Marriage & Divorce - 1 June 2007

from looking at other women as a habbit

2007-06-01 15:03:40 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

it reminds me of the smell of a honey wagon.... thats not good.. or smelling like a bee hive... that means your girl friend smells kinda like asss ..am i right?

2007-06-01 14:47:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

nealrly 8 years ago and i feel sooo unloved its unreal i try and instigate a cuddle he pushes me away and i try and instigate sex..he pushes me away, he has never taken me for a meal never bought me flowers i am always sendin him flowers to work...etc i am not allowed out with friends he says i am aving an affair if i do he dont go out though i work from home on nights 6 days a week he goes out to work the only time i go out is to take our daughter to and from school...or if i go to my mothers...i need to feel loved and romance and i get none from him i think he havin an affair but when i say i will leave he says dont be silly and begs me stay..and crys i hate my life i am soo ready do end it all and i am not scared why do i feel like this? and the worse bit is he cant see the hurt in my eyes....i get told that i very pretty why does he do this to me refuse me affection? why?

2007-06-01 14:44:27 · 14 answers · asked by LucieSmoothtalker 2

I accidentally deleted this question so I'll post it again. There's this new manager at work who is married with kids. He seems pretty nice, but he's always grabbing my arm or squeezing it. And he's always looking at me and smiling. Is this normal married man behavior or is he flirting? I don't want to date him. I'm just wondering if I should keep my guard up. P.S. His wife and kids are in another state, because (I think) they're in the process of moving here and don't officially have a house yet.

2007-06-01 14:33:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband wants to spice thing up in the bed room by having me have sex with another man. what would you do? He thinks because i was a virgin when we got married that he had two before me that i should go out and gain more expirence. What should I do? me go out with men and date them and have sex with them then come home and have sex with him.

2007-06-01 14:32:32 · 44 answers · asked by sassylassy2876 4

I tried everything and nothin works!! I told him he has to try harder!! And he wont listen!!!! Why wont he fix the tv?? Yes, its raining outside but OMG please fix my satellite!!

2007-06-01 14:04:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its around the time of what would have been our anniversary....but instead the divorce is about to be finalized and Im feeling emotional. Is this normal? Will our anniversary date always make me feel this way?

2007-06-01 13:49:49 · 16 answers · asked by caramelqueen 3

The family and friends have evidence and have been collecting evidence but we cannot get a lawyer for under 15,000 and his assets are tied he does not even have a divorce lawyer and they are giving him meds SOMEdays and SOMEDAYS not please help

2007-06-01 12:57:14 · 3 answers · asked by Sassy 2

My hubby & I are going to a wedding in Aug for his best friend, Mike, who lives in Austin. They've been best friends ever since he dated Mike's sister, Bridget. That r'ship has been over for 10 yrs but I can't help feeling a bit weird & jealous still. He &this girl aren't in touch at all & haven't spoken in many, many years so that's not the issue. But every time we go to Austin, we always visit Mike which of course reminds me of HER. I always thought when you broke up with a person, you kinda cut ties w/ their family too. I think I'm insecure over it too b/c 1) he wouldn't even be friends w/ him if he hadn't dated her so all their memories revolve around that time, 2) my hubsband's family is still close to Mike's family, and 3) this was my hubby's 1st love & they dated for over 3 years. At the wedding, I'll have to be around her the whole time. Weird. I guess I feel like the odd duck out. I mean, it'll all be people who, at 1 time prayed Bridget & my hubby would get married.

2007-06-01 12:52:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

In addition to or as part of sexual intercourse with your spouse?

2007-06-01 12:52:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

and then he got her pregnant, but he doesn't want the child, he only wants 'passion'...whats she to do?

2007-06-01 12:14:17 · 21 answers · asked by Danu 6

I think that I may be pregnant my BF and I have been together for 5 years. I know he loves me. I love him too but I feel that if I am pregnant we should consider marriage at the same time I don't want to make him feel pressured. What do you thik. I have secretly been waiting for him to surprise me with a ring but it just hasn't happened yet, why if he loves me?

2007-06-01 11:44:27 · 11 answers · asked by Dotty D 1

I dont feel a spark for my current man,

but he's such a sweet and decent guy. He cares for me so much, and he spoils me rotten despite me telling him not to...and he texts me every morning to say "good morning" even when i have to wake up at 6 in the morning and says "good night" to me every night. Things that he doesnt really have to do. I like him a lot, i honestly do....but i just dont feel all tingly like people say i should.

...please re-assure me...

2007-06-01 11:39:09 · 20 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3

Papa does not approve of Bertrand. Mama says I cannot be with someone of a lower class. Why he is just a paper boy. Thus, Papa says he and the family and all generations past, present and future will be ashamed if I marry this poor lad. They hope I choose and marry a good lad like Theodore. But Theodore and I do not see eye to eye. What to do?

2007-06-01 11:39:03 · 18 answers · asked by ~~Gwyndolyn~~ 1

Weve been married since oct. '06 and weve been dating for almost 7 yrs...i lost my job and haven't been able to find another one for a month now, so he is unbelievably stressed out....and since i haven't found a job i have become depressed, so we argue when he gets home. The other day out of nowhere he says that he needs space and time to think about what he wants, b/c he doesn't want to live like this and have kids in this type of environment..he says hes just tired of everything; that he can't take it. I understand.....but if he loves me why would he want to not be w/me...were married and there will always be problems in any relationship, you work on it , fix it and move on...thats how people last.....i want to give him his space but i love hmy husband and want to love on him and be with him....i dont know what to do....and neither does he...im sooo hurt and confused!

2007-06-01 11:28:45 · 21 answers · asked by Mz Ruiz 1

Happy mad or sad?

2007-06-01 11:27:12 · 15 answers · asked by the_beautiful_e 5

there is this girl I loved with all my heart since I was 11 and now i'm in my mid 20s and I still got storng feelings for her in my heart, but not in a sex way its in a care way and i still true love her whys that ? i can't get her out of my heart

2007-06-01 11:25:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married and was on a business trip with a woman I work with who is also married. Since we were travelling together, we naturally went to dinner together and also stayed out drinking that night. At the end of the night she stopped by hotel room. She proceeded to strip to her bra and panties, lay on the bed, and start to masturbate. She invited me to help her out which I did. Since nothing else occurred, I am wondering is this cheating and if so, at what point is it considered cheating?

2007-06-01 11:22:16 · 23 answers · asked by cane130 2

what is wrong with me wanting to sacrifice 12 months to get a nice career? guys can you explain?

2007-06-01 11:17:44 · 11 answers · asked by genesisone31 2

..........considered yourself a nice/good person??? I ask because even a bad person will say they are good> so who really is good/nice? or bad

2007-06-01 11:05:35 · 35 answers · asked by uno 1

Contemplating marriage with a man with a child already. He is the NCP with a steep child support payment. How much money he brings home isn't an issue for me, but what I am concerned about is how my income will be used to calculate child support payments. The mother chooses not to work and her live in boyfriend supports her. Since the mother doesn't work my b/f is responsible for 80% of what the state says it costs to raise a child each month. The mother's b/f makes a considerable amount more than my boyfriend so their household income is a lot better than his. I am concerned b/c when I finish school I will be starting a 6 figure salary job and I don't want to financially support a child that isn't mine...especially since her own mother chooses not to do anything to financially support her child. Can a court use my salary and assets to determine a child support order in Indiana?

2007-06-01 11:04:57 · 5 answers · asked by justcatch13 1

I'm 23 and I feel that I should be married because both my parents were married at that age. My dad was 24.

2007-06-01 10:51:59 · 25 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6

2007-06-01 10:47:20 · 15 answers · asked by peak033 1

women seem to want well hung men, especially married women who cheat, but are they just curious about what it is like with something very different from what they have?

2007-06-01 10:46:10 · 14 answers · asked by fade_2_black 1

I am married to a man who when we make love wants to make me orgasm 2 or 3 times. I know his heart is in the right place but it's like that is all he is focused on is making that happen...and the truth is - it never actually happens (unless I am helping out). I don't want to hurt his feelings and I don't want him to doubt himself but I just don't think I am ever turned on enough - but how do you tell someone that?? The problem is, I have been doing this for 3 years so how can I suddenly say oh by the way - I've been faking it the whole time? I love making love to him and orgasms really don't matter a great deal to me as I just love the act itself with him, but it's so important seemingly to him. Can someone relate or help me? Or have any of you guys been told the same thing? How could you hear it that wouldn't affect your sex life - only make it better???

THANK YOU EVERYONE :D

2007-06-01 10:31:12 · 20 answers · asked by emmablue32 1

my niece wants to get married but her parents said no

2007-06-01 10:18:42 · 17 answers · asked by babydsgrammie2004 1

...Some relationships are good when boyfriend and girlfriend, but as soon as they start living together, months after they end up hating each other.....even when they had an excellent relationship before

2007-06-01 10:11:58 · 16 answers · asked by uno 1

even if I'm at work?

2007-06-01 10:11:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Senario - A woman who is interest in you tells you point blank how she feels, well more like shows you (kisses you) you kiss back. However, due to her being married, you advise her that this might not be the best situation to get started. Things continue on picking up pace as time goes on. You admit to her daughter that you care about her and would treat her better than she was being treated by her husband. You bring her and her daughter presents, look out for both of them. You tell her things like there is nothing you wouldn't do for her. Things progress until finally the both of you can't control things anymore. One thing leads to another, and you end up with eachother one night, even though you know that there is a good chance of getting caught. & do. Now, she is being kept from having any contact with you, but she tries. You have backed off, but still smile and light up when you see her. Have you given up or are you just being respectful waiting for the right time?

2007-06-01 10:08:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

At my wits end, ladies! My husband and I have been married for 3 years, and ive always felt he is taking me for granted. I left twice, thinking he would realize what he had and change his ways... but everytime i come back its the same thing!

We havent had a constructive fight in years, but fight nearly every day. big fights.

what is it going to take for him to see things my way! Ive tried comprimising, but when im the only one trying, i cant meet him half way.

marriage counseling? divorce? what helps?!??

2007-06-01 10:06:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous