Marriage & Divorce - 20 November 2006

2006-11-20 12:05:46 · 10 answers · asked by fpar1810 1

Before I met my husband I had been through alot such as rape and molested as a child....adopted...etc....we have now been married for 4 years and he is the best in the world to me EVER. I think sometimes I go off the deep end at the smallest things. I dunno why I have developed into a person that demands that he bow down to me. For some reason I have to feel in charge ALL the time. When Im alone and thinking I know its wrong, but when he is around and helping the best he can Im all B*t*hy. I know I hurt his feeling telling him I could have done better and such and that he has ruined my life...when in actuality he has made my life. PLEASE help me....how do I change my attitude and will the mean things that Ive said to him ever heal?

2006-11-20 11:50:36 · 18 answers · asked by Brianna M 2

I love my husband, but lately I haven't been in 'the mood'. We have a very loving marriage and have a wonderful sex life ususlly. But there are still somethings in our life we haven't figured out. The only constant is I love him until the day I die, but he doesn't really show me how much he loves me sometimes. He talks to girls online and on the phone and it makes me feel less loved. I will not leave him, But it is making me not want to have sex with him. How can I get over these feelings? Serious answers only. Don't bother with post saying leave him or divorce him, thats not an option. I just want to know anyone who has advice for me on this subject.

2006-11-20 11:45:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is a pretty tough guy. He can scrape himself up and barely take notice, and he isn't the type that need constant attention. But god forbid if he gets sick! He always seems so miserable. He'll be complaining about symptoms I had a week earlier though that I didn't think were enough to even really take notice. I don't know if he just gets sicker with the same bugs, or if he has a lower pain tolerance or what. I feel bad because I have to admit I'm not the most sympathetic person with sick people....but come on! What do you think? Do men get sicker than women, do they feel the pain worse, or are they just being babies about it?

2006-11-20 11:37:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-20 11:18:10 · 5 answers · asked by patricia n 1

2006-11-20 11:15:59 · 6 answers · asked by yves r 1

My friend's parents are going through a really messy divorce. and i mean REALLY messy. Many times, shes called me, bawling her eyes out, because of various things about her parents divorce. it's really starting to affect her with her school work and her judgement, and just overall as a person. Just last night, she called me up, crying, because her mom told her that she had to choose between her two parents, because, they wont accept each other just for their daughter's sake. I can't just watch my friend go through this, but i really don't know what to tell her, because i've never really been through that sort of thing. What should I say or being doing to help my friend in this situation?

2006-11-20 11:10:40 · 7 answers · asked by iheartmj4ever 1

2006-11-20 11:08:28 · 13 answers · asked by Babycakes 1

he tell's me that i have to find the girl for we can have the 3 some i told him no and he tell me his going to do it with me or with out me and he said that is not cheatting because he is telling me he really want to do this with me but i just can't what can i do to keep him not to do this ? and now he telling me he was kidding but i don't belive him another thing he said it's his fantasy but i think is bull ****!!!!!!!! what would you do or say to a person like this.

2006-11-20 11:07:02 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Wife and I met when i was 16 and she was 14. We dated for a year and half before doing anything (even kissing). Well we are now 23 and 20(almost 21). We have a son that is 3 years old. We moved away a year and half ago to washington state for the military. We just moved back 6 months ago. Well here is where I messed up. I became really controlling and pretty mean. I got mad at the littlest things. I didn't know I was doing it untill she sat down and told me, that I was making her unhappy. Well I tried to change and she gave me about a month and a half. I went back and forth. From good to bad.. then in the last two weeks I was doing good... Untill I did it again. I got mad because she was going somewhere and I wanted to go. but I didn't want to be in the way. So I was tied between two things and got mad at myself which I took out on her. I LOVE HER with all my heart but she left me about two weeks ago. Can I get her back, should I just lay low and hope for the best?

2006-11-20 10:57:58 · 13 answers · asked by Justin N 1

We have been married for almost 6 years but have been together for almost 10 years. we used to make Love and have SEX all the time...b4 kids. Now when he wants to do it, i cant seem to want to.im just not feeling it anymiore with him. dont get me wrong, he does tell me he loves me and that im beautiful and brings me flowers and takes care of his family, I just dont know why i just cant anymore. By the time he does arouse me, i REALLY want it. but when we are about to, i just cant or just dont want to. he tells me that i make up too many excuses. at times he thinks that he doesnt turn me on anymore. i dont know...HELP!

2006-11-20 10:56:11 · 13 answers · asked by forever_21 1

My husband and I live in Maryland with our son and my daughter, his stepdaughter. My exhusband also lives in Maryland and we have joint custody however she is with my husband and I over 200 nights a year. My ex says if we were to both die he would want her to live with her aunt. I said we should let her live with my husband and sibling. What woud happen or how can I make it so if the ex and I both die the stepfather would get her?

2006-11-20 10:53:48 · 17 answers · asked by mrs thomson 1

I know its only overweight and men that snore extremely bad. So do any of you young slender woman snore the roof off? Did any of you think you might snore but werent sure? Or do any of have videos of you snoring and were shoked to see them?

2006-11-20 10:49:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband wants to get his ex-wifes name tattooed on his arm with a knife going through it. Does anyone know what this symbolizes and also I don't want him to get it. It just seems to weird to me,he has been divorced for 4 years and she was having sex with another man in there bed and he caught them.

2006-11-20 10:44:32 · 16 answers · asked by Kelly 2

I am the type of person who really wants a family of my own, with my own children (not adopted -- I have nothing against adoption though, of course). The apparent problem, though, is that I have a definite physical attraction toward men, and USUALLY women don't really excite me too much, sexually speaking. I understand how important and beneficial it is to a child growing up to have both of his/her parents in their life, with full love and attention from both of them. This basically brings me to my main question: Can a marriage between a gay man and a straight woman, who is aware that the man is gay, work? This is also assuming that both partners love each other, even if one of them will always have an attraction to the same sex. Thanks for the input in advance.

2006-11-20 10:38:36 · 15 answers · asked by Sal F 1

It could be 2 years or 15 years or even 30 years...they just seem to lose it and go to them..Why?

2006-11-20 10:31:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-20 10:28:50 · 16 answers · asked by Silva 6

2006-11-20 10:25:58 · 31 answers · asked by Silva 6

They want to be treated fair and equal but not in family court and child custody where they want special treatment because they are women. I thought that according to them there is nothing a man can do and a woman cannot, so why is the reverse not true? Why am I discriminated against a so called equal rights group because I’m a man?
I have asked these types of questions before and no one has yet come up with any other reason except that since they bore the child they are entitled to special treatment and simultaneously down play my relationship with my child.
Our society tells us not to be a dead-beat-dad and pay for your kids child support and if you don’t (or more realistically, you can’t afford it) you will go to jail. However, when you say, ‘Hey I want half time with my kids. I’m not a dead-beat, I want my children’, these groups treat it as ‘hold on there buddy, when we said don’t be a dead-beat we just meant for you to pay your support like a good boy and see your children

2006-11-20 10:20:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-20 10:19:36 · 13 answers · asked by nashvillekat 6

My husband and I have been having problems for a couple years now. Saturday He threw me over the edge in a stunt that involved our two children (3 and 1 year old). You can see the explanation of this on my previous questions "dead beat or over reaction". I have explored my options, and in Idaho for legal aid I have to attend 7 classes to qualify. In the meantime I can file a temporary restraining order (2 weeks) to get him out of the house while I sort through things and get packed. At the end of two weeks I can request permission from the court to move, and extend the order (until the divorce is final). Has anyone ever gone this route? If so did it work? It's looking like my only option as funds are limited, and I feel like I need to act now before things get worse. Any advice would be appreciated :)

2006-11-20 10:05:45 · 4 answers · asked by Mrs. Lucky 5

I found out that my ex was actually sleeping with her current boyfriend for about a year before we split up. Does anyone have any ideas for getting my revenge?

2006-11-20 10:01:52 · 43 answers · asked by HIMSELF 3

My wife is obsessed with other people's lives. She constantly watches reality television and looks at myspace videos online. Looks for people she knows or know her. Its like thats all she does. It makes me ill. What can I do? Just accept it. I dont think she would like it if I did that. Its BS im just pissed cause her entire down time in life is MTV, VH1, and MYSPACE.

2006-11-20 09:57:47 · 21 answers · asked by lightlytread 2

2006-11-20 09:49:13 · 12 answers · asked by Paul H 2

Ok, this is embarassing, but I hadn't had sex for nearly two years. Well I started having sex again about 2 months ago. However it seems like I don't have orgasms as much as I used too.My sex life was good. Now it seems like it takes forever and thats even if I have one. I love my husband and I am attracted to him, but I don't understand. I also had a baby almost 2 years ago could it be because of that? Please help. Please no rude comments.

2006-11-20 09:47:45 · 12 answers · asked by Susa 3

I've been hanging out with this man and he had been seperated from his wife for a while. The problem is he looked for me ten years ago under totally different circumstances. Now, I'm newley divorced and he was supposed to be getting a divorce and I allowed myself to fall in love with him. How do you deal with the pain and shame from a situation like this?

2006-11-20 09:42:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-20 09:41:27 · 17 answers · asked by KITTEN 1

2006-11-20 09:40:13 · 26 answers · asked by Paul H 2

Why is it ok for a man to have a wife and one or more mistresses in western culture, but polygamy is banned? Isn't it more respect for a woman to be a mans wife. Why do people look down on polygamy, but the divorce rate is so high in this culture and the reason for most marriages are infidelity. Maybe the man still loves his first wife, but falls in love with another woman too. Polygamy would solve this. There are also more men than women in the world. Polygamy would allow the other women who would otherwise remain single to get married. What is your opinion?

2006-11-20 09:39:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want his forgiveness how do i get it?

2006-11-20 09:36:39 · 19 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4