nealrly 8 years ago and i feel sooo unloved its unreal i try and instigate a cuddle he pushes me away and i try and instigate sex..he pushes me away, he has never taken me for a meal never bought me flowers i am always sendin him flowers to work...etc i am not allowed out with friends he says i am aving an affair if i do he dont go out though i work from home on nights 6 days a week he goes out to work the only time i go out is to take our daughter to and from school...or if i go to my mothers...i need to feel loved and romance and i get none from him i think he havin an affair but when i say i will leave he says dont be silly and begs me stay..and crys i hate my life i am soo ready do end it all and i am not scared why do i feel like this? and the worse bit is he cant see the hurt in my eyes....i get told that i very pretty why does he do this to me refuse me affection? why?
2007-06-01 14:44:27 · 14 answers · asked by LucieSmoothtalker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
nealrly 8 years ago and i feel sooo unloved its unreal i try and instigate a cuddle he pushes me away and i try and instigate sex..he pushes me away, he has never taken me for a meal never bought me flowers i am always sendin him flowers to work...etc i am not allowed out with friends he says i am aving an affair if i do he dont go out though i work from home on nights 6 days a week he goes out to work the only time i go out is to take our daughter to and from school...or if i go to my mothers...i need to feel loved and romance and i get none from him i think he havin an affair but when i say i will leave he says dont be silly and begs me stay..and crys i hate my life i am soo ready do end it all and i am not scared why do i feel like this? and the worse bit is he cant see the hurt in my eyes....i get told that i very pretty why does he do this to me refuse me affection? why? oh and i married him at 16 by the way!
2007-06-01 14:56:57 · update #1
divorce him, life is too short to spend it wasting time being unloved.
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2016-05-01 01:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you stay with this old insecure man for the rest of your life and let your daughter grow up in a horrible enviornment. Why don't you let your daughter see her mother always unhappy and her father dictating the rules. Why don't you make life as unhappy for your daughter so that every childhood memory is of her parents arguing and shouting and her mother being treated like a prisoner.
Maybe she can learn something from your relationship.. how to be a doormat, how to be unhappy and how to raise children and how to give her children a happy childhood.
And... if you have more children, you can mess their lives up as well... some type of mother you are!!!
Get a grip, stop being selfish and get out of this abusive, domineering, destructive relationship!
2007-06-01 17:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to get away from this guy.. its not good for you or your daughter. at all. all guys want you when your ready to leave. its probly like a law to them in that little man world of theres. get out while you still have a life to live.... i dont know how old your daughter is but if shes going to school then she can well understand what is going on in that house....she cant think thats how life is supposed to be either...ya know? go to your moms or if you have somewhere else safe..get a lawyer and move on the best you can...good luck
2007-06-01 14:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would you at the age 15 marry an old man?Where were your parents?
Your hubby should have been arrested for molesting a child! Pack your things and leave! Then have him put in jail. Better yet Have him put in jail and you take everything! There is no statue of limitations on filing a sex abuse charge when a child is the victim!
2007-06-01 14:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it's you. i mean your trying hence the flowers but it seems that you are heading towards an abusive marriage. if he tells you what you can and can't do and thinks that you are having affairs.now i am not a therapist but my dad was an abusive man and the beggining stages were telling my mother where she could go and who she could hang out with and questioning her if she was having affairs when it was him sleeping with other women. talk to him and if that doesn't work out go to couple's therapy. but one thing you must remember is always trust your intuition. hang in there and stay strong for both you and your daughter
2007-06-01 14:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by babycakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases the girl would have to be attracted to the older guy for him to date her. Her age would be a big attraction. Young girls have smoother skin than older women, there bodies are much firmer. That attracts older men. There are a lot of things that would attract an older man to a younger woman. there are not too many things that would put off an older guy from a younger woman.
2016-05-19 00:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he a peadophile and wanted a 16 year old on his arm. Now ure too old for him and prob is having an affair get rid and find someone who loves u for u!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-02 21:06:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bronzebabekentucky hit the nail on the head. You are too old to turn him on any more. or he is 40 after all, he may be having erectile dysfunction.
2007-06-01 14:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by Chloe 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM. This guy is an abusive, abusive idiot. Get rid of this bastard, get a good lawyer and take him for all the money and property he has.
2007-06-02 03:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by Skully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋