how do you stop your husband from?

Question

from looking at other women as a habbit

Answer 1

You really don't want to do that....another be careful what you wish for scenario, lets say he doesn't do it anymore...but its only natural...look don't touch...so now he will all the time your not around...and then he just might get a reaction from someone who notices he is checking them out....and of course you won't be around....so that is just going to add to the temptation...so let him look...so he knows how to react when your not around .

Answer 2

Aww you poor dumpling. You have to tell him how much it sincerely bothers you, makes you feel insecure and jealous, and that he's cheating on you in his heart. Then he'll tell you to stick it up your @zz, and ding ding ding, he's right.

As a man I have never understood why a woman will use all her wiles to snare a man who responds to them, then will demand after the wedding that he break all those circuits she used to get him in the first place. When you catch him doing another woman, you've got cause to complain. If he swivels his head, hangs out his tongue and howls like a coon dog, you are within your rights to tell him to grow up. Anything less is his prerogative as a man and you can just live with it, sis. I'm not being mean, this is how it is. Even if you got him to follow only with his eyes, without turning his head, he'll still look. We're made that way. So concentrate on being sexier in private than they are in public, remember as the other woman said that he married you for a reason, and that should be that. Here's what to do: Get off the computer and go ambush him with your body in some room you've never done it in before, right now; that would be a good start. Sincerely, good luck to you, friend.

Answer 3

If you were at the grand canyon would you tell your husband not to look? Women are the most beautiful aspect of the universe!!! You can't tell someone that he can only look at one sunset!! I bet when you are having sex you picture someone instead of your husband being with you!! It sounds like you didn't know you were marrying a man! We are wired visually it is biological. It is a major turn-off when women are insecure so get over the feeling and get on with your life. Your insecurities will drive your husband away from you!

Answer 4

Sweetie you are asking some impossible question, don't you know that its a man thing to look at other woman?not that they're trying to flirt or asking for their tel. no. but in reality men married or not do look at other women, it's their brain wave that does this, just like women looking at men esp. if the man is handsome, tall, with six abs.
Don't be jealous because your husband do watch or turn his head when a woman pass by...as long as he don't ask for tel. number you will be fine...

Answer 5

You cant stop him...he has to respect you enough that he automatically doesnt do that. It sounds as though you have a pretty big relationship issue. Respect is #1 priority in a relationship and this guy has NONE for you...dump his a$$ and find someone decent. You will live in misery as long as you stay with him. You will always suspect him of cheating and you will hate yourself and your body thinking he find other women hotter and therefore you are inadequate.

Answer 6

You cannot but if he respects u and if he understands that it hurts then he will stop cuz he loves u sis. He shouldn't be looking in front of u anyway, that's disrespectful - EXACTLY the reason why u asked the question to begin with. Fcuk these morons - rude is rude.

I love the answer above me - dead on.

Answer 7

Someone gave the answer "why cant they be discreet." This is what I never understood about men......I know they will look, why do they sabotage themselves by doing this in front of their woman? Go figure. Why cant they look when their woman is not there with him? What do the men expect? Their wife/girlfriend will like his attraction to other women? Do the men like it if she is always talking how good-looking other men are?

In my opinion, men are usually the ones who start a good relationship downhill .

Answer 8

I don't think you can stop them from looking, And as long as that's all it is, then what's the harm. I guess you could always scare him next time you catch him looking at another woman and tell him "damn she's hot, we should check chicks out together more often"...lol.. May-be that would keep him from looking! Hope this helps!

Answer 9

That is kind of annoying. Something similar happened to me once at a dinner party that I attended with my husband. He was eyeing and flirting with a friend of the hostess who was at least 15 years his senior! I caught on right away and asked that we be excused for a moment. I took him up to the bathroom and told him I knew what was going on and that I was uncomfortable with it. Then I hiked up my skirt, removed my undies and made him switch his boxers for my panties. I figured that him wearing my silky VS briefs would be the best way for him to be a bit uncomfy (and for him to be humiliated but just between the two of us) while at the same time reinforcing the physical reminder that he belonged to me. He was a bit in shock at first, but given the circumstances, he put them on and I wore his boxers. Then, I did a bit of flirting myself for the remainder of the night. It was tough medicine for him but it worked well!

Answer 10

Men will look. Touching is a problem. I look at men all the time, heck flirt too. My partner looks at women and even comment to me on them sometimes. The human form can be enjoyed and resepcted without being unfaithful to your partner.

Talk to him about his feelings when he is looking. Is he just looking because they are pretty or because he thinks he would like to take it for a test drive.