Marriage & Divorce - 20 November 2006

He's 29 yrs old. Doesn't smoke, doesn't drink coffee, doesn't do drugs or take any prescriptions. He eats healthy, exercises and drinks socially.

Problem, he has difficulties getting an erection, maintaining an erection and has premature ejaculation.

We've been together for almost 2 years. I feel I have been extremely patient, tender & caring. After 2 years of complete patience & understanding on my part, he still doesn't see that there's a problem. He has not slept with many women (only 3 including me). He has never been able to get a 2nd erection within 24 hours - sometimes that is even pushing it. We only get to see each other on weekends, so honestly he's only erect for one round which will last a couple of minutes. I am left feeling so hurt and angry as I put all my effort into helping him get an erection and I'm left hanging all the time - and I do mean all the time.

I tried to tell him to see a doctor and he had no clue as to what I'm was talking about???

2006-11-20 13:57:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked "why is my husband so hot?" I got deletet and I got a violation message. How stupid is that? I've seen questions on here that contain some offensive stuff, but they don't get deletet. Could it be that someone complained or something?
Maybe they can not deal with it that my husband really is that H-O-T! ;o)

2006-11-20 13:57:35 · 12 answers · asked by pearl_682 3

He moved in with her immeditaely. He doesn't call about the kids. Why is this? He doesn't even call his parents to ask about the kids. Is he having second thoughts about leaving us? Does he need a break? Or is he falling in love with her? It has only been 12 days. I am dying to know why he wouldn't be calling. he says he still loves me, and I will always be his best friend...NO RUDE answers please, I know I shouldn't want him, but we have kids, I only want answers as to WHY,

2006-11-20 13:51:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

and was chatting on line with other females and telling them he was single? When i asked him about it he lied and said he had no clue what i was talking about.is it to early in our relationship(6 mons) for me to feel like he should just be with me?

2006-11-20 13:49:17 · 21 answers · asked by sarahmartin0990 1

2006-11-20 13:38:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-20 13:32:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had my husband a 50 surprise birthday party his sister and husband lives 2 1/2 hoursaway they did not attend stayed at there home for a football party that the football game was on our tv also his sistter her husband and brother did not attend they live in the same town we do they went to the sister that lives out of toen but they called our house a ruin his surprice party for him he had no idea untill they called im so upset. they called to wish him a happy birthday and sorry they could not be at our house. please give me some advice thanks

2006-11-20 13:29:23 · 12 answers · asked by lippy 1

I live in Fl and my soon to be ex husband lives in NY. I am trying to sell my house here in Fl. He has never lived here. He is telling me he is going to put a lean on my house because he wants money from it. Can he do that?

2006-11-20 13:27:09 · 5 answers · asked by mandypants2006 2

2006-11-20 13:20:58 · 25 answers · asked by Dark Side 2

2006-11-20 13:16:13 · 13 answers · asked by sweetre2 3

2006-11-20 13:15:56 · 4 answers · asked by angel0762 1

We work opposite shifts and I am pregnant right now, and have a 2 year old...how do I get him to understand that I need his help?

2006-11-20 13:13:43 · 13 answers · asked by E 3

whened my husband getts to obese 2 do anything will i have to tye his shoes and scratched his back and feed him and light his ciggeretts? his docter made him cut back on smokeing to lower his blood pressured and he has been getting fattter!!! he used to smoke 4 or 5 packs a day,,,, now thanked to you guz helps on Y! answers he has cutted back to 2 packs per day (one pack of malbor0 untralights and 1 pack of unfilter PAll Mall) and chews tabacco the rested of the day. i am proud of him!! his blood pressured did come down a little bit!!! the problem is that he eats 4 meels a day at macdonals. his gut is too big!!!! he has been playing the lottory 2 much 2. he can barly fit into his hyndia accent!! i doonot want to do everythings for him when he becomed toooooo big!!! i needs time to smoke also,,,,,, so do i reelly have to take care of him or should i make my kids do somed of the works? thank$$ for your help everyone!!!

2006-11-20 13:13:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wish he had not let me know. Now I feel that I am in a no-win situation. If I tell on him, I lose him as a friend. If I don't tell my girlfriend ( I was her maid of honour ), I feel like I have betrayed her and can no longer look at her in the eye. The good news is that he says it s over with the other woman.

2006-11-20 13:12:47 · 23 answers · asked by Lois L 5

My boyfriend of a year proposed, and i'm not even sure if I want to be with him. He acts so sweet at times, but has really scared me other times. It seems the only time he really responds to me is when i'm a total b**ch. I don't want to end up with an emotionally abusive man like my father.

2006-11-20 13:08:10 · 31 answers · asked by herbmom 2

I found out a few weeks ago that my husband has been cheating on me for 10 mths. He never used protection with her and was sleeping with me also. He lied and told her that he was divorcing me and is now telling me he did it just to get her to sleep with him. We have been married almost eleven years and have a nine year old. The best part is that he put an ad out online to meet singles and this is how he found her. He wants to work it out but I can't trust him and ended up kicking him out today. I feel so bad for my daughter but I hate him. Could others just tell me what they think for real no nasty comments.

2006-11-20 13:02:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want him out of my life...But then when he doesnt call or bother me anymore I miss it and I wonder where he's at.

2006-11-20 13:01:10 · 10 answers · asked by Licha 1

if you had the money would you pay off his divorce debt of 30k? What would you think if you said no and he said he would have to reconsider your relationship with him as he would do it for you. The old if you love me why won't you help me out.

2006-11-20 13:01:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My kids are 14 and 15 years old. They don't want to spend time with their father. The agreement we had specified certain holidays as well as every other weekend. This agreement was made when the kids were in grade school. The agreement also states that my ex is to pay child suppport on the 1st and the fifteenth of every month. He is always late. Do my kids have any legal rights in this matter? Hasn't my ex already broken the agreement by never paying the child support as agreed?

2006-11-20 12:57:36 · 3 answers · asked by ww 2

Recently, my husband had a dream that I was cheating on him with a preacher. Then, I had a dream that my husband cheated on me...and in my dream we were talking about it and I was crying. Just a couple days ago, he had a dream that he cheated on me with my pregnant friend at someone's house. Then, in the morning, in the dream, I came to pick him up. He whispered to his friend, "Shhh...don't tell her."

This is so crazy and funny to us.

Disclaimer: I'm not relying solely on these dreams. I'm just wondering what you guys think about all these dreams. Thanks

2006-11-20 12:56:47 · 10 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4

I met someone online and we're both very much in love with one another. She is 10 years younger than I am, but we look great together. I am no longer in love with my wife, long before I met April (not her real name). How can I tell my wife that I no longer have any feeling for her ? I have been neglected because of her gambling problem. Lots of time, I slept alone (at least 3 or 4 days a week). I have found new love. Should I just pack and move on ?

2006-11-20 12:47:18 · 39 answers · asked by dn.dan_6575 1

2006-11-20 12:47:17 · 8 answers · asked by kal-el 1

It started with just internet porn in 96 and chatting to women online, followed by cybersex with 3 to 4 women every time he was able to get on since 98. I have three kids and no idea this was going on. I found him in 96 doing this and told him I couldn't marry him - he said it was just left over from college, no big deal - he didn't know it bothered me. All this time he has been lying to me, going to church (Catholic) and pretending to have this great family. I think I want to leave but I'm worried about the effect on my children. You should also know that I've had a life threatening illness for three years and the stress is not good for me - although according to a therapist, stress from divorce isn't so hot either.

He is seeing a therapist and swears he'll never do it again but he has estimated that he has had cybersex with about 4000 since 96. I never once cheated (in any way) or lied to my husband. I just didn't think that's what you did in a good marriage. Any thoughts...

2006-11-20 12:44:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My marraige is in stasis right now because my wife feels she has lost the passion and excitement she felt for me the first few years we were married. She says she still feels it in the bedroom, just not when she glances at me throughout the day. Right now I am living at a freinds house, because my wife and I are seperated. She started seeing someone and had an affair while we were seperated. She said she felt what she had been missing with this man, but the affair is over, we have talked about getting counselling and getting back togetherbut she is uncertain she cannot those same feelings for me. But i want to know what is wrong with her? I am a fairly handsome, well groomed and muscular man, I always make sure my wife is well taken care of in the bedroom. I love her with all of my heart and I just want to know what I should do

2006-11-20 12:43:44 · 19 answers · asked by thunderchunkie1 1

He hade that big wedding and gave his wife anything she wanted, that means he got a man on the side.

2006-11-20 12:31:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

For my birthday, he gave me nothing, we spent my birthday taking his mother around, that was fine with me but after the day was over, I still got nothing from him. No gift, nothing. when I told him how I felt, all he could say was "sorry". and that was it. When I went back to work, my co-workers took me to lunch for a birthday meal and got me a cake. I hinted to my husband about that and all he said was "that's nice". I later told him again, and he said "well what do you want". Oh come on..so sarcastely I said why dont you buy me a cake and then give me a card, but make sure you sign your name on it and buy me some roses.yeah, that's real romantic. I have to tell my husband what to get me rather then having it come straight from the heart. But again, nothing..all I got was a sorry. So later on, after arguing so much, he finally went out and bought me chocolate.All he said was "fine, I will go and get you some candy." what kind of present is that.
What should I do with him?

2006-11-20 12:31:40 · 26 answers · asked by cvezsays 1

I feel like I am made to give my hubby oral sex. He knows before we got married that I really didnt care to do this? However, If I really get in the mood I will do it. But lately I feel like he is making me do it! He enjoys doing oral to me, I told him it doesnt bother me if he doesnt want to do it! That I would understand but he says he LOVES doing it to me. Lately when he gets done doing it to me he brings hisself to my mouth (his private part) & pushes my head towards it. I have talked to him about this & told him that when he does this it makes me feel like I am being mad to do it. He said, he shouldnt have to do that to get me to do it. But if thats what he has to do he will. I told him I would like to do it on my own when I am in the mood to do it rather then feeling like I am being made to do it. Do you think I am over reacting? Should I be feeling like this? I have been up front with him from the being, that I didnt like doing it all the time, before we were married,

2006-11-20 12:22:39 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many of you find it a turn-on to fool around in public, where there's the chance you might be seen/watched?

2006-11-20 12:22:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

and brings them to australia to abuse ,hit us and put us down why do they do this why?

2006-11-20 12:07:18 · 10 answers · asked by goodheart girl 1

when there r so many things r going around the world?Do anybody here cares?

2006-11-20 12:06:44 · 5 answers · asked by kiran123 2