Ok, I have been on Zoloft for a month now and I have stayed away from drinking and any other drugs of any kind. I am trying to take really good care of myself. Unfortunately, I got really trashed and high the other night and went crazy. I can normally hold my liquor but I thing it was mixing wrong with the pills. Anyways, I went crazy on my hubby and am feeling very depressed. I keep dwelling on what happened even though my hubby seems to be trying to forget about it. I guess what I am wondering is... How can I make it up to him? I was not acting myself and I feel terrible.
2006-11-20 03:10:47 · 17 answers · asked by goldie89lynn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why did he let you get that far out of control? If I knew my wife was taking pills that might impact her ability to control herself when drinking, I certainly would have stopped her from getting trashed. Then you get high on top of it all. Man, there are some serious issues here beyond an apology. As you grabbed that glass, or picked up that joint, or snorted that line, you yourself caused this. If this how you both want life to continue, then sure just stop talking about it and move on, becasue then it will likely happen again and again. However, if you are really sorry, and you really care about yourself and your husband, maybe it is time to take a close look at your life and decide if these kinds of activities are what you should be doing. Don't buy the liquor, or the drugs or go to the parties that have them. You control what goes into your body, no one else.
2006-11-20 03:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do at this moment would be to seek counseling. This would be beneficial for you and your relationship. Mixing any type of medication with alcohol or drugs could have produced a worst outcome than the one that was caused. Simply saying sorry to your husband or doing something special won't make things better for the long term, because what will happen if you get trashed again while on medication? It's not fair to yourself, your hubby, or your family.
2006-11-20 03:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by tobornot2b2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way that you can make it up to him and also to yourself is to get treatment for this problem with alcohol. Obviously if you don't have a problem with alcohol you would not have needed to drink. Many women being treated for depression can also be suffering from alcoholism. Call AA in your area and go to a meeting and see if this may be your problem. Every sober day that you have makes up for one of those drunk days where you made his life or someone elses unhappy. Good luck and don't worry there are many other woman out there who have been through the same thing and are happily married and sober today.
2006-11-20 03:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you realize you could of had a heart attack right?
If hubby is trying to forget, then let it go. Just make sure you stay on your meds, and off the alcohol, and other drugs.
Being sorry means changing behavior. Show him you really are sorry by not repeating the behavior.
2006-11-20 03:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by LucyLinnae M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's human to learn lessons the hard way. Either drop the booze or the pills, so you dont have to feel guilty again.
As for your hubby, drop the story, he did.
Dont procrastinate.
2006-11-20 03:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by reene2g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stupid... i became severe, my pals have been meant to flow to Tim Hortons and convey me back a donut collectively as I stayed back with yet another chum. They spent my money on a sandwich and that i screeched and bawled because of the fact i did now not have that i did now not have my donut. It became somewhat obnoxious and unusual... under the effect of alcohol is extra relaxing... My brother's have been given me under the effect of alcohol at my one brothers wedding ceremony and that i had to flow to the washing room. It became like the eighth time and many times I 'hover' the seat and this time, I did that and fell superb over. It made a noisy noise and human beings have been like wtf. yet i became guffawing so it became very nicely... I wasn't even that under the effect of alcohol...
2016-12-17 13:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by kleid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't drink on medication . Make him understand that thats what happened. The mixture can be very bad , and you had to find out the hard way.
2006-11-20 03:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that a sincere apology to him would be sufficient...He seems to be OK with it. I don't think I'd make a big deal of it. Set it go and try not to get that way again.....
2006-11-20 03:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... sounds like you def. mixed the wrong pills and alcohol!!
you shouldn't be doing that anyway... your hubby should be upset with you, no t o mention concerned with your health!
2006-11-20 03:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen if your husband loves you.....saying your sorry...you really didn't mean for that to happen, it was a mistake to mix your pills and alcohol...should be enough for him to forgive you....
Just be patient with him....if things get back to normal soon, he''ll come around..
Take care.and good luck to you.........
2006-11-20 03:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋