In addition to or as part of sexual intercourse with your spouse?
2007-06-01 12:52:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I got 5 bucks that says after you are married at least a year, you **** more than you did when you were single.
2007-06-01 12:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by steve.c_50 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
OH HE** YEA!!! Try this, both of you sit on the couch and you are not allowed to touch each other... Who ever gets off first, wins!!! Or looses!!! Or this, buy a viberator for her to use while you guys are together... or appart... That is your spouse, and whatever goes on behind closed doors is your business. You just don't want to go behind her back because she will feel inadiquate. Oh here's another one... Call her in the middle of the day and tell her to meet you at the house for an emergency... NOONER!!! See I always felt that by watching her do to herself what she likes, I would learn to do what she likes... Never know, she might be some closet freak, and then it is lucky you, Right?
2007-06-01 20:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am astonished that every female's Answer that I've seen here is positive. Because I've seen an article that said many wives--I *think* it said most of 'em!--would feel hurt to know. They can't understand why their husband would need to get off without them. I don't remember whether the masturbation considered was using porn, or just the husband's mind and hands, but the former would certainly be viewed as a lot closer to cheating.
2007-06-01 21:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by georgetslc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your point of view,
1 some women think it is cheating.
2 allot depends on your feelings after doing it, if you feel guilty then dont, if you and your partner think its ok then go ahead.
3 if your looking for a "biblical answer, " then the bible says ,"it is better to sow your seed in the belly of a prostitue then to let it fall wasted to the ground. in that case it would be wrong.
much is going to depend on you and your spouse. But, I have seen cases in counseling where the man can only get satisfaction that way after years of masturbation. It can take a toll on your marriage.
2007-06-01 20:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ken W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-06-01 21:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay as long as it is in addition to intercourse, not in place of.
As long as both partners are getting their sexual needs met, then any additional pleasure you give yourself is a bonus!
2007-06-01 21:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes to both questions, it's part of the whole sexual process.
2007-06-01 21:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its fine....as long as it doesn't take the place of sex with your spouse. If she starts feeling neglected then your in for a world of trouble. As far as doing it together...as long as shes willing...go for it! Its fun!
2007-06-01 19:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by londa627 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-06-01 19:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by lavenderbluelassie 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think its fine as long as you are both comfortable with it my husband and I enjoy it and it adds excitement to are marriage but if your doing it secretly it might mean your not sexually satifying each other and there might be under lying issues you both need to discuss with each other on how to please each other better.
2007-06-01 19:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by pamlar 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋