We had broken up 2 years ago. Is it normal to still fell lost and useless after 2 years. If so, how do I get over all these mixed up feelings?
2007-04-10 10:06:10 · 9 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes it is, they say it takes two months to every year so you got some time to do... good luck.. start dating that helps.
2007-04-10 10:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. November 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are your symptoms of "lost" and "useless"? I would suggest finding someone you trust to talk about all your feelings and get them out in the open. That is the best way to heal and move on. 10 years is a long time in my book and it could take a few years to get over the loss and guilt associated with a break up.
Find someone to talk to about all of it - it will help as you will be dealing with your feelings instead of doing nothing and it will loosen some of the power the past is holding over you. It will be okay - hang in there.
2007-04-10 17:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years is a long time to pine over someone still, get off the pity pot and get on with your life. That part of your life is a closed chapter. Accept it and move on. Go out with your friends, meet new people enjoy life.
2007-04-10 17:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I sort of disagree with the "move on" sentiment- you can't until you dig through all that.
It's not for everyone, but ---wallow, full-tilt. Really bury yourself in it. Get good and drunk, get out all your old pictures, reminisce about all of the times, especially the good ones, listen to your old music.
Shove your own nose in it. Every chance you get.
After not too very long, you're sick of it, and happy to move on.
Again, not for everyone, but it's worked for me.
2007-04-10 17:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by Hurricane77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to get a life and move on!! Stop wasting your years away wondering what could have been!
2007-04-10 17:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new dancing partner. That will help a lot.
2007-04-10 17:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you never get over them. You just keep going on.
2007-04-10 17:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she was "the one" for u.
U need to tell her.
Good luck.
2007-04-10 17:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choclate because chocolate is like the best medicine ever
2007-04-10 17:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by magdaly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋