And if everything else is great... but if you can't stop thinking of hunk who can;t get enough of you...
2007-04-10 10:06:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
At first, you go for a compromise
If you push your advantage, you will have the other person think that you want the sex but not the person and they shut down altogether
2007-04-10 10:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why would someone extremely sexual commit to marriage with someone extremely unsexual? If it's THIS important, than it should have been thought of before jumping into the relationship. If it's not that important - well, then it's not a big deal, just enjoy what you have, and remember that you can't have everything.
2007-04-10 17:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If sex is SO important to you, why would you marry someone who isn't into it like you are?
Compatibility is a major key to marriages working out, and one of the major issues is sexual compatibility.
You might have picked the wrong one, and you might have to be honest about it sooner (before anything happens with someone else) than later (after you get caught with someone else.)
Here's a tip -
The next time you get married, marry someone with a sexual appetite that matches your own. There's much less chance of cheating that way.
2007-04-10 17:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by wrdsmth495 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear this from my friends all the time. There is so much more to marriage than this - mutual understanding, companionship, other like interests... but the truth is, you should know all this BEFORE you get married. After marriage, this get 50% worse. So if it wasn't there before you got married, how will a ring and a piece of paper make it any different? I've lost friendships over this and my unwillingness to keep quiet. Know your mate before you marry! That means you have to know yourself first.
2007-04-10 17:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by A B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure wouldn't CHEAT, like you seem to be wanting to do.
I'd have the person take a full physical exam, to rule out anything wrong that's causing low libido. If docs found nothing, I would work with my spouse to find ways to bring their desire up.
Perhaps you should have resolved this BEFORE you got married.
2007-04-10 17:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasize about the hunk but keep your hands off. Take care of what your spouse isn't yourself - buy a toy.
2007-04-10 17:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by ang_phx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly in these situations most sexual of the couple find their fulfillment elsewhere. But there is always good old masturbation. Try being more romantic with your partner and you might get MORE form them.
2007-04-10 17:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by lil~confused~one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be upfront with my spouse about it and try to at least come to a compromise on it. And if that fails, who knows....but I will still be as "Xtremly sexual" as I was before they tried to cut me off.
You can't deny yourself, you can only stall.
2007-04-10 17:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by arjo_reich 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For richer or poorer, in sickness and in health....
Ring a bell...Just learn to be happy and be as compassionate as you can be. It could be a temporary problem. Not worth doing anything you WILL regret later.
2007-04-10 17:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mourn
2007-04-10 17:12:02 · answer #10 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋