Marriage & Divorce - 20 November 2006

2006-11-20 04:11:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-20 04:08:21 · 3 answers · asked by NayG 1

She is incredibly attractive and I see myself spending the rest of my life with her. I am 25 and she is only the 3rd person that I have been intimate with, the other two were one time hook ups. Here's the problem...over the past year I have really lost my sex drive. She thinks this is very abnormal, since most guys my age don't have this problem. I am not gay so I'll answer that before anyone suggests it. What can I do to increase my sex drive? I am very attracted to her, but it is almost like I don't have the energy to initiate sex as often as we would both like, and sometimes I find myself too tired, even when she initiates it. What can I do? I don't want her to think that I am messing around or that I don't love her...

2006-11-20 04:06:25 · 11 answers · asked by Apple 1

By the way I am female!

2006-11-20 04:03:02 · 28 answers · asked by JB 1

My ex.bf (Jordan) or well the only other guy i really dated beside mike) who i am engaged too. Dated 3 months my junior year of highschool while i as trying to make Mike jealous while on a break and two months my second year of college again while i as on a break from mike.Mike and Jordan were best friends from elementary school into highschool and stll friends now but dont talk that much.I started dating Mike at the end of 8 th grade and have been with him on and off ever since and i am now 24 yrs old and wanting to marry him. We are engaged but he does not believe in marriage and does not want kids(vasectomy)without telling me.I want all those things Jordan thinks that i am in love with the fairytale idea of being in love with someone since childhood and that mike is just comfortable.?

2006-11-20 04:02:22 · 7 answers · asked by Jessie L 1

she has had a problem on the internet for years been married 19 years an all of a sudden she wants a divorce my kids an me hav seen her doing it an giving out her phone number an where she lives i fear for my life as well my three boys what should i do

2006-11-20 04:01:07 · 7 answers · asked by danny b 1

We have lived together for 2 years, and I want to get married. I have been married before and have 3 daughters from that marriage. He has never been married and has no children. We have never really had a fight over anything substantial and always seem to get along well. He is very supportive in the raising of the girls, and in my attending school. I love him, but want to get married for security reasons and to show my daughters a positive marriage relationship...HELP me to understand why it's so important to him that we don't get married? He says he wants me to stay forever...confused!

2006-11-20 03:53:47 · 9 answers · asked by biology_nerd_76 2

One drunken night my wife told me about the men in her past and now I can't forget what she said, it makes it hard to have sex because thats what I think of her with other men I think it is destroying us.

2006-11-20 03:50:08 · 21 answers · asked by dstruan 2

It is in May in a Hotel and I would like my bridemaids in a greeny colour but havent any inspiration! Help!

2006-11-20 03:46:04 · 21 answers · asked by sara y 1

My heart is heavy after an affair was done to me and my son . . . I have filed for divorce & I want to move on in life, but I have some deep emotional scars that need healing....BUT I DON'T KNOW HOW!

2006-11-20 03:45:18 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3

Looking for ideas. We are a creative couple and to be honest there is not much that is off limits. We keep wanting to try new things and outside of a threesome which is on our list, we are running out of ideas. We can both be kinky and then other times romantic. We have nights full of sex and others of love making. Any ideas would be welcomed. We really want to try something erotic. We will probably be up for almost anything. We have borderlined on taboo before so please whatever you have through the ideas our way. The best answer will go to which ever one we choice to do this weekend

2006-11-20 03:39:07 · 14 answers · asked by cheeks230 3

State - Florida

2006-11-20 03:35:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the thing...My ex and I broke up a year ago because the separation got too hard (he is in the Navy) he will be home for Christmas and he told me that he wants to take me to a surprise place on the 19th of December. (That would have been our 3 year anniversary). What does this mean? I'm confused AND nervous!! Any thoughts?

2006-11-20 03:34:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-20 03:30:47 · 12 answers · asked by carlaerickson 5

I have a 15 month old baby now. Last week when we went out on a family trip with his relatives I was surprised to see that he was actually ignoring me. He wouldn't even care to sit next to me during the trip. He was more interested in talking to his people and holding other's babies. Now I am not being jealous here. But he was really ignoring me. What should I do? Even when we go to the supermarket or somewhere, he will always walk away from me. Earlier he would pay attention to me and display that. Now he doesn't care? When I try to sit and talk to him he says that nothing has changed and that I am imagining things. What can I do to make him care and show his affection for me? I cook all his favourite things that he hardly notices and I also try to be very innovative in bed, but after enjoying he simply rolls over to sleep. But he doesn't appreciate all that anymore. He doesn't even listen to me. I am very depressed. Can I do something that will make him pay more attention to me?

2006-11-20 03:30:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going through a seperation and I have a 3 year old son. My wife's family usually has a large, fun gathering at the holidays, while family has nothing going on. My wife is going to let me see my son on thanksgiving for a few hours and may even invite me to the family dinner. This is gong to be way too akward if I go to the family thing, but I have nothing to offer my son in the way of enjoying the holiday and do not want to take away from his holiday.

2006-11-20 03:24:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

actsthe exact same way towards a woman, it's called 'abuse'? What's the difference?

2006-11-20 03:15:25 · 10 answers · asked by kardea 4

Please answer my question?????
Does anyone know that when you have a court ordered child support to have it taken from your paycheck, (the child support is taken out weekly btw) you work in one state, but pay support in another, is it a federal law or do you go by state law on when to pay the support by? Because my husband's work has been withholding money but not sending it right away, when this went into effect they took out every week for a month and then sent the months for the next months payment, which caused him to miss an entire month. Is there anything we can do, the state the money is suppose to go to says they should have sent it for that month, and the payroll lady says she doesn't have to send it weekly. Thats not how the state we live in now does it. Who should we contact for help. Can anyone help us??

2006-11-20 03:13:55 · 3 answers · asked by pandiepoo 1

Ok, I have been on Zoloft for a month now and I have stayed away from drinking and any other drugs of any kind. I am trying to take really good care of myself. Unfortunately, I got really trashed and high the other night and went crazy. I can normally hold my liquor but I thing it was mixing wrong with the pills. Anyways, I went crazy on my hubby and am feeling very depressed. I keep dwelling on what happened even though my hubby seems to be trying to forget about it. I guess what I am wondering is... How can I make it up to him? I was not acting myself and I feel terrible.

2006-11-20 03:10:47 · 17 answers · asked by goldie89lynn 1

My husband recently got a job offer making six figures in his home town. The company was willing to pay $20,000 in relocation. But his work history for the past 4 years is unstable. He has lost 7 jobs since 2002 in the range of $70,000-90,000 mainly due to showing up late and excessive absences. He even lost 1 for using the corporate credit card for personal use. So I told him that my son and I would join him later because I wanted to make sure that this job would last before I move and give up a my stable job. After receiving the relo money, I can only account for $5000 spent. After 2 weeks, he was broke, but nothing to show for it. He paid the movers with a bad check and said when he got his first paycheck, he would settle the balance. I received phone calls from family that he had not been going to work consistently or on time. On Nov 2, he was fired and blamed it on me calling his work number too much. The moving co is about to auction our stuff and he wont talk to me.

2006-11-20 03:06:54 · 19 answers · asked by Erica W 1

Human relationships are wrought with conflict. The trouble I see with western society is that so few understand that staying married and building a successful marriage takes work, wisdom, time, and effort.

Jumping from relationship to relationship doesn't work because wherever you go, there you are. In other words the problems you had in your first marriage will follow you into the rest of your romantic relationships.

The key is to work on yourself to learn to effectively communicate and share your whole self in a loving way with your spouse, even when it isn't easy. Nothing worthwhile ever is.

2006-11-20 03:03:57 · 11 answers · asked by Myrmaad 2

2006-11-20 03:02:26 · 2 answers · asked by theprincesskgb 2

I am having problems with my husband because he's been jobless for half a year already. I wouldn't be this upset if I saw that he's putting effort into looking for a job, but he hasn't. It's been half a year already, and I want to quit my job, too, but I can't because then how would I pay the bills? I do Data Entry and my hands are already killing me. If I saw him get up early and take a look at the newspaper for jobs, then I would understand...but all he does is sleep in and play his PlayStation videogames. It's driving me mad and it's killing my admiration for him. Any advice on this situation? I'm thinking about giving him a "scare"...which I wish I didn't have to do, but it looks like the only alternative right now.

2006-11-20 03:00:05 · 13 answers · asked by Diana 3

One of my ex boyfriends got married early this month. I know this because his mom still emails me - 4 years after we broke up. The break up was my doing - he wanted to get married and I didn't. Less then a year later I met a great guy and married him, we've been married over a year now. Anyway, I have been waiting to get an email from my ex's mom regarding the wedding. 3 weeks have passed and nothing! No emails from her. Is this odd? Don't most people like to brag about their children's weddings to everyone they know? When I got married, I emailed her pictures from our wedding and everything. My ex has no problem with her writing to me and even gave her the OK to do so...do you think she's not truly happy that he's wedded now? Why wouldn't she write?

2006-11-20 02:56:09 · 20 answers · asked by Rachel 7

2006-11-20 02:54:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems like no matter how we work on her she never orgasms, sometimes when stimulating her clit, she will just start to tickle a lot and wants me to stop. Any suggestions??

2006-11-20 02:54:45 · 13 answers · asked by jimbob 1

My 8 y/o son was abandoned by his mother and now lives with me .. after enrolling him in school today I realized that nothing was done in court for this change so I am still on the hook for child support. How do I go about getting these payments to stop since i have him living with me now?

2006-11-20 02:52:18 · 9 answers · asked by Kahlil G 1

I have asked her about this and she said she is jut bored since I work late hours. When I asked her about it, she first said she only chats, but I already found out they have called each other on the phone. I asked her again about the phone, and then she said it is just easier to talk on the phone then chat on line. Should I be upset? What should I do?

2006-11-20 02:51:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been legally seperated 2 yrs. My kids on their own and I'm living with friends. My son wants to have Thanksgiving at his house which is fine, but my ex- and his mother and dad are going to be there too. I am just bummed out and don't really want to be around him or his family. I understand the kids see it as mom and dad, and we had it last year together and it was o.k. but my feelings have changed alot toward him and I haven't seen him in 6 months and really don't care too since he's the one that wanted the seperation...Sooo what should I do?

2006-11-20 02:49:09 · 17 answers · asked by Spanky 1

Is there a difference between one night stand and a affair in man`s mind?

2006-11-20 02:47:21 · 11 answers · asked by Gilmor 1