I stated in one other question I posted and I promise this will be the last, but I am tormented. I have been married for 23 yr. Only having ever dated hubby since high school. Didn't even sleep w/him til I married him! Imagine that. I have always been verbally abused. Sometimes terribly. He used to hit, shove, slap and grab by the throat. I got that stopped finally about a year ago. But I cannot get what I feel to be abuse-verbal-stopped. Sometimes, its more in the tone than in what is said.have Tried doing the reverse pschy thing and when I do that then I am s**t stirring according to him when he gets it back. Tried writing him emails at work where he was away from me to read hoping that would work, asked for unspoken prayer requests at church, you name it I have done it to try to get it stopped. I am a kind hearted person, I believe. Now the physical, I don't mean to imply that was an every day occurence. It wasn't. some good years, but the damage is done emotionally....
2006-11-20
15:36:53
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cindybd
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