happy or not?

Question

my husband and i are constantley at eachothers throats. its almost like we like to fight with eachother. ive been wanting out of this relationship and just dont want to hurt him. now i have this guy who is interested in me. he doesnt want to get hurt either they are both being so nice to me and i cant seem to not be thinking about the new guy. what do i do with my husband. i guess you could say i have never soiled my wild oats i want to do that. the major thing is i also have 2 kids?

Answer 1

Wow...you've got to decide on whether to leave your marriage or not based on it's own merits, not because you've got another man waiting for you on the side.

Answer 2

First, it's "sowed my wild oats"...second, you should have thought of that before you had kids. You need to grow up, your life is not only yours anymore, it belongs to those children. You made a promise to your husband when you got married and a promise to those kids when they were born, and you have to try to life up to those promises. If you must get a divorce, then you should stay single at least until your children are in thier teens...don't leave one man for another.

Answer 3

Thats a question only YOU can answer.
If u stay with your husband and fight all the time,That is NOT good for the kids.
If you leave your husband,They may hate u for it.
Do they want another man in their lives???

You need to think long and hard about this.....I wish you all the luck in the world.

Answer 4

You have children therefore your only concern is how to protect them. You and your husband should find someone to talk with to try to keep it together. Adding more men to the mix is not the answer either.

Answer 5

trust me if it's only because you want to soil your wild oats , that means when ur done and tires and want to settle down u might not be able to because u lost wat really means something just remember wat they say "you dont know wat you have until youve lost it"