If your woman has proof of your infedelity, do you continue to deny it or fess up cause youve been busted to try to salvage some morality in the relationship?
2006-11-20 15:24:59 · 9 answers · asked by Malaikablu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can't answer this since I've never been the one cheating, but I would tell you to gather so much info that he can't deny it.
But here's a question. Do you really want to be with someone who has 1.) cheated on you - probably more than once 2.) needs you to put so much proof in front of him to admit it that he has no where else to turn but to be finally honest, or at least honest enough to get through the situation?
This person has destroyed the trust in the relationship, twice. If you think he won't again... just give it time.
2006-11-20 15:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by bigwheeler19 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I depends on why I was involved with the second woman: if it was a one-night stand, then it's better to admit it and get it over with; if you're on the way out of the first relationship then it's all about how you want to hurt her: try to cover it up, then slide away, or come clean and end it there. Either way it's never pretty.
2006-11-20 15:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by Sage B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deny, deny, deny, then I'd deny some more. What good is morality at that point anyway?? She's gonna believe it anyway and you nothing you could say would justify it, and it would be over no matter what.
2006-11-20 15:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I too would have to deny. The tires could be coming off the car, but I would still deny.
2006-11-20 23:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by Dirty Red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends...i always say deny unless youre caught in penetration shots. If theres proof like that it really doesnt matter...its a yes or no question on the spouses/girl-boyfriends part now isnt it?
2006-11-20 15:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think the guy would confess. What's the point in lying if you've been caught out there!
2006-11-20 15:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd confess. Of course, I'd never cheat, but I'd come clean if I did.
2006-11-20 15:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by jperk1941 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confess and let her know that I am sorry and let her know that it won't happen again 'cause I love her hot sexy body/////
2006-11-20 15:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would fess up and ask for forgiveness....sob...sob...
2006-11-20 15:28:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋