Marriage & Divorce - 10 April 2007

i had a baby 7 months ago and still do not feel like having sex.. it feels more like a chore than a pleasure. i dont want to give oral or receive .. my man is soooo frustrated..but i cant do it..the thought of oral right now just turns me off. we do have other issues including trust .. and communication. i keep telling him we should be better friends since we have 2 kids together. he has tried cheating on me a couple times while pregnant..at my sons b-day party when i was 9 months pregnant. i have told him to "take a break" and stay with his family. i think i just need a break from the pressures of sex and all the arguing that comes with it since i dont have a want for sex. Help!!!

2007-04-10 10:09:09 · 24 answers · asked by sylonthego 3

And if everything else is great... but if you can't stop thinking of hunk who can;t get enough of you...

2007-04-10 10:06:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We had broken up 2 years ago. Is it normal to still fell lost and useless after 2 years. If so, how do I get over all these mixed up feelings?

2007-04-10 10:06:10 · 9 answers · asked by Mike 1

I had my oldest daughter when I was eighteen. So I didn't get the chance to go to college. A husband and two more children I have started thinking about maybe taking some classes. But whenever I bring it up to my husband he starts taking about getting his masters degree online or at Cal Poly. This really makes me upset because I feel like he's not being supportive and just thinking about himself. He already had the bachelor life and went to college to obtain his degree. We are so financially blessed because of it. I'm his biggest supporter. So am I being unreasonable to ask that he return the support? He says he support me. But everytime I've brought up going back to school for me. He talks about getting is masters. Any Help/suggestions?

2007-04-10 10:00:17 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife recently started treatment for bipolar, which for the last 9 days seems good. In her last manic cycle, we made plans to split, which she was OK with (she wanted find herself). Then for 2 months I planned my new life. The last few years, we've had lots of fights, and challenging of each others ability to acurately judge things; even simple, stupid things. We share some, but few common interests, and have very different temperments. She was raised by her mother, who is BP 2. She is typically high-energy, which wears me out, and highly chatty. She also has sayings, habits and social views that set my nerves on edge, and a habit of seeing the negative side of things.
Now with treatment, she's trying to save our marriage, by being "too understanding". I don't know how much of her past behaviour was due BP or just personality. I know she'll revert to being the same person, only not BP. I have been verbally & emotionally beat down and belittled for the last 4 years. We have no kids.

2007-04-10 09:54:20 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't want to offend him

2007-04-10 09:52:52 · 20 answers · asked by sassy1011984 2

Nothing from one or another will be share in case of divorce. everthing wich belongs to each other shall be and shall be forever.
what can i do do make my husband change this agreement becouse at the time I didn't know what I was sign.
Please help me!

2007-04-10 09:51:16 · 9 answers · asked by Lindona 1

2007-04-10 09:50:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i are constantley at eachothers throats. its almost like we like to fight with eachother. ive been wanting out of this relationship and just dont want to hurt him. now i have this guy who is interested in me. he doesnt want to get hurt either they are both being so nice to me and i cant seem to not be thinking about the new guy. what do i do with my husband. i guess you could say i have never soiled my wild oats i want to do that. the major thing is i also have 2 kids?

2007-04-10 09:46:34 · 5 answers · asked by jennie k 1

After having my twins (isabella and arianna), my boyfriend and I decided to get married. But after divorcing with my previous husband (becuase of drunkness), Rosalina doesn't want me to marry anybody. Desirey really likes him and wants me to marry him. Rosalina hit my boyfriend once whlie shouting "YOUR NOT MY DADDY! YOU WON'T BE MY DADDY!" That was a year ago, but she still isn't over it. With Isabella and Arianna, I'm afraid of what Rosalina will do. I know I'm going to marry him, but what should I do to help Rosalina understand that her first dad had to go and that this one is hers? Please give me suggestions. I already tried telling her, but she just refused to get over it. It's actually serious cause she's had that behavior for a year. I don't know how to make her happy. HELP! (if you see her asking questions on here, she likes to go on my name!)

2007-04-10 09:34:15 · 7 answers · asked by Holly S 1

i tried to get knocked up to heel the pain and lonliness of never being enough. FAILED. then i went into a depression knowing that i would never be enough. BORING. then i became anorexic and still am b/c it makes me feel a little better about myself, actually a lot. are there any other young women out there that feel how i do??? talk to me, please!! i look in the mirror and see the ugliest fattest and most stupid piece of **** in the world!!!! i feel i am a waste of life, and i engage in these things to feel better about myself...i did want baby....tell me if you feel like i do!!!

2007-04-10 09:26:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am writing a paper, and will welcome lengthy answers so don't hesitate to put your two sense in. Thanx.

2007-04-10 09:23:40 · 17 answers · asked by Linwe 1

It will be 4 yrs.

2007-04-10 09:17:38 · 14 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6

The DNA results were just revealed and he is the daddy. What do you think will happen now?

2007-04-10 08:45:43 · 13 answers · asked by bluemist 4

What's the difference between one a spouse that has cheated and one spouse telling lies.He also think the lies are not lies and are not a big deal.....Which is worse?

2007-04-10 08:28:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so, how did you get through it? And if you are the man, when/how did you "come out" of it??

2007-04-10 08:27:39 · 8 answers · asked by Michelle 2

well, me and my husband separated and i have no job no money cant work, i have a illness (bipolar disorder). my husband cheated on me and he said he didnt but i no he did bc of all of the evidence so we dont live together i just need help and answers i cant pay for a lawyer im s.o.l but the thing is im not sure how long u have to be wtih ur husband bf anything happends ive been with him for 6 years and been married for only 11/2 year so im not sure if that matters or not someone please help me!!

2007-04-10 08:24:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

12 year old boy very difficult. Will not listen. Very manipulative. Has his father wrapped around his finger. Help

2007-04-10 08:09:59 · 26 answers · asked by cummingsjennifer29 1

it was about an exgirlfriend who by the way lives with his sister down the street, ive always been fearful they would get back together and the other day we were going to split up for awhile and i asked him to promise me he woudnt go with her and he answered i cant, now i feel like he would if given the chance!

2007-04-10 08:06:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

This has become a very big problem in the country..
Many men and women are cheating each other!!
HIV affected people marry a normal person and after a year or 2 only the normal person cometo know about this!Then they will be having 1 or 2 kids also!!
Even many people committed suicide on knowing this!
Even this has been discussed in many television channel programmes!

Just feel free to tell your opinion regarding this!!!

2007-04-10 07:54:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

so whats more important? i love my husband and when we are apart i worry about him, but sometimes it feels like we do not connect...... BUT there is this man who i have been freinds with for over 15 yrs ... we new each other growing up ... i told him once he needed to grow up and some day we would meet again .. he did and we did.... dated for 8 weeks.best 8 weeks i had in a while ....I MISS HIM i came back to hubby , i love him but i cant get this other guy out of my mind!!! help!!!

2007-04-10 07:48:32 · 13 answers · asked by sissy 2

My 12 yr old son lives with father by his choice when I took him home after spending spring break with me his dads grndmthr had died and wanted my daughter (14) to stay for funeral. We were 6 hours from home and she had no clothes with her but he said he would take care of it. He borrowed her clothes for the funeral but she was there for 5 days and he didnt get her any panties toothbrush or anything like that. I am mad and feel like I should say something but she asked me not to and just says she is not going back. What would u do

2007-04-10 07:32:29 · 8 answers · asked by pickletbug 2

No wrong answers here.
Is it something about her appearance or something in the bedroom?
I really want to please my man, and need some ideas.
;)

2007-04-10 07:14:12 · 28 answers · asked by The Sweetness ASU 5

What's the difference between an annulment process and uncontested divorce ?

2007-04-10 07:06:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

its not the best way to go.....but if your spouse cheats, and you do too in retaliation....arent you then on a level playing field where things can be worked out?

2007-04-10 06:59:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Husband wants to continue our relationship, but he keeps showing he doesn't value our marriage. Then he is unhappy I have no enthusiasm for our marriage when he does these things. I gently declined celebrating our aniversary. If I find another man, what "Pete" says or does can't affect me as before. Yes, I've talked to him, but he just gets mad at me for not being happy.

2007-04-10 06:48:17 · 17 answers · asked by so tired 2

2007-04-10 06:41:30 · 19 answers · asked by lucky s 2

Every time someone asks a question or wants advice, I keep seeing people telling them to seek counseling. Are those people getting kick backs from the "counseling center"? It truly disgusts me that people think that if they have a minor problem, they need to go to a counselor for help. Other terms for counselor include Phsycologist, Therapist, Marriage Specialist, and Quack. You know, I once met a woman who claimed the title of "Marriage Specialist" and had never been married. Anyway, I think therapy is a waste of time in most cases and there are less expensive and more effective ways to make youself feel good about your life. I am just wondering if I am the only one who feels this way.
I know that there will be a bunch of answers that will tell me how right I am (hoping for that "best answer") and about as many that will tell me to seek counseling. I just want to know if there is anyone who will actually put true thought into giving me an answer.

2007-04-10 06:33:26 · 33 answers · asked by dadof7n2001 4

would you leave him on a gut feeling even though he protested his inocence ?

2007-04-10 06:33:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-10 06:30:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous