be chased.
2007-06-01 02:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by DOT 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even if guys don't want to admitt it, we always want a couple on the back burner to feel good about ourselfs. We want what we can't have so when you move on it's like not being able to have you. Also when you are interested, some guys are scared of committment and feel you will always be coming around versus you not interested but maybe putting out and not calling the next day, which guys like sometimes.
2007-06-01 03:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they like to do the chasing. Many times, once they "catch" you, they lose interest as well and move on to someone new to chase. It's a sad part of the male make up and the biggest thing I hate about men. They're the most fickle, deceitful things on this earth! Chase chase, catch and then they're off to chase someone else.
2007-06-01 02:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sassie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the words we're looking for is EXPECTATION and REALIZATION . While still in the chase the guy is expecting something will come out of the chase and when he got what he wants, realization sets in. Either he was expecting that wasn't there or something didn't come up to his expectations. On the other hand, when you give in to a guy, you were expecting something might develop further, only to realize that he was not really into t.
2007-06-01 02:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know this happened to me, i am a guy, I never really knew what the meaning of it was either. I was chasing a girl in high school for like 3 years and when i finally gave up and found another girl, the one i was chasing came back and wanted me to run away with her. But i guess it was to late by then, i think that whoever is playing hard to get, probably likes somebody else, and when they get turned down, your the next best thing.. maybe not wat u wanted to hear, but it is possible.
2007-06-01 02:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's life baby. Yeah, guys are confusing. It's like when you say 'I love you' they start running away, but if you don't tell them, they'll hate it. They realize that you never know how much you care for something or someone until you lose them. Probably why this is because, if you don't bother to care for them, that's not what they want, and guys HAVE to get what they want, but if you give them what they want than they are happy, laid-back now.
2007-06-01 02:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by Maria M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Control Issues
2007-06-01 02:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men love the thrill of the chase and lose interest when they have reached their goal. Since february, I have heard from 7 of my exes!!!!!!! Its stupid - if it didnt work out once, it was for a reason so dont bother going back.
2007-06-01 02:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by forgetmenot1908 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your other answers here:
Some men love the chase but once they've caught you they loose interest.
Wanting what they can't have.
Control or power issues.
Seashell will share with you that this is not the type of man you're looking for when it comes to a long term relationship.
This type of man is never dependable.
2007-06-01 03:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by seashell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are certain types of men that enjoy te chase
It what their function is
Theyre programmed this way so the thrill is the chase not the capture
2007-06-04 07:04:29 · answer #10 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think lots of guys find girls more attractive when they think they 'can't have them'. If a girl is really keen at the beginning of a relationship it seems to scare them off because they wrongly assume we are looking for long term commitments etc.
It's silly I know, but I think sometimes you have to play it cool to start and keep them guessing how you feel about them.
Once you know for sure they like you you can let them know exactly how you feel.
Relationships eh?? LOL
2007-06-01 03:50:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋