I am married and was on a business trip with a woman I work with who is also married. Since we were travelling together, we naturally went to dinner together and also stayed out drinking that night. At the end of the night she stopped by hotel room. She proceeded to strip to her bra and panties, lay on the bed, and start to masturbate. She invited me to help her out which I did. Since nothing else occurred, I am wondering is this cheating and if so, at what point is it considered cheating?
2007-06-01 11:22:16 · 23 answers · asked by cane130 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes
2007-06-01 11:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by cycleman1955 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had something similar happen to me. I Will not go into detail, but I stopped before the technical definition of cheating happened. It would have never have happened if not drunk and under a lot of pressure. I confessed. Trying to be honest and come clean and move past it, but I got dumped. So, my answer to your question is #1 Don't do it against your spouse if you wouldn't want it done to you. #2. Don't mess up! But if you do, stop messing up and never tell. If you ever break the trust, you might as well say it is over or you will have hell to pay from now on. And yes, I think what you did is cheating. I am not judging you. But think, Would you want your wife jacking some guy in the same situation? Think about it : )
2007-06-01 18:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by krash 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If your wife helped another man jerk off, you'd want to leave her cheating @ss - so why do you think your situation is different?
It's definitely cheating when you're in the same room with a naked chick and you're helping her with the dirty work - even if you were just watching, that'd be cheating too.
Tell her now - she'll find out later anyway, then will end up leaving you, not only for cheating...but for lying about it.
Own up to your mistakes & hope she doesn't cut your balls off - if I were married to you, I'd cut them off and make you eat them you @sshole.
2007-06-01 20:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sadly to say yes, even though u didn't go "the whole nine yards" u still shared a "sexual experience''. That basically says that your wife isn't good enough to be so satisfied wit just her. Plus u saw an others spouse's partner in a compermising position. But don't beat yourself too bad...its basically the same as someone thinking bout havin sex wit someone else; that there not married to or dating. I mean jus think of the times that u glared at your wife because she was lookin at another man.
2007-06-01 18:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by Irish stud 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Cheating DOG
2007-06-01 18:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by Future Mrs. Hamlet 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well naturally, it's considered cheating at the point when she started to strip and you actually enjoying it and letting her finish.
If your wife does that to you, when do you think is the cheating point??
2007-06-01 18:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by Bobbie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If a totally hot chick strips and asks you to help her and you don't, the only one that was cheated was you.
Next time, act like a man and lay it to her, and make sure there is no proof!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-01 20:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you went out to dinner with her it was cheating..what would you say if your wife went and whacked some guy off???is that not cheating? or married people should just go around masturbating with others???
2007-06-01 18:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by debbie v 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's considered cheating when you agreed to have dinner with a woman. One thing led to another....
2007-06-01 18:27:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it's cheating ... you know it's cheating and it was cheating from the moment she started taking off her clothes and you didn't stop her.
2007-06-01 18:27:34 · answer #10 · answered by Gail T 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
this is definitely cheating with a co worker because there is sexuality acts involved the bible says there should be no sexual act to be not cheating
2007-06-01 18:51:35 · answer #11 · answered by tritran5555(poetri) 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋